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Kayleehotchick · 02-23-2012, 05:47 AM

Hi there hobby world! I'm sure this is been said before but dang it...check the ladies showcase and make sure you have the correct donation! I got shorted yesterday and it is NOT very fun! Now, I do believe it was a accident because when I got a hold of him, he did say he was sorry and if I would have called him right away, he would have corrected it (but I didn't see a offer to correct it anyway). Well, I got a phone call when he left so I way very distracted so I didn't count it right away. But I DID get a hold him within a hour of him leaving and did give him the option of getting a card to make up the difference so I hope he comes through (they are everywhere so he doesn't have an excuse).

But my point is, PLEASE take care of your end of the deal. I know for me personally, I'm ALWAYS ready on time and I do my best to try to give you a good time. I don't want to come off like I'm all business. I mean, I don't want to collect the donation and count it. It is kind of a buzz killer if you ask me.

So, lets hope this guy makes good on his deal (because I for filled my end) and all is good in hobby land.

Guys, what do you think of us ladies getting the donation up front? Cool or a buzz killer? And ladies, how do you handle things when you get shorted?

Guest042715 · 02-23-2012, 06:06 AM

I always give the donation up front. I'd rather get the business out of the way first and leave with the IOP still in my head. Watching you counting at the end ruins the IOP for me.

And yes Ms. Hotchick, I have checked your showcase, ALOT....... Is that a bathroom or a meatlocker you took that picture in? Looks cold....but fun

durango95 · 02-23-2012, 08:38 AM

Sinkerswim I agree with you 1000%. I always have the lady count the donation in front of me, this does not take away from the time spent BCD.If anything the lady is more relaxed knowing she has the donation and the amount is correct. And before I get jumped on, I have never had a lady rip me off.I only see providers that pass MY OWN SCREENING TEST. The hobby is difficult at times because of a lady being shorted, or a provider doing a cash and dash. So guys do your homework on the provider you want to visit and ladies, screen and be nice to the other ladies, give the references that are asked for and we will all be happier.

Brandee69 · 02-23-2012, 08:45 AM

Girl i feel the same way i have gotten shorted quite a few times over the years the clients need to stay on top of these things.........

motor · 02-23-2012, 08:52 AM

I agrree with the other posters. I would rather give the donation at the beginning. That way , you have paid, and she knows you paid and doesn't have to think about it and we can get to the fun stuff.

Kayleehotchick · 02-23-2012, 08:55 AM

Getting and counting the donation up front is such a dicey issue. I personally hate doing it but at the same token, when I for filled my end of the deal and the guy shorts me, that sucks. I really do hope this guy squares up on this.

durango95 · 02-23-2012, 09:02 AM

If the provider has spent some time with the hobbyist and there is a working relationship, the donation can be given at any time and there should not be any bad feelings for taking care of the business end. Again you have to pay to play. But always always have the lady count the donation in front of you, at least this is the way I take care of business. I was accused of cheating a provider many years ago and the backlash from that evening was difficult as most of the providers were on high alert about me and some would not even talk to me, but the truth came out and I moved on with life.

trynagetlaid · 02-23-2012, 09:03 AM

You need to read the Alerts section. Some dude tried to pass off a fake bill that was as long as the girl's arm by folding it into an envelope.

Check not only the amount, but the authenticity, of the donation before the guy gets any yum-yum time...

durango95 · 02-23-2012, 09:07 AM

Good point, lots of phony money out there these days and not just in the hobby. Retailers and restaurants get a lot of phony money these days, the $20 dollar bill is the most copied bill so be careful.

Say What · 02-23-2012, 09:12 AM

I will do one of two things: (1) leave the donation in plain view in the bathroom or (2) place it in a non-specific greeting card...one that screams gift, not fee for service. This makes both of us comfortable and as someone recently told me, "This makes that better."

johnnylongcaulking · 02-23-2012, 03:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Kayleehotchick

But my point is, PLEASE take care of your end of the deal.

Tossing a little gasoline on your fire. I don't know if THIS client had "premium access" or not. So if he did, then relative to him, your request still holds some water. If he did not, pricing is not viewable without premium access. I'm willing to bet that a LOT of clients who see ladies who advertise on this site don't purchase premium access and many don't write reviews to "earn" it. For those clients you may want to ensure you have communicated and agreed upon before the appointment. Just food for thought and not meant to piss anyone off. If it did, well, go masturbate and get over it.

Pistolero · 02-23-2012, 03:30 PM

Kaylee, it is terrible when that happens. I hope he takes care of you.

Personally, I do not remember the last time I put a donation out at the beginning of a session. I agree with Kaylee that it ruins the mood. I have never had a problem.

I usually just slip the donation onto a table as I get dressed, always making sure now that the lady sees it. Had one instance about five years ago, when I did this with a provider I had seen numerous times. She did not see me put it out and came to hug me as I was reaching the door. She started kissing and hugging on me until I thought I was going to have to strip down again. Then she asked if I forgot something. I told her no and pointed to the table. We had a good laugh on how she delayed my leaving til she saw the donation.

Like durango said above, I only see providers I know or know a lot about. They have passed my screening. Also, I have been around a long time with quite a good reputation among the providers. All of that helps. I check donations on P411 and reviews and if any questions I ask where to look. I am sorta out of the review habit, so no PA to look at reviews.

And, btw, anyone leaving less than Kaylee posts as donations is stoopid. She is worth well more than her advertised rates.

Great White Buffalo · 02-23-2012, 03:30 PM

Your too nice, sweet, and professional to have this happen to you. Hopefully, he will make up his end of the bargain.

Iaintliein · 02-23-2012, 03:33 PM

For those of us who don't get to hobby often enough to justify paying to see what's hidden in showcase, would it be possible to confirm the donation in a PM prior to meeting?

TNguy · 02-23-2012, 03:36 PM

Good point! I am just getting back into the hobby and dont have Premium Access so i cant see what my donation for Kaylee should be on her showcase. I would love to see her but how would I go about finding out what i should leave for her without just simply asking.