Question

[Kayden Karter]

Why do some clients on here complain about screening? When they are not able to clear screening they say nasty, mean and hurtful things. If you don’t have recent referrals from other ladies who are active on this site then you must have other info to get verified. I totally understand everybody is not comfortable giving certain info and I am fine with that, but I can’t meet with you if you do not have recent referrals from ladies who answer or if you can’t provide other info. If you feel that I ask for too much info please see someone else. Everyone has to be screened. There is really no reason to be mean or nasty about it. Sorry if I posted this in the wrong part of the site

[TailHooked]

Yes, you are in the right place. Screening is hobby related. There are no rules on screening. Each girl can do as she pleases. After all, it is the girls who take more chances than the guys. So screen whatever way you desire. Safety is the most important part of the hobby. When a girl does 't screen me, I am more reluctant to even see her. Because all kinds of bad scenarios go through my mind.

[BirdogKC60]

What Tailhooked said!

[VraiSapuer]

Agreed. You screen how you need to. Be safe!



It is annoying however that you have to be constantly playing in order to play. Take a few months off and you are back at square one, regardless of how many OK's you have elsewhere. That is one thing that does irritate me a bit.

[BraggingRights]

Been trying to see you for awhile. Never heard back about my screening.

[Unique_Carpenter]

Kayden,
Stick with your rules and blow off azzholes.

Everyone else,
Tailhooked is being nice with his explanation.

The reality is, there was another unacceptable incident third week of April, resulting in one of the Northland gals going offline for a couple weeks.
That is exactly why the ladies screen, and if you don't like it, or can't provide references, or whatever data the gal is asking for, then don't waste anyone's time.
And, btw, you won't hack off some of the guys here that the ladies trust.

[kcpitchreader]

Screening is an important way of life. It is also important, though, if you get a PM that you at least acknowledge it, even if just to say not interested...

[DallasRain]

Originally Posted by TailHooked

Yes, you are in the right place. Screening is hobby related. There are no rules on screening. Each girl can do as she pleases. After all, it is the girls who take more chances than the guys. So screen whatever way you desire. Safety is the most important part of the hobby. When a girl does 't screen me, I am more reluctant to even see her. Because all kinds of bad scenarios go through my mind.

Well said!!!!

[KCFalcon77]

Originally Posted by kcpitchreader

Screening is an important way of life. It is also important, though, if you get a PM that you at least acknowledge it, even if just to say not interested...

Well said. KCpitch. Same thing happens on other sites. Ladies are on their advertising, and you send them an inquiry and never hear back. I get everyone has a life, and things going on, but at least let the gent know to move on. And yes, we all move on eventually, but its still irritating...

[VraiSapuer]

So in all seriousness, how do you screen. "Give me the name of a lady you saw recently." results in my giving the name of Lady PDQ that I saw 5-6 weeks ago. How does she even know who I am to verify. It's been 6 weeks! If I use P411, half the time my references are older or half of them have left the biz and that gets rejected. It's almost like you have to keep a constantly weekly stream of hookups to be able to qualify to see anyone besides STG or Listcrawler lady.

So really, how do you actually manage your "references"?

[Unique_Carpenter]

VS,
It's none of any guys business how gals screen, or do their reference checks, etc.
Nor is it appropriate for a gal to explain, cause undesirables can figure out how to end run a gals screening.
Yes, references need to be current.

[ReubenShowalter]

You should have a realistic screening process. I’d be a bit leary if you didn’t. Shows me that you (probably) have your shit more together than most and not just doing this out of desperation. Desperate people are a wildcard drama I’m looking to avoid.

I’ve never been asked for it but have others have, I’m not sharing my SS#, annual income, employer, or anything like that. To me, that doesn’t seem realistic.

Remember: The lion doesn’t concern herself with the opinions of the sheep. Have good TCB skills & make your guest feel special during his time and everything else will take care of itself. That’s what people will talk about and not a peep about being screened.

Good luck.

[DallasRain]

I like to tell the guy "how might she remember you"
Like something bout his looks or something she might remember from session

[Sienna91]

What happened to a girl recently? I haven't heard anything

[Sienna91]

If a guy doesn't screen I don't even reply especially as the summer creeps up you're going to get more and more inquiries and that'll just be more and more people to ignore

At first it just used to irritate me and now I just don't even respond to them