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bigdog0311 · 10-17-2010, 03:26 PM

I would like to know what is going on. I called Jaymi-Lyn, http://dallas.backpage.com/BodyRubs/...ff-25/10432023 on Saturday to see if she could see me and she said she was booked, (that happens), but she said she was working on Sunday and had plenty of openings, so I said I would think about it and called her back about 30 minutes later and had to leave a VM, told her I would like to see her Sunday, she called me back in less than an hour and she wanted to know what time, I told her, she said it was good for her, but to call in the morning to verify and she would text me directions. I called around 9:30 am and left another VM and started to get ready, but she never text me back, so at the appointment time, I text her and asked why she NCNS me, no response.

So I called another BP ad, http://dallas.backpage.com/BodyRubs/...er-23/11169671 and she said could see me and I went on over to her office at the appointed time and she NCNS and I called her, she hung up without saying anything.

So then I just went to the strip club and got a waitress to give me a back/neck/shoulder massage, tipped her .4 and she brought over a dancer, she gave me some good dances....

and I left happy about that.

Ladies, too many men, not enough time to fit them all in? No decency to give a guy a call to let them know you cannot/will not be able see them?

bigmarv · 10-17-2010, 03:36 PM

Good move on going to your local SC. Sounds like you were able to adapt and overcome.

bigdog0311 · 10-18-2010, 06:09 AM

so no insightful responses from providers? Amazing, when you consider all the posts bitching about they do not have enough or much business!

TheBizzer · 10-18-2010, 08:48 AM

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Originally Posted by bigdog0311

so no insightful responses from providers? Amazing, when you consider all the posts bitching about they do not have enough or much business!

So because 2 girls stood you up you now want a collective apology from all of them?

Guest082216-1 · 10-18-2010, 09:03 AM

I suggest you contact the providers involved if you desire more info. No one here can tell you much other than sorry it happened.

Guest030617 · 10-18-2010, 09:52 AM

i think it sucks that you had 2 ncns all in the same day!!!
luckly you knew just were to go!!

I dont think hes asking for an apology from all the providers, but an explanation for why girls do that!!!

To be 100% honest, when i first started out in this game, i took the one with the most money...say for instant, you called a day ahead of time and you were for 30 mins....appointment set up ok, then that morning someone else calls and wants an hr for that time, i use to take that hour with no regards to you. I use to do that, NOT anymore.

Reason for NCNS's....
more money
she might not of known that your a guy that can write this about her and hurt SOME of her business
she might of just thought you were some guy from backpage, that ncns's us all the time so she didnt care to call you
she really might of been scared you were the popo, who knows, girls get vibes weither or not they are right or wrong they go on them just like guys!!
she might of had something really wrong with her
she might of had a pimp that punched her and she embarrassed about the black eye
her momma had a car accident
etc
etc
etc

POINT BLANK.....you dont know and prob never will period

I dont get why you guys or women for that matter care to much, Time as proven that this will happen over and over as long as this hobby exist!!!
Make a plan B or even a C for that matter and move on

I do think we should have a section for providers and hobbist that do NCNS...Blast them

Remember i said i USE to do this thats why i know some of the reason why providers do it

CenterLock · 10-18-2010, 10:38 AM

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Originally Posted by bigdog0311

so no insightful responses from providers? Amazing, when you consider all the posts bitching about they do not have enough or much business!

Noticing both are BP ads for women that don't post here, I venture to say neither of them were saying their business was slow on any thread here. That said, I cannot fathom a response from any provider being better than "it happens". BDS does a good job listing examples, but it still results in "it happens". Some people are That way. Some circumstances result in that happening with people who aren't. Move on. You want better results, stick with women you can know more about. Even then - I assure you - it can STILL happen.

I do applaud BDS for admitting This from her past. So often it's "I never did that" when it has been reported to the contrary. "NOT anymore" shows maturity I very much appreciate.

My 0.02

Q102 · 10-18-2010, 10:43 AM

I talked to Jaymi Lyn on Saturday and she had had her car impounded for expired insurance, which she had already corrected but was working on getting a ride to pick up her car. Likely it was just a problem getting everything sorted out. I doubt she would have stood you up otherwise. Having seen her before a few times, I think she is pretty responsible most times.

