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Fuckin' yikes.
You ever hear it's not what you say but how? Back to the drawing board for you.
Did I say anything derogatory about the others while I expressed admiration for Normani? What did you find objectionable? Can't a guy express his personal opinion on which lady he finds more appealing? How would you prefer it be said?
Lmao...MAM is right Hot. And what makes it worst is you just don't know...is the lights on...Lmao..you may only understand ...Fucky Fucky….Sucky Sucky long time. Hey Joe...Lmao
it's refreshing when my mayo clients don't compare me to food!
Mayo? Certainly not me. And "hot chocolate"? Isn't that slang for a Beautiful Nubian Princess ? How was that insulting/derogatory used as a term of admiration, as a compliment?
Jj, go ahead. Could you tell these ladies what you know about me? About my being a non-mayo. Go ahead, you know me better than any of these ladies here who are passing judgement.
Matter of fact, I'm currently seeing a woman of color. She's Puerto Rican, Filipino and African American, and totally fuckin' gorgeous! I don't look and see color, or have the racially prejudicial opinions of some. Thus I don't see how "hot Chocolate" is in any way denigrating. Pardon me if I seem insensitive, but I still don't see it. My friend loves it as a term of endearment when I call her that.
So who's prejudicial here? But me, a Mayo? You couldn't be further from the truth.
So why preclude a non-Afro-American from using the same term used by an Afro-American? Do you have a corner on the term? If she uses it to call herself Chocolate, why is it wrong for anyone else to use the same term? Hmmm???
Next thing you know, you couldn't say something like, "I like to squirt whipped cream on chocolate pie" for fear of being misconstrued as a racist.
And if that's the case then, shouldn't I be offended with all the African-American providers that call themselves China, Chynna, Chyna or every possible corruption of the name of my ancestral land of origin just to sound more exotic? Am I supposed to find it amusing that the land of my ancestry is being disrespected by the misuse of it's name in all of it's corrupted forms? Not in the least! But am I insulted? Do I take offense to it? Hell no!
So why should the reverse be true then? Why should you feel offended for the use of the word Chocolate as a term of admiration and endearment? That would mean you have double standards. Just like calling your Caucasian clients "Mayo"??? How is that possible without having a double standard YOURSELF? AND NOW HOW IS THAT DRIPPING WITH FINESSE?
Ho-T has identified himself as a racist and I think should be banned from the forums
Whipped crime on a blackberry pie—-dripping chocolate?? Black people are not in the same category as food,,,and not to get the spotlight off of you Hot,,,but mayo is not appropriate either and the only point it makes is ones skin color and cultural
Moi? A racist? How could you say that bc? If I was racist, I wouldn't like my hot chocolate at all. Or my creamy mayo, or my steamy Asian dumplings, nor my brown buttered buns either. It's all sweet 'tang to me. Pussy stays pink, no matter what skin color you are. And PINK is all the COLOR that matters. And frankly my dears(not you bc), I don't give a damn about being PC. And I certainly don't give a shit about skin color either.
IT'S A FUCKING DAMN METAPHOR for anyone unclear on the concept. Not a racial slur, for fuck's sake. To believe otherwise would just be uncivilized.
There are some 195 nationalities out there gentlemen. We certainly have our work cut out for us if we want to experience all of them. Get busy and stop whining about the rainbow...Skittles anyone?
There are some 195 nationalities out there gentlemen. We certainly have our work cut out for us if we want to experience all of them. Get busy and stop whining about the rainbow...Skittles anyone?
You got that right Jard. I'm trying to do my part increase interracial relations. But some people see it the wrong way. I don't know if Phoenixx may have just been facetious with her comment about being compared to food, But Mocha's taking offense to my comment was unwarranted and puts an unnecessary strain without promoting interracial copulation. I'm for trying every one of the flavors, color or race has no place in my heads.
Not in either the big, or the little head.
And I will stick to my guns about Normani being HOT CHOCOLATE. We can agree to disagree Mocha, it still doesn't change the facts. I for one am disappointed you don't see how you pre-judged me for HOW I stated my positive attraction to a Sista. Or would you have rather I called her HOT MOCHA? Would that have been more PC, or to your liking? Or am I still missing something else here?
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don't compare us to food plz --- thx, management
You couldn't be further from the truth.
To believe otherwise would just be uncivilized.
