You might want to check naughtyreviews and the provider report. I had never been on either site and found guys contacting me from there. When I asked naughtyreviews how I got there you are gonna laugh at this part. They told me hobbyist submit them
Now I don't know about ya'll but I find this very hard to believe. I mean what guy would take the time to do that. Not all but some never even do their homework on us ladies. The guy (Tom) from naughtyreview said he was offended when I told him my add was stolen. I replied well if I did not put it up there it is stolen PERIOD. So in order to get the pictures changed I signed up there. And before I even knew I was on there 2 guys I had seen gave me reviews there LOL.....
I am like you I like having the control of what is out on the web about me.