Being a Woman of Public Usage and having a SO who knows about it?

[tatasddd]

Recently on TOS there was a hobbyst who was in a search of a provider (WPU) who has a boyfriend or a husband available, because he wanted the SO/Hubby to blow a wad on his GF's cunt so he can lick it off of it. Two things strike me dumb here. The first is this guy's bizarre desire. However I'll let that go here. The second is having a SO, being in a relationship with someone seriously, or being married to a man who knows that you are a WPU/Whore and neither of you have a problem with it. Isn't that a little bit fucked up? How can a relationship be serious when you are a whore and your SO is a Prostidude along with you and knows what you are? Isn't that fucked up?

Of course LillyAnn made haste to respond quickly to satisfy this customer's request haha.

I personally would not be OK with my GF being a WPU because she would be like Public Transit. Everybody puts their feet on you, sticks his sausage inside you or your kisser, breathes down your neck, tramples you and uses you any way they want it. You roll in their filth. They stuff you like a pig & spread you like a chicken. Spill their semen all over you etc.

Let us hear other opinions.

[swtslnce]

I kind of touched on this in another reply I did earlier but what the hell, I'll do it here too.


Short answer to a long question... no. In fact hell no!

Call me old fashioned but I actually believe in the sanctuary of a one on one relationship. If I was with someone, I wouldnt do this.

Of coarse there are people out there that would say they only do it with their bodies and not there minds, therefore their love is only reserved for that one special person. Maybe for some its because they dont get what they need/want at home from their partner. For the guy/SO, I cant really think of what their justification is... other than the money she earns. Maybe some would say its a turn on that their woman is out there fucking and sucking some stranger (?). My personal opinion on it, its bullshit. I dont even like talking with a provider and hearing about their sexcapades with other clients so I dont see the appeal in it.

What someone does (or does not do) is there choice. Im not justifying or judging anyone for there choices but I could never have a GF or wife who was a "public servant" . The simple truth is I couldnt love someone, kiss them goodbye, send them off to a days worth of sucking and fucking, and then kiss them when they got back. Seriously, how do you ask someone how their day went in a situation like that... Man: "Honey, how did your day go?" Woman: "You know, the usual. I blew five guys. I swallowed for the first two and spit for the third. The last two.. one got into the front door and the other plowed the back door and Im still having alittle trouble sitting down." Man: "Whats for dinner?"

I know this is kind of harsh saying this but Im trying to express my point. I dont see how else it could be... unless its not talked about. I cant help but think that could lead to a whole lot of other problems, like jealousy and betrayal and denial. And lets not even go into the idea of the woman doing it behind his back... that the kind of thing where people could end up dead. I said this somewhere else, the more variables in a situation, the more ways things can go wrong. This is exactly why I dont like the idea of women in this business with SO's... its one extra variable that I dont understand or know their intentions.

To each their own but absolutely, 1000%, not for me.

[tatasddd]

Originally Posted by swtslnce

I kind of touched on this in another reply I did earlier but what the hell, I'll do it here too.


Short answer to a long question... no. In fact hell no!

Call me old fashioned but I actually believe in the sanctuary of a one on one relationship. If I was with someone, I wouldnt do this.

Of coarse there are people out there that would say they only do it with their bodies and not there minds, therefore their love is only reserved for that one special person. Maybe for some its because they dont get what they need/want at home from their partner. For the guy/SO, I cant really think of what their justification is... other than the money she earns. Maybe some would say its a turn on that their woman is out there fucking and sucking some stranger (?). My personal opinion on it, its bullshit. I dont even like talking with a provider and hearing about their sexcapades with other clients so I dont see the appeal in it.

What someone does (or does not do) is there choice. Im not justifying or judging anyone for there choices but I could never have a GF or wife who was a "public servant" . The simple truth is I couldnt love someone, kiss them goodbye, send them off to a days worth of sucking and fucking, and then kiss them when they got back. Seriously, how do you ask someone how their day went in a situation like that... Man: "Honey, how did your day go?" Woman: "You know, the usual. I blew five guys. I swallowed for the first two and spit for the third. The last two.. one got into the front door and the other plowed the back door and Im still having alittle trouble sitting down." Man: "Whats for dinner?"

I know this is kind of harsh saying this but Im trying to express my point. I dont see how else it could be... unless its not talked about. I cant help but think that could lead to a whole lot of other problems, like jealousy and betrayal and denial. And lets not even go into the idea of the woman doing it behind his back... that the kind of thing where people could end up dead. I said this somewhere else, the more variables in a situation, the more ways things can go wrong. This is exactly why I dont like the idea of women in this business with SO's... its one extra variable that I dont understand or know their intentions.

To each their own but absolutely, 1000%, not for me.

I appreciate your answer. We are on the same page. Thanks.

[BSer]

I think a lot of their boyfriends don't care. Usually young women of public usage date unemployed uneducated bums who need their woman of public usage to work and pay the bills.

