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wildwing · 10-15-2016, 03:59 AM

I really don't get it. Are the ladies playing several guys to fill a time frame leaving the guy thinking he is going to get some and an hour later crickets. Especially when she made first contact the day before? Sure wish the provider would have PM'd me saying that she had to take someone else. Wasted gas, my time and not an apology. Guess I am getting too up in years to interest the busier providers. Very disappointed. Ladies you can tell me you have a better session lined up - I will understand.

Guest123