Referral Expectations

[jojodancer15]

Ladies, what's a reasonable amount of time for you to get with another provider who is asking you for a customer referral? When we use you as a referral what information are you comfortable with us providing another provider?? i.e. Name, Number

* Some providers ask us to send in a PM 2-3 references to include the other Provider's Name and phone number, other's want Provider's name, link to profile and contact email.

Seems it would be a more efficient process if you all asked for the same information and suggested the quickest way to get a response from you. Should we reach out to you first to ask you for your referral?

I realize everyone is not sitting by their laptops or cellphones waiting for Referral requests to pop up. Hopefully because you're all happily indulging in the hobby. I'm just trying to see what's the best way to make this a more customer and provider friendly process with a quicker return.

[Kylie Nicole]

Some of us answer quicker than others. Some ladies hobby part time or have other duties to attend to and can't answer right away. It doesn't mean they're doing it on purpose, they get to it when they can. I always try to reply as quickly as possible in hopes I get the same if needed in the future.

A lot of us don't have our phone numbers listed and we don't like when you give it out. Check the ladies' showcase to see if she has it listed before you give it to anyone else. If she doesn't, only provide her eccie handle or email. Providing the link to your ref's showcase makes the process much easier.

As you hobby more you will begin to figure out who to use as a reference and who not to use. You've seen Natalia and she answers right away so you know she's someone you should list.

Talk to the provider before you leave the session and ask her how she feels about references. I always tell my clients they can use me as many times as they'd like but only to provide my email or eccie handle. Sometimes texting her beforehand can speed things up.

Hope this helps!

[Guest123018]

Please don't give out her exact Incall location. Ive had guys call and give me her exact location, I hate that.
Please don't give out her personal cell Instead of her hobby cell.
I hate when guys give me her personal cell. Her personal cell doesn't help me at all.

[Guest030816]

The trick to getting a quick response is making it as easy add possible for your prospective date to check you out. Give them links to profiles and emails. It is not a good idea to give out phone numbers. Can you imagine getting a text, "hey is jyz62 okay" from a number you don't know?
Delete.
Best advice, get P411

[Lexieinhouston]

I don't list my email address or phone number here, so I definitely don't want it shared with anyone; I prefer PM's or if someone is on P411, I don't mind anyone double checking my vouches there with me. I always respond as quickly as possible to inquires of any type.


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[N.M.]

In my case have them pm thru here or email me.

I need at least eccie handle and phone number you used to see me to provide a reference.
Sorry to just say it like this but I hate when they only send the eccie handle and nothing else, how am I supposed to verify that ? I still reply and politely ask if they at least have a phone #. But to me that's unnecessary back and forth.

I politely ask my clients to please not share my phone number, as stated before pm and email are my preferred way to be contacted.
I try my best to reply asap, worst scenario a few hours and most definitely at least by the end of the day.
Like Kylie mentioned everybody has different things going on, my best advice would be to send your screening at least 2 days in advance with the lady you're trying to see as opposed of trying to get the screening done the same day.

I'm sorry if you're having trouble getting verified sweetie, you were great sending everything right away, URLS and everything Lol Clients who do that are placed on my priority list and I follow up accordingly.

Btw baby I replied to the lady asking for a reference of you right away last week ( Just throwing it up there so you know lol). Please feel free to use me as a reference any time

Kisses

[underscorejs]

Originally Posted by Seeking ~P

Please don't give out her exact Incall location.

Yes..please don't!

[Guest030816]

Originally Posted by Natalia Mori

In my case have them pm thru here or email me.

I need at least eccie handle and phone number you used to see me to provide a reference.
Sorry to just say it like this but I hate when they only send the eccie handle and nothing else, how am I supposed to verify that ? I still reply and politely ask if they at least have a phone #. But to me that's unnecessary back and forth.

I politely ask my clients to please not share my phone number, as stated before pm and email are my preferred way to be contacted.
I try my best to reply asap, worst scenario a few hours and most definitely at least by the end of the day...

I'm not trying to be as ass about this, but what you're saying and what you're doing don't match up again.
Highlighted above you say you need an Eccie account and a phone number. The next sentence you say please don't share your number. I've seen many providers who don't have their number on their showcase, which means that she chooses who she wants to have it. I'm not sharing that with hooktard nor fucktard. It's called respect of one's privacy.

So how can you say that you need her phone number but don't want your number shared?
I don't think that's a unreasonable question.

[Guest072624]

Originally Posted by Seeking ~P

Please don't give out her exact Incall location. Ive had guys call and give me her exact location, I hate that.
Please don't give out her personal cell Instead of her hobby cell.
I hate when guys give me her personal cell. Her personal cell doesn't help me at all.

PLEASE DONT!!!

[jojodancer15]

Originally Posted by Natalia Mori

In my case have them pm thru here or email me.

I need at least eccie handle and phone number you used to see me to provide a reference.
Sorry to just say it like this but I hate when they only send the eccie handle and nothing else, how am I supposed to verify that ? I still reply and politely ask if they at least have a phone #. But to me that's unnecessary back and forth.