Jules Jaguar · 10-18-2010, 11:09 AM

i see alert after alert on these bp girls and then guys always come here to complain about it and it keeps happening. i understand you guys like finding new talent on bp but you know it is a risk whenever you call one right? maybe if you used p411 or the many ladies here with good reviews you wouldn't have those problems.

Guest082216-1 · 10-18-2010, 11:38 AM

Jules, you are right that better research of a girl first will greatly reduce the likelyhood of this happing. But, I can assure you from personal experience, a NC/NS can happen even with providers with P411 and on ECCIE. My first and only NC/NS was with an ECCIE/P411 provider who has many glowing reviews and comments yet stood me up and never contacted me to explain.

It simply is part of working with real people. Shit happens. Its nice to find out why but don't hold your breath. It can be frustrating, but let it go and move on. Post a NC/NS thread so others know and forget about it.

Or maybe, just maybe, your not taking the hint! (JK, Just pulling your chain Bigdog).

lisa.lisa0302 · 10-18-2010, 03:15 PM

So what do want the providers to say?

Yes it sucked you got NSNC. Did you consider the reasons why they did that?

Honestly you had plan C. That was really good, not every gent knows where to go for a quick fix. Better to have went to a guaranteed quick fix, than stay with a provider and get screwed over leaving with no money.

Not all of us NCNS people.

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Originally Posted by bigdog0311

so no insightful responses from providers? Amazing, when you consider all the posts bitching about they do not have enough or much business!

otrdriver · 10-18-2010, 04:26 PM

the expression "Sh-T Happens" all worked out well and you saved $$ so move on and either ask for an answer from the ladies in question or just move on. this has happened to most of us at some time and those it hasn't happened to will probably have the issue in the future.

my .02

dentonseek · 10-18-2010, 04:53 PM

You want some insight...

As has been discussed on this board and others, create a list of providers that do not EVER NC/NS...then for the ones that do, keep a list of their NC/NS's in a thread. If you don't hold anyone accountable, why expect their behavior to change ? If you need consistency and reliability, you go for someone reliable.

As for those who are dogging BP for this problem, Jamie Lyn has been reviewed plenty of times here so this isn't a shot in the dark. I wouldn't be so quick to bad mouth BP when MANY of the current talent came from there.

This will benefit some guys and not others, but its one solution to the problem.

LazurusLong · 10-18-2010, 06:13 PM

Jules,

As a girl who I not only saw from BP but also hooked up with a pretty sweet deal on something you use on a regular basis, I'd expect you to be the last one to bitch about guys seeing BP girls of any sort.

The only reason I found you and saw you was due to Backpage. You weren't on here and from what I recall, you knew nothing about this site when you first moved here.

Many girls start out just like you did and some find their way here and some choose not to.

That group of girls where Jami works obviously know about this site and for whatever reason they choose not to post their weekly ads here they are their reasons.

But let's not try and put down anyone posting on other advertising sites.

bigdog0311 · 10-18-2010, 07:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Jules Jaguar

i see alert after alert on these bp girls and then guys always come here to complain about it and it keeps happening. i understand you guys like finding new talent on bp but you know it is a risk whenever you call one right? maybe if you used p411 or the many ladies here
with good reviews you wouldn't have those problems.

I understand BP girls are hit and miss, mostly miss, but Jaymi is a VP on this site and the other girl, Jennifer, was the one who did finally call me, left a VM and told me some excuse that I erased, but the point is, she called, albeit way after the fact, and she is not a VP on here. I do know about AMT though and they know me, although I have not been there in a long time.

Lisa.lisa0302---I would consider the reasons they NCNS but the never call to give me a reason so there is nothing to consider other than they are a NCNS!

Thank you Snow, for the insight on perhaps what the ladies may be thinking, as well as reading between the lines on what I was saying.

Q102--did she get her phone impounded with the car as well?

Dentonseek----good idea!