Never Underestimate Intelligent Conversation

[floridian671]

For me the aphrodisiac effect of intelligent conversation is huge.
(And I'm not talking about sex talk.)

I recently had an experience that should have been the stuff of dreams--hot provider, terrific boobs, nice ass. Enthusiastic bbbj, satisfactory cfs (cowgirl). But I drove away thinking what a waste. Over the top (fake) eagerness, inane "conversation."

I could have been just as satisfied by myself and a porn site.

I'm not a good looking guy, I'm overweight, I'm over 60, but I still need a connection.

[PoppyToyota]

I'm the same way bro, I have a few encounters under my belt now. The ones that were unforgettable were the ones I really connected with. Two ladies out of 12 reviewed took time to get to know me and what makes me tick. Those two ladies rocked my boat like never before. One's a local the others a few hundred miles away. For me it's the difference in a good time, and I can't get her out of my mind.

It's not just the older guys...I consider myself young (30) my common denominator is I'm overweight as well. She can be one of the hottest ladies in the room, if she's not able to carry herself right (Walk the walk and talk the talk.) it's really not for me.

[elgato111]

Amen to that! Without a connection of some sort it is very hard to really enjoy oneself with a lady.

I too am not an Adonis and over 60, little overweight, but very frisky. I have been lucky to have met a lady who took the time to check out my profile before we met and now after almost 2 years of visits we still connect and click. Makes me keep seeing her. She never fails to "rock my boat" no matter what.

It just takes research and a lot of luck to find a lady who appreciates you as much as you appreciate her time and efforts to please you.

Keep looking man, those ladies are out there, lots of them here and P411.

[KandyLin]

I completely understand where you're coming from! I have so many sponsors who see me not just because of the amazing sex and my PSE, but because I genuinely like to network and meet new people. There have been times that a regular client calls me up just so we can have lunch and he can talk without worrying about repercussions or being judged. A truly successful provider knows hows step one is the art of conversation!

[Guest091314]

This is exactly why I prefer older men...the younger ones are too much in a rush to wanna have fun. I like it when I can unwind for a minute then go into full gear LO!

[Tara Evans]

Originally Posted by floridian671

For me the aphrodisiac effect of intelligent conversation is huge.
(And I'm not talking about sex talk.)

I recently had an experience that should have been the stuff of dreams--hot provider, terrific boobs, nice ass. Enthusiastic bbbj, satisfactory cfs (cowgirl). But I drove away thinking what a waste. Over the top (fake) eagerness, inane "conversation."

I could have been just as satisfied by myself and a porn site.

I'm not a good looking guy, I'm overweight, I'm over 60, but I still need a connection.

I love to make conversation. Sometimes I dont know when to shut up.
I have been told I would make a good car sales men or a shrink? Oh and age is just a number. You are as old as you feel.

[Lana Warren]

Remember that the brain is the most used sexual organ!

[italian1]

Well said Miss Lana...a stimulating conversation is the beginning of foreplay...and, for me, well...I love foreplay!
Cheers!

[Prolongus]

Originally Posted by KandyLin

I completely understand where you're coming from! I have so many sponsors who see me not just because of the amazing sex and my PSE, but because I genuinely like to network and meet new people. There have been times that a regular client calls me up just so we can have lunch and he can talk without worrying about repercussions or being judged. A truly successful provider knows hows step one is the art of conversation!

Kandy, please move to Dallas...

[berkleigh]

If you really want to get to me...you will have to stimulate my mind.
I enjoy a conversation with someone who has lived life and has a personality.
I think I am probably one of the most competative as far as rates for the services and time frame.
You wwont meet a more honest and interesting person as myself...I can promise you that.
So yes...I am a talker but not a clocker watcher....

[TinMan]

Originally Posted by floridian671

For me the aphrodisiac effect of intelligent conversation is huge.
(And I'm not talking about sex talk.)

I recently had an experience that should have been the stuff of dreams--hot provider, terrific boobs, nice ass. Enthusiastic bbbj, satisfactory cfs (cowgirl). But I drove away thinking what a waste. Over the top (fake) eagerness, inane "conversation."

I could have been just as satisfied by myself and a porn site.

I'm not a good looking guy, I'm overweight, I'm over 60, but I still need a connection.

Right there with you, man. Been there, done that with pretty much all the acronyms...but I never get tired of "conversation as foreplay".

[mansfield]

I would go so far as to say that in some cases, especially married guys, the conversation might even rank equal to the sex.

It's rare to have a conversation as a married guy that doesn't involve what car one of the neighbors just bought, what the kids did at school, or what the latest neighborhood rumor is.

All that stuff is part of life I suppose but how amazing it is to talk to a woman where none of those things come up.

[OldTimeBuddie]

Berk and Lana -- have I told you recently how much I love both of you?

Intelligent conversations, (well, when Berk isn't off on a rant :P Still love ya babe.)

It *is* "Babe" isn't it?

And again -- that's Mr. Goofball to you, young lady.

[floridian671]

I would go so far as to say that in some cases, especially married guys, the conversation might even rank equal to the sex.

Boy is that ever the truth. Just one of the reasons I am looking forward so much to seeing Natalia Cruz.

It's rare to have a conversation as a married guy that doesn't involve what car one of the neighbors just bought, what the kids did at school, or what the latest neighborhood rumor is.

I would also have to add in what a loser I am, how unattractive I am and what a moron I am.

[vnurse]

Aw floridian...I'd show you some love baby!