I politely ask my clients to please not share my phone number, as stated before pm and email are my preferred way to be contacted.
I try my best to reply asap, worst scenario a few hours and most definitely at least by the end of the day.
Like Kylie mentioned everybody has different things going on, my best advice would be to send your screening at least 2 days in advance with the lady you're trying to see as opposed of trying to get the screening done the same day.

I'm sorry if you're having trouble getting verified sweetie, you were great sending everything right away, URLS and everything Lol Clients who do that are placed on my priority list and I follow up accordingly.

Btw baby I replied to the lady asking for a reference of you right away last week ( Just throwing it up there so you know lol). Please feel free to use me as a reference any time

Kisses

Thanks ladies and Natalia for the feedback!! Natalia, you know you are definitely on my Priority list toooooooo!!

The reason I'm asking this question is because it took a while for my referrals to get back to Natalia. I realize you ladies have personal lives and aren't always sitting around waiting for referrals to pop up so you can respond. I always send my PM request to see you ladies way before we ever meet, to allow this to happen. But sometimes you run across a Provider on here who is only in town for a couple of days. So time is of the essence every now and then.


I respect the fact that some of you ladies don't want your numbers given out, on the other hand some ladies ask for Provider's Name and Number. So it just seems if other ladies would realize that other providers don't want this information shared and all providers can find a common ground on what is acceptable.

Maybe email is a better option?? If every provider created a Gmail called Referral in some form or fashion. Then when you received an email in this box, you would know it's only for giving a referral. (I don't know, and definitely don't have all the answers. That's why I'm reaching out to the ladies)

I am all about the hobbying and making things better for all involved. If you read my Threads, majority of them on how to improve things so we can do what we can here to do, Have Fun!!!

All feedback is welcomed!!

[N.M.]

H.hardhat- Listen Snoopy, I'm not trying to be an ass either even though I should after all your harassment and nasty comments about me. Which is funny because we have never met and I had never disrespected you.

I'll explain since reading comprehension seems to be Not one of your strongest assets, I need for the PROVIDER to send me the HANDLE and phone number of THE GUY in question. Why would I need her to send me HER phone number ?? My phone number is not public, I have the right to decide who I share my phone number with even if is my hobby number.

I used capitals to emphasize my points, please don't think I'm upset, I have a huge smile on my face, I can upload a selfie to prove it

You sound a little grumpy, maybe you should share your "Colgate" smile with us and prove me wrong

[N.M.]

Originally Posted by jojodancer15

Thanks ladies and Natalia for the feedback!! Natalia, you know you are definitely on my Priority list toooooooo!!

The reason I'm asking this question is because it took a while for my referrals to get back to Natalia. I realize you ladies have personal lives and aren't always sitting around waiting for referrals to pop up so you can respond. I always send my PM request to see you ladies way before we ever meet, to allow this to happen. But sometimes you run across a Provider on here who is only in town for a couple of days. So time is of the essence every now and then.


I respect the fact that some of you ladies don't want your numbers given out, on the other hand some ladies ask for Provider's Name and Number. So it just seems if other ladies would realize that other providers don't want this information shared and all providers can find a common ground on what is

Really baby ? Lol well like Kylie said as you go you get familiar with which providers reply promptly, you sent me 3 and only one replied right away but not the other 2 but then you send me other references and they replied almost immediately.

So maybe you should use those ladies as reference instead of the first 2 who didn't reply, and again you can always use me, I'm happy to vouch for you sweetheart

Just to be crystal clear I don't ask for providers phone numbers just their URLS or at least the exact spelling of their names, not their phone numbers, maybe somehow I wasn't clear on my first comment.
But again no provider phone # is required with me specially if the provider's phone # is not public.
Even if it is I still contact them thru pm, just out of respect.

Kisses

[Guest030816]

Thank you for clearing that up Natalie. You first post was a bit unclear as to who's number you were referring to.
As in the Opening Post he was asking us what information we were supposed to send as references. The girl doing the screening would have his handle already, she would just need HIS number to run through infoshare. That and the reference's showcase link and email.

Originally Posted by jojodancer15

Ladies, what's a reasonable amount of time for you to get with another provider who is asking you for a customer referral? When we use you as a referral what information are you comfortable with us providing another provider?? i.e. Name, Number

* Some providers ask us to send in a PM 2-3 references to include the other Provider's Name and phone number, other's want Provider's name, link to profile and contact email.

FYI
It is rarely the hobbyist will hear anything about the speed of his references getting back to them. It has happened to me once when screening for slave G. She's an exception. And this is only the second time I've seen it mentioned in the threads. So it would help us help you if some providers are not reference friendly to let us know.

[bon69]

Originally Posted by Natalia Mori

I have a huge smile on my face, I can upload a selfie to prove it

You sound a little grumpy

I'm not grumpy but I'd love seeing your selfie. I've seen you in person Natalia so I know you got a million dollar smile.

[Champagne Brown]

Hey bon glad to seeing you posting around these parts...