[Lexxxy]

I don't date men and I'm a poly swinger. I do have 4 gfs and some do this with me as a form of swinging. Sorry boys, we just use you for sex, at least we are nice enough to give you a warm wash clothe to clean yourself up with when we are done using you for our pleasure
Btw public usage? There is no such thing. I'm not free, i don't see douches, and i turn down more dates than i take. I think public usage is a better term for the Guy at the other end of a porn shop glory hole. I prefer classier terms like communion cup for things like that

[bambino]

Originally Posted by Lexxxy

I don't date men and I'm a poly swinger. I do have 4 gfs and some do this with me as a form of swinging. Sorry boys, we just use you for sex, at least we are nice enough to give you a warm wash clothe to clean yourself up with when we are done using you for our pleasure
Btw public usage? There is no such thing. I'm not free, i don't see douches, and i turn down more dates than i take. I think public usage is a better term for the Guy at the other end of a porn shop glory hole. I prefer classier terms like communion cup for things like that

That would be TaTas.

[tatasddd]

Originally Posted by bambino

That would be TaTas.

I am not the one who goes to parking lots and gets a BJ for 60 bucks and removes lice while being blown.:roflm ao:

[bambino]

Originally Posted by tatasddd

I am not the one who goes to parking lots and gets a BJ for 60 bucks and removes lice while being blown.:roflm ao:

Really? Aren't you Bi? And sagacious? You get CIM from the sigot. Why are you such a hypocrit as well? 5'6" little fag boy. Isn't your butt hole for public usage? STFU.

[eaglehorse]

But you are the one who stuffs Kumquats up his ass and make a video.....

[tatasddd]

Bambino, I do not know why you think I am bi buddy. When have I reviewed a dude? Maybe I need to see you so I stick it up your ass so your words can have some sort of coverage to them. You can talk all you want I am straighter than you are straight daddy. I figured out why you go to parking lots for BJ's for $60. Because your Viagra only helps you for 5 minutes daddy. You alcoholic you. Stop being drunk half the time you are on here.

[OMGitsHuge]

Originally Posted by tatasddd

Recently on TOS there was a hobbyst who was in a search of a provider (WPU) who has a boyfriend or a husband available, because he wanted the SO/Hubby to blow a wad on his GF's cunt so he can lick it off of it. Two things strike me dumb here. The first is this guy's bizarre desire. However I'll let that go here. The second is having a SO, being in a relationship with someone seriously, or being married to a man who knows that you are a WPU/Whore and neither of you have a problem with it. Isn't that a little bit fucked up? How can a relationship be serious when you are a whore and your SO is a Prostidude along with you and knows what you are? Isn't that fucked up?

Of course LillyAnn made haste to respond quickly to satisfy this customer's request haha.

I personally would not be OK with my GF being a WPU because she would be like Public Transit. Everybody puts their feet on you, sticks his sausage inside you or your kisser, breathes down your neck, tramples you and uses you any way they want it. You roll in their filth. They stuff you like a pig & spread you like a chicken. Spill their semen all over you etc.

Let us hear other opinions.

I might be able to shed some light on the original question. Although I have never dated a provider...... at least not for more than an hour nor one that I wasn't paying I have dated a stripper. I hate to categorize people but as far as I'm concerned they are the same type of gal and there is a lot of cross over between the two lines of work.

I have to admit finding out she was a nurse and a stripper was a huge turn on for me. I was a bit concerned how I would react the first time she invited me to the club to see her at work. It turned out I was pretty ok with it. I did feel a bit weird at first paying her for a private dance and later when I saw her taking another customer back for a private dance but I just reminded myself that's how she made her money and I got over it pretty fast. It was actually a real ego boost watching the other guys lust after what I was going to be taking home. So I'm guessing some of the SO's of providers think pretty much the same as I did when I dated the stripper........ which was basically fuck it.......... these guys are paying for her and yet I have her so screw it all.

The funny thing was her reaction when I took one of the other dancers to the back room. Who would have guessed she would be the one with jealousy issues. I had a good time dating her......... to bad she turned out to be just another one in that long line of those bat shit crazy bitches that seem to gravitate to me.

[OMGitsHuge]

Originally Posted by tatasddd

Bambino, I do not know why you think I am bi buddy. .

Oh I do..... It's a fact that most homophobic guys are in fact homosexuals\bisexuals or repressed homosexuals\bisexuals. Enough said.

[bambino]

Originally Posted by OMGitsHuge

Oh I do..... It's a fact that most homophobic guys are in fact homosexuals\bisexuals or repressed homosexuals\bisexuals. Enough said.

Ok Mr Gay hugger. Jump in one of Titstats web can shows.

[tatasddd]

Originally Posted by bambino

Ok Mr Gay hugger. Jump in one of Titstats web can shows.

Bam, you need to cut down on the alcohol Daddy it appears to me you are drunk half of the time.

[wheretogo]

tatasDDD, why do you call men Daddy?

And, in case no one sees it on the other thread...I can understand enjoying the hobby to supplement your bcd activities with someone with whom you are in a relationship, but why would you want to sound as if you're celebrating the fact that you have "fucked" so many providers? After reading your posts, I'm having a difficult time justifying returning to this site as most of your thoughts simply repulse me. In addition, WHY would any of the providers who are simply trying to earn a living with as little impact to their own self respect engage anyone who clearly has no respect for anyone? Just my thoughts