What to do as a periodic hobbyist?

[asatru86]

Hey all, hopefully this doesn't come off as too negative, I just am a little frustrated and trying to get some advice

I fairly rarely see any providers (maybe 2 a year over the past 2 years?), but when I DO want to see one, I'm usually after something specific or someone new. But when my last review or meeting was 9 months ago... it's hard to get past screening. Now, screening is fair, and totally is called for. I'm just not sure how to mesh what I want with the way the business is set up. I'm considering a p411 membership but I believe that still isn't enough a lot of times?

Should I just keep an eye on the agencies and see if I can get lucky? I don't want the lady or myself to be put out or put at risk, but I want to see what I want to see :P

I welcome input from clients and providers. What spurred this post was (perhaps obviously) being turned down because screening couldn't be satisfied with someone I was really looking forward to meeting. Also obviously, not everyone will have the same requirements/rules but I'm just curious if there's others like me and what they do?

[DallasRain]

some of us are newbie friendly if ya wanna provide other verifiable info

good luck babe

[SweetSuzanna]

joining p411 is a good idea. Very reputable site and makes both parties feel more at ease

[MrNyceGuy]

I agree with Dallas. Although they might not be exaxtly who you want to see, there are decent providers whicare newbee friendly. Book b them, be nice hlget your rocks off a few times and write a review. Then save some extra duckets and see the angel if your dreams. Probably the best way.

[DestinyInKC]

Newbie friendly here as well

[Guest090620-1]

I'm newbie friendly also!

[asatru86]

Appreciate all the responses. That is what I've tried to do before, it's just usually TOO long after I see one that I see another. I have seen some newbie friendly providers but after a year they either have moved on or forget me :p

I actually don't mind providing info to a reputable provider, either. Which is why I was thinking about p411