The type of SCAM wasn’t mentioned. I, at least, am left with the presumption you sent a “deposit” via CashApp, PayPal or whatever. If that is the case you have committed the classic newbie fuckup!
My first fuckup was classic also. Paid a hefty amount up front. Lady stripped down to the basics then wanted BIG bucks for more! Literally pushed her out the door. I’m still waiting for the “black guys” to come and kick my ass!!
Thus my “donation when you leave” attitude. Attitudes are developed, not born!