How to maintain references for infrequent hobbyist?

[Buto Malaki]

What is the best way to maintain and have references available for an infrequent hobbyist?

I can only get out once a month or every other month. How can I provide a reference for a non-newbie friendly provider if it has been too long for a previous provider/reference to remember me?

[FootLong]

Once a month sounds ok to me, but I am not a provider.

You should consider getting p411 and your 'refs' stay there and can be updated.

[nushi]

I believe a provider has two main concerns before seeing a hobbiest.

1. Not LE.
2. Not a physical threat.

Every provider establishes her comfort level with you in different ways. I think it would be best to pm those you are interested in and see how you can get in her comfort zone.

Otherwise, establish a board presence with more reviews or posts. When you do see some of the ladies they will link your face to your words here. Also strike up interesting conversations so that they do remember you. I sometimes ask the lady how she will remember me for future visits or references and that can be an interesting conversation as well.

[rdodger]

Once every other month should establish you pretty quickly.

[1wonders2]

Perhaps I'm in the minority, but I don't view that as the infrequent hobbyist. The p411 sounds like an excellent suggestion and I may have to look into this.

[Sonya Playmate]

P411 all the way!

[MsPrittiKitti]

P411 may be ideal for you
Have the ladies youve already met, send you an invitation to join
I believe this allows you to sign up w/OUT peoviding employment info

For me personally, you hobbying 1x every other month is just fine
As long as the refs you provide me with are w/in 6mos and theyre still around

[foxyred73]

Every lady is different , with me just send me an email and just check out your handle that is link to your reviews on the on ladys when you send email to me and I can tell what lady that you have seen

[raedy4funn45]

MsPrittikitti is correct. I had 2 ladies vouch for me on P411, and no employment verification was needed.

If you travel like me, P411 is universally accepted, especially in the areas that eccie does not cover.

[rockerrick]

Plus you get 6 months free when invited on to p411 !

[Buto Malaki]

Thanks for the tips. It looks like P411 is the way to go. Saves me the trouble of going back and asking a former date "hey, remember me?".

[bamatide]

P411 is great...have fun!

[RexManning]

Someone send me an invite to p411!

[Guest061613]

1 to 2 times a month is plenty and they're verified providers. But if they're a bunch of Backpage or streetwalkers. You will need this.

I never leave home without it.

[dbeartx]

I have considered and would like to do P411, but I just don't know about the employment verification.. I really don't want anyone from the hobby contacting my office, that is just a little too close to home...