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Old 07-30-2013, 07:28 PM   #1
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Hey there fellas, just wanted to drop another question.
WHat is the deal with providers who are racisists. I always like to check fakepage... sorry backpage to check new posts and I have noticed some providers have a no black men rule....why do you think that is ??
I am not a black guy yet I do feel that in this day and age and specially in the US which is a pot of many cultures providers should be open minded. What makes it more interesting is that some of the providers with such a rule are "mixed" as they call themselves.......really come on that is to me just plain stupid.
Yet it always brings back to my memory that scene from the movie full metal jacket where the vietnamese girl didnt want to do boom boom with eight ball precisely for the idea that all black men carry extra weight on the trousers.
Is it really a matter of penis lenght, or is there something else??
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Old 07-30-2013, 07:51 PM   #2
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Lets just say if you are in the business that they are in where you are going to poked all day repeatedly ....would like to be poked with big pole or little one? And you don't want be sore because the cycle repeats again tomorrow. It is a business not affection. Just saying....
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Old 07-30-2013, 09:11 PM   #3
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Lets just say if you are in the business that they are in where you are going to poked all day repeatedly ....would like to be poked with big pole or little one? And you don't want be sore because the cycle repeats again tomorrow. It is a business not affection. Just saying....
Copied Extremepapa just wanted to throw the ball out there, thanks for your comment
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Old 07-30-2013, 09:14 PM   #4
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Hey there fellas, just wanted to drop another question.
WHat is the deal with providers who are racisists. I always like to check fakepage... sorry backpage to check new posts and I have noticed some providers have a no black men rule....why do you think that is ??
I am not a black guy yet I do feel that in this day and age and specially in the US which is a pot of many cultures providers should be open minded. What makes it more interesting is that some of the providers with such a rule are "mixed" as they call themselves.......really come on that is to me just plain stupid.
Yet it always brings back to my memory that scene from the movie full metal jacket where the vietnamese girl didnt want to do boom boom with eight ball precisely for the idea that all black men carry extra weight on the trousers.
Is it really a matter of penis lenght, or is there something else??
Ferca... I think it may have something to do with avoiding potential pimps.. Just my opinion...
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Old 07-31-2013, 12:11 PM   #5
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Personally for myself ...

I was robbed at gun point by one. Not an experience I tend to forget or wish to experience again. I'm not racist by no stretch of the imagination but MOST black men are very demanding, looking for new girls to pimp and overall are just PIA's.

Again this is from my own experience ...
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Old 07-31-2013, 03:34 PM   #6
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I would say a lot of it is based on a bad experience, so they just say no to all of them. Yes, there are a lot of guys who have watched too much "Pimps Up, Ho's Down" on HBO, who behave aggressively.
I have been told by two providers, both black, "They will beat me and rob me." and "They're all thugs." Now, I don't like to generalize, but this is their experience and they have to use caution.
Also, some of them may have black boyfriends who made the no black men rule. I don't think any of it is based on racism.
It is racist to assume all black guys have big dicks. I've watched a lot of "white swinger wife gets a black dick" porn, and many of them are no better hung than the average American.
And lastly, porn actress and escort, Kaylee Hilton (who has taken some monster black dicks) told me that black guys in porn were much nicer to her than white guys with big dicks, who seemed like they wanted to stab her or hurt her with their cocks.
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Old 07-31-2013, 08:41 PM   #7
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Personally for myself ...

I was robbed at gun point by one. Not an experience I tend to forget or wish to experience again. I'm not racist by no stretch of the imagination but MOST black men are very demanding, looking for new girls to pimp and overall are just PIA's.

Again this is from my own experience ...
WOW sorry to learn that sweetie. Under such circumstances it is not only understandable but mandatory to stay away from such characters. Thanks for sharing !
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Old 08-03-2013, 06:26 PM   #8
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I knew there was a huge thread about this on the National Forum. It finally came up again, so here's 146 pages of posts on this topic. I hope that about exhausts it.

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=315600
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Old 08-03-2013, 08:03 PM   #9
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I knew there was a huge thread about this on the National Forum. It finally came up again, so here's 146 pages of posts on this topic. I hope that about exhausts it.

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=315600
Thanks Mucher it seems that on their forum the discussion was lengthy
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Old 08-08-2013, 12:59 PM   #10
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As a black man, alot of this is total bs. I'm not going to sit here and say a black men hasn't done stupid shit in the hobby, but to sit here and say that's all we do is dumb. Back in Michigan in 2010 they arrested two white guys for killing Bp girls, most of the girls I have seen black white and other races have had equally as much problems with white men. I mainly do outcalls here in Des Moines, and you wouldn't believe how many white guys drop of girls, some girls where black some were white. I'm not saying they were pimps, but they have pimp qualities. Wasn't they Craigslist killer white?
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Old 08-08-2013, 01:45 PM   #11
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This topic has been discussed many many times.
1) Providers see whoever the hell they want to.
2) Providers can say Fuck No! To anyone they want to.
3) If a gentleman does not like it too fucking bad.
4) No means fucking no!

There are plenty of providers that will see someone.

There are ladies that I have turned down.
Not many I assure you. We all, have our tastes.
If this thread goes bad I will close it.
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Old 08-09-2013, 08:42 AM   #12
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That's why I posted the link to the national thread. There is no need to beat this dead horse here.
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Old 08-09-2013, 02:58 PM   #13
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That's why I posted the link to the national thread. There is no need to beat this dead horse here.
It was never my intention to re-visit an issue already addressed. All and all though the site is for sharing information, opinions and thoughts, right?
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Old 08-16-2013, 01:36 PM   #14
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I have a NAA rule (No assholes allowed) where race is irrelevant .
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Old 08-16-2013, 04:31 PM   #15
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If a girl screens well, and uses hobby boards, she should be able to avoid jerks of any color. If all she knows is posting on backpage and hoping for decent clients well, anything she can do to feel safer, go ahead.

I used to take any girl with a "no AA rule" off of my list to see. I made the assumption they were racist and I didn't want to support them,. After reading more about why, and seeing it even from black girls, I no longer think so.

Can you imagine how many pimps or wanna be pimps patrol backpage looking to add to their stable. I hate to assume every pimp is black buuuut... every arrest I see makes it hard not to.

As far as size being an issue... while I can't hold a candle to the average pron guy, I've got a little more than most. Enough so that it's uncomfortable for some women. I've even seen a few that request "no magnum size guys" on their website. So I don't bother. I try to feel out the lady after screening but before the appointment, to make sure she's cool with it. I have found a few times where my references had clued her in and she was looking forward to it. It's about 50/50 with providers as to whether it brings anticipation or dread.
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