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rangervalley1111 · 09-05-2023, 07:31 PM

Has anyone been on Secret Benefits lately and if so, what is your success rate in getting potential SBs to actually respond? I signed up recently since SA is barren in my area but not much response even though they literally just messaged me. What's the "Secret" to get a response?

laserface · 09-05-2023, 10:29 PM

I've gotten a bunch of potentials to respond. The trick has been to get them to follow through. I only got one girl there to an actual meeting, and it was ... not very good. We agreed on a PPM "allowance", I got a nice hotel suite to hang out in, we got there ... and then she immediately fell asleep. But still wanted her allowance, of course.

I've had a few others that I had conversations with, but when it came time to arranging an in person meeting, went dark. Similar experiences on SA lately as well.

Wetnwild6969 · 09-06-2023, 07:16 AM

I've been getting messages galore on SA, met up with 2, had an apt for yesterday with Mandy, quoted me 300 for an hr, but I ended up having to cancel. She was cool about it.

laserface · 09-06-2023, 09:19 AM

Mandy was an exception... I contacted her on SA (not my usual type, but she'd been "cold messaging" me occasionally for months, when I didn't have a paid membership so I couldn't reply. But then I happened to cross paths with her out in public and liked what I saw, so I signed up again entirely to get hold of her. (Of course, a couple of weeks later, she started running an ad on Tryst, coulda saved the money...).

Got the same rate quote from her. She did want a deposit, which of course I didn't like, but I had reasonable vibes from her so I did it, and it worked out (and she said the deposit wouldn't be necessary after first meeting). Experience was well worth it.

Wetnwild6969 · 09-06-2023, 12:02 PM

Well shit you could have saved urself the money she's in tryst

laserface · 09-06-2023, 12:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Wetnwild6969

Well shit you could have saved urself the money she's in tryst

Yeah - unfortunately, there was no way I could have predicted that she'd get on Tryst after I spent the money on the SA membership to contact her...

Wetnwild6969 · 09-06-2023, 01:27 PM

Well next time I'll let you use my crystal ball lol

rangervalley1111 · 09-06-2023, 04:23 PM

I think getting responses is dependent upon location. East of Pittsburgh isn't a booming market.

yinzerpgh · 09-06-2023, 04:45 PM

There isn't a secret decoder ring to SB. It's just a different version of the scammy bullshit that's on SA.

I have a (non paid) account on SB for years. I have zero pictures and nothing in my profile other than "please, for the love of God, be from western Pennsylvania before messaging me". That doesn't work...I've had "girls" (most likely bots) sending me PM's from all over the country. What I've found that helps eliminate this is, if I flag a bunch of them as 'too far away', that seems to narrow down the amount of far away girls 'cold messaging' me. My 'viewed you' list is full of girls from Ohio and WV now.

Anyway, the only thing that may help you (and this is an arduous task), if you see a girl on both SA and SB, chances are she's real....or the BOT is working both sites. I've seen the same profiles on SA and SB, so those ones get my preferential treatment.

And the amount of women from "United" and "Acme" PA is astounding. Someone must have taken a photo of every woman in the area and posted it because there aren't that many available females in both of those towns lol

I do like that it's $60 for 100 'coins' that never expire. It costs 10 'coins' to send a message, 10 more coins to view hidden pics. I also know (it was mentioned by someone here on the boards) that once your $60 runs out, you cannot re-up for $60 more, you have to buy one of the more expensive plans.

jimmys35_2 · 09-10-2023, 10:47 AM

I am currently seeing a 20 yr old college student. It's a great arrangement and she has actually taught me how SB works. I questioned her one time on why she was always on SB. She opened it and she wasn't even logged in. But it was showing her online on mine. She also told me when they register they must write an intro message. When you click like on a profile this email is sent to you like a message. When they actually arnt sending you a message. I have had success in the past. There are definitely PPM girls available. Also many that think they are award winning porn stars that wNt 600 a meet or 2000 a month lol.

DrivesAllDay · 09-10-2023, 09:04 PM

LOL! So I was chatting last night with a young lady on SB. We just chatted using their messaging. Talked about anime & stuff. Kind of suspicious she didn't answer my question: What area of Pittsburgh are you from? I got tired of waiting for a response & went to bed.

Well, anyways, I messaged her earlier saying I fell asleep. Got home today & checked. She expects me to pay her just for talking to her. LOL!

Sure hun! Let me get my wallet out. LOL!!

tommy156 · 09-11-2023, 08:25 AM

Don't know about SB, but SA is also free for girls to use. That makes it pretty irresistible for them, one would think. Literally almost zero to lose and a lot to gain.

I've had success on SA with a few young hotties, but it was all pre-Covid. With the prices being much higher now, I'm just not interested for the time being. Maybe return one day, if/when curiosity gets the best of me.

Spazzer37golf · 09-11-2023, 09:18 AM

Never used SB but had tons of success on SA in the past. Sadly,it seems the current situation on SA is scammers and girls advertising for their OF accounts. To me it's really gone down hill.

tommy156 · 09-11-2023, 01:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Spazzer37golf

Never used SB but had tons of success on SA in the past. Sadly,it seems the current situation on SA is scammers and girls advertising for their OF accounts. To me it's really gone down hill.

I've heard similar things many times recently. Which really sucks, because it's way more expensive now. Back in 2018-19, SA was awesome. At least I thought it was. There were always scammers and fake profiles, but plenty of real, hot, college age girls too. If it ever gets back to that kind of quality, I'll be back for sure.

Spazzer37golf · 09-12-2023, 06:49 AM

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Originally Posted by tommy156

I've heard similar things many times recently. Which really sucks, because it's way more expensive now. Back in 2018-19, SA was awesome. At least I thought it was. There were always scammers and fake profiles, but plenty of real, hot, college age girls too. If it ever gets back to that kind of quality, I'll be back for sure.

I think like everything else nothing will ever go back to what it was. It will continue this pattern and keep getting worse. I'd venture to say maybe 2 or 3 out of 10 girls on SA are legit and may legitimately meet. Maybe less. It was a good time while it lasted...