Incall or Outcall?

[Johnny75]

Hey everyone I was just curious on what everyone thought about incall versus outcall.

I know for me I like the provider coming to me because I know I feel a bit better about the dream. So I was just curious on everybody else's thoughts on the topic.

[swarmyone]

Incall is safer for the provider. Outcall is safer for the guy. One of you will have to leave your comfort zone.

Even though it would be "safer", I don't like the idea of an outcall. I value my privacy too much. It would have to be a provider that I had met before and was very comfortable with. Maybe I've just seen Risky Business too many times....don't want to come home and find everything I own packed in a moving truck being held hostage by some red-headed douchbag pimp.

[Allie_Kat]

I don't like doing incalls personally. I will if I have seen the gentleman previously or if he has stellar references but otherwise, I feel like a sitting duck. LOL.

[midwestmonique]

I prefer incall because I know what's going on in my hotel room. You never know what you could be walking into these days even with screening. I will do an outcall for someone I've seen and feel comfy with. I don't sit at my incall all day. I live about 15 min away so I go do what I need to do then go home til its time to go back. But like swarmy said, either way someone is going to have to leave their comfort zone!

[Philhelm]

I much prefer incall, and have never done outcall, and probably never will. It's more about a level of privacy with neighbors, possible LE, etc. I'd rather not bring potential trouble to my home.

It's a shame I don't do outcall, since Allie Kat has such an amazing ass, judging from her pic.

[Allie_Kat]

Yes, it is a shame. Thank you. =)

[Grizzly]

For me i prefer outcall, wether its in my hotel room or my home. I like to take my time and enjoy the company. I try to make it wherever everyone involved in my dream is comfortable.

[growler]

I prefer incalls, just works better for me. Although I understand some lady's needs for outcalls and the anonymity that goes with them..... and yes Allie does have a nice butt. LOL

[Johnny75]

I would do incall at a hotel because of the feel of a neutral place. Like someone else said when you go to an incall you never know what you walking into and vice versa for the provider and outcalls.

[Longermonger]

Originally Posted by Allie_Kat

I don't like doing incalls personally. I will if I have seen the gentleman previously or if he has stellar references but otherwise, I feel like a sitting duck. LOL.

I think a HOME incall is different than a HOTEL incall. One of the tricks that I've seen is where the lady gives the room number next door and watches through the peephole. That way the guy doesn't even know the room number until she's checked him out and opens her door. I think that a cautious hobbiest could do this trick on an OUTCALL too.

I don't think Providers and Hobbiest mind this little trick much. It's just part of the game. No big deal.

But I bet it sure pissed off the cops when they bang on the door to the wrong room and then slowly figure out the escort has been watching them make fools out of themselves the whole time through the peephole. And they can't do shit about it.

[VictoriaWestin]

Hmmm, I like both. It all depends on who you are seeing.
There is a certainty and familiarity that comes with an in-call. There is also an element of safety, whether it is real or merely an illusion.
I have completely enjoyed my out-call experiences. I believe because I screened well and felt really great about going. When I arrived if I did not feel the same I would have never continued.
Nothing is worth compromising your safety.


All ways...always,
Victoria Westin

www.victoriawestin.com

Victoriawestin@yahoo.com

SAFE SEX

[diamondsparkle]

I most of the time do outcall. I do not feel that I want personal life and hobby life combined. However, there are occasions that I will get a nice hotel...and "invite" a few friends over for that day

Either way it's done...it's all good fun!!!

[guest033012-2]

I've done both but generally prefer incalls. The lady usually seems more comfortable on her home turf. The happier she is the happier I usually end up.

[Gryphon]

When I see a provider on an outcall basis, I get a hotel room and meet there. Meeting at my home is not an option--nosy neighbors, etc. But I like having some control of the ambience, lighting some candles and putting on some not-too-interruptive music. However, booking a room myself involves more hassle and expense, so incall has its attractions, as well. Generally I go with whichever makes the lady most comfortable.