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Old 05-18-2011, 05:15 PM   #1
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Default Before I hobbied.....

So I got to thinking today about what lead me to hobbying (holy crap that's a verb now). So to preface this... I'm younger compared to a lot of the guys that are regular hobbyists (that a word??). I've had a SO since a VERY young age as well as lots of other responsibilities and demands on my life. So being a child of the technology age I tured (as many do) to the internet for a source of escape.

First it was chatrooms on gaming sites (you guys remember Mplayer?). Then the gaming subsided and the chatting and interacting picked up. Yahoo chats and so on. I made a few friends (mostly females) so then I had to make IM accounts to chat and keep up with them. ICQ, MSN, YIM, AIM...had 'em all. Having had quite a bit of luck meeting girls when I was younger (like 14-17) online..I decided to see if this was still a suitable way to explore my options. Lo-and-behold it was.

Next thing I knew I was chatting, emailing, and setting up meets with all these gals. A lot of them turned out to be flakes but there were a few that weren't. Keep in mind this was all for sex...I can try and convince myself otherwise but that was the down-and-dirty of it.

Met a MILF after a couple weeks of chatting that I left work one day to meet up with at a park. She desperately tried to talk me out of cheating and ended up giving me a BBBJ/HJ right there in the front seat of her SUV. Met a young married gal (1-2 years younger than I was) that I had multiple sex-capades with over the course of 3-4 weeks before she got all clingy and wanted to run-away with me. That was the end of that.

Some of this was 10+ years ago so kinda hard to remember all the instances and details. But I think you get the drift of where I am going with this thread.
Somewhere along the way the drama became too much and the thrill was gone so I began to Hobby. Now don't get me wrong there are some AMAZING ladies in the game. But the thrill of hunting a woman...wooing her...seducing her...and then becoming intimate is (to me) SO much more satisfying then the simple 2 call meet. Again I'm not knocking anyone or anything so please no jumping my tail or ranting. Just want some simple feed-back and I'd love to hear some of your stories.

Most recently (about 3-4 months back) met a gal off of a chat here locally. Chatted and flirted online and on cam for a good 2-3 weeks. SHE asked about meeting so we did 3-4 days after she brought it up (on her day off from work). She's married...kid..the whole 9. We met over by her kid's school right around lunch. Parked in a lot by a fast food place and she got into my vehicle with me. We talked, flirted, laughed, for a good 2 hours. Then is was time for her to go get her kid from school. I played it smooth and held back...gave her a soft sweet kiss goodbye. I LOVED watching her melt and seeing the look in her eye...the "I WANT MORE" look. She got ous smiling and got back in her car and left. We planned a second meet up the NEXT day..again her idea.
This time she's wearing a SUPER low-cut top showing off those D's and a short flowy, silk skirt. Same scenario as the previous time...she gets in and we start talking. Next thing I know she's climbing into the back seat cuz it was "more comfy to her". I played it smooth sitting up front a min or two until she asked "why are you so far away...come sit with me". So i did. She scoots close saying she's cold (i had the air on HIGH). I wrap my arms around her rubbing her as to "warm her up"...BOY did it work. She practically jumped my bones. I SOON found out there were no panties under that skirt...

And this is what I mean about it not being the same as hobbying.....

The passion involved, the lust, the yearning, the heavy breathing. You know when you were 16 and you were intimate for the first time with a girl/guy that you had wanted for months? Yeah it was like that. The way she forced herself on me....taking me. She climbed onto my lap as we kissed and our hands roamed each other's body. Before long she was reaching down unzipping my slacks and reaching in. Talk about THROBBING. I was in heaven.
She pulled it out stroking it, tugging it, wiping the wet tip with her finger and licking it off her finger tip. She slid off me laying her head in my lap. Her long hair brushing along it...then I felt her tongue on it....dear lord I let out a moan of delight and she took that as a "get after it"...and she did.

Anyways...like I said I play it smooth so we played around for about 45 mins teasing each other but never did I let her "have it". Got to be time for her to go ...she was 15 mins later than the previous day. But I guess the guilt got to her and I haven't heard back from her since that day. That or I teased way too much for her taste. Oh well.

So...what do you guys think?
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Old 05-18-2011, 05:18 PM   #2
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Old 05-18-2011, 05:31 PM   #3
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I think she wanted to fuck and you wanted to play games, but she's not in high school and probably moved on to one who'll fuck her after she blows him!
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Old 05-18-2011, 05:39 PM   #4
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I understand your point but I was more interested to hear if you guys did things before that lead to hobbying or perhaps hobbied first then started exploring other avenues.
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Old 05-18-2011, 06:00 PM   #5
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Been horney for as long as I can remember. Been hobbying for 10+ I've been... what the hell is the question? Where's ECCIE ADDICT when you need him?
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Old 05-18-2011, 06:25 PM   #6
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HJ, good thread, some thoughts for you!!!!
A. never get married, unless she is rich
2. go to central and south america before you do, there you will sex like you never had before
3. Never get married
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Old 05-19-2011, 12:52 AM   #7
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I'm sure alot of guys hobby for the convenience factor. With work and family obligations most guys don't have time to chat and webcam strange women into anonymous sexcapades.

Whereas the hobby is more point and click, you're paying for more convenience and less hassle. Well, that's the way it's supposed to work anyway.
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Old 05-19-2011, 06:33 AM   #8
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It sounds to me like you like playing games more than the hobby. Most here don't have the time or the will to play the games. That's why we are here.
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Old 05-19-2011, 07:17 AM   #9
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If they aren't spreading their legs within the first 5 minutes of my arrival I walk. I aint got times for games!lol in other words as stated by others I just don't have time to pursue the hunt. And some ladies here know I can be sweet.
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Old 05-19-2011, 07:21 AM   #10
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I'm sure alot of guys hobby for the convenience factor. With work and family obligations most guys don't have time to chat and webcam strange women into anonymous sexcapades.

Whereas the hobby is more point and click, you're paying for more convenience and less hassle. Well, that's the way it's supposed to work anyway.
Agreed. And the key phrase there is "supposed to work". Too frequently that is not the case. But I still strongly agree with you.

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It sounds to me like you like playing games more than the hobby. Most here don't have the time or the will to play the games. That's why we are here.
I guess you could look at it as playing games. To me it's more of the challenge that appeals. Trying to "get the girl". I guess I'm a black sheep on here. The sex just isn't as great unless I've earned it; if you know what I mean. Then again even bad sex still isn't a terrible thing. Like my favorite saying goes... "A BJ is like pizza...even if it's bad it's still pretty good and satisfies the appropriate hunger".
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Old 05-19-2011, 07:23 AM   #11
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LMAO I'm glad I didn't mention the other 4 or 5 chicks then.
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Old 05-19-2011, 09:16 AM   #12
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Dear Abby....................
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Old 05-19-2011, 10:52 AM   #13
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I'm younger compared to a lot of the guys that are regular hobbyists (that a word??).

Sure it's a word! Bill Gates was using it in 1976
"An Open Letter to Hobbyists":


http://www.blinkenlights.com/classiccmp/gateswhine.html

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Old 05-20-2011, 01:18 AM   #14
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"The sex just isn't as great unless I've earned it; if you know what I mean"
every penny I spend has already had plenty effort put into how it was earned; if you know what I mean
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Old 05-20-2011, 06:58 AM   #15
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every penny I spend has already had plenty effort put into how it was earned; if you know what I mean
TOUCHE' !
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