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Old 03-14-2017, 08:51 PM   #1
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Hi all. I'm a longtime lurker and new member. I have a question I hope someone can help me with, probably somethimg I shouldn't be concerned with in the hobby;however, I am a married guy, frustrated, and have a date with a provider on Thursday. This is my first date. This person is verified through this site and has many reviews over a few years, with many reviews from frequent posters here.

What would you say is my likelihood of encountering an STI? I have never been with anyone but my spouse, so if I get an STI, it will be pretty obvious what I did. I know some of you will say if I care, then I shouldn't be here, but I had to ask. I'm looking forward to my first review to help those who have helped me get to this experience. Thanks, all.
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Old 03-14-2017, 09:33 PM   #2
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Hobbying in general poses a risk, but since safety is given a higher priority, especially among the well established providers, the likelihood is lower, but again, there is always a risk. If you are intending to hobby regularly, get tested about every three months. If you aren't comfortable with a providers level of safety, speak up. If you see something that concerns you, speak up. If you are intending to seek out bareback providers, just play Russian roulette with yourself. It's cheaper. Have fun with it, bro, just play it safe. And respect the ladies desire for safety and good hygiene. The more comfortable everyone feels the better the experience. Welcome to the playground hobby bro. Let us know how it goes.
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Old 03-14-2017, 09:50 PM   #3
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Thank you for replying, OldGent. I've enjoyed your many posts over the last year or so. I have ZERO intention of seeking anything BB. I would like to have a few experiences, but not get anything, like nothing lol. I guess I ask for too much.
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Old 03-14-2017, 10:07 PM   #4
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Stick to the well established, well reviewed providers and you will do fine, bro. There are some really wonderful ladies on here. And if you want recommendations on your end, see Lily Kat Wood. Very clean and exciting and of course my personal queen of clean and exotic adventure, Seeking ~P when she visits. In any event just have fun. The minute it becomes a stress fest or drama rama, back off.
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Old 03-14-2017, 10:16 PM   #5
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Thank you, brother. I am VERY interested in the gorgeous Lily Kat Wood and Seeking P....just have to get established
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Old 03-20-2017, 07:18 PM   #6
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Thank you, brother. I am VERY interested in the gorgeous Lily Kat Wood and Seeking P....just have to get established
the wise move would be to respond to the pm you were sent......
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Old 03-21-2017, 09:23 PM   #7
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Here's some info from the CDC about HIV/AIDS.


Here's some info about prevention. That site has great information about HIV. There is a TON of misinformation out there.

The bottom line is that if you use condoms correctly, EVERY TIME, for vaginal and anal sex, and do not share needles if you inject drugs, you will not become HIV positive.

If a condom breaks and you do not know your partner's HIV status, you can talk to your doctor about PEP.

There have been several peer reviewed studies of serodiscordant couples who used condoms for vaginal and anal sex every time but never for oral sex. None of the HIV- partners seroconverted in any of these studies. Do not believe the misinformation. The CDC says there is little to no risk of acquiring HIV from oral sex.

Unlike the fragile HIV virus, other infections are easy to transmit.

Using a condom correctly every time results in a 90% reduced risk of gonorrhea and a 60% reduced risk of chlamydia.

Condoms also prevent syphilis, but not if your partner has sores that are not covered by the condom.

If you have oral sex without a condom there is a risk of the three infections mentioned above. The good news is that all three are usually cured quite easily with antibiotics.

The best way to prevent HSV (herpes) is to not have sexual contact with someone who has sores on their mouth or genitals.

If you are a man and use a condom for everything, there is a 2% chance of getting HSV-2 (genital herpes). Cold sores are HSV-1 and can be transferred from mouth to genitals. Most of the population has this type of herpes.

The CDC says there aren't any dependable large scale studies that have been done on sex workers to determine whether or not the rate of STIs in the population differs from that of the general population. St. James Infirmary is working on getting better data though!


It's impossible to put a % on whether or not you will contract an STI from a sexual encounter if you are not 100% sure of your partner's status. If your partner has no STIs, you have a 0% chance! If you use condoms for vaginal and anal sex, you will almost definitely not contract HIV. Using condoms correctly, every time, is good protection against most STIs.

Many people think they are using condoms directly and are not. Please read up on correct condom use if you are sexually active!

If you are sexually active it is best to get tested every 3-6 months for HIV, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and syphilis. HIV tests are free in New Orleans at several different locations, and many of these locations do a rapid test so you can get your results in 15 minutes.

Everything in life has risks. 1.3 million people die in car crashes in the US every year, yet a lot of us still choose to drive. There’s a one in 100,000 chance of passing away at a dance party, apparently. The best thing to do is to educate yourself and decide if the benefits of something you'd like to do outweigh the risk.

Be safe!

Tl;dr: Use condoms.
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Old 03-22-2017, 12:31 AM   #8
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Thanks for the informative post GP.
Looks like SheWhoDat is on bancation right now.
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Old 03-22-2017, 12:48 AM   #9
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Thanks for the informative post GP.
Looks like SheWhoDat is on bancation right now.
Ah, so he is! Well hopefully others will learn a little something. I really do think a lot of people don't know how to use condoms correctly!
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Old 03-29-2017, 02:57 PM   #10
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Ah, so She is!
Yes SHE is
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Old 03-29-2017, 10:13 PM   #11
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Yes SHE is
So confusing! OP said "married man"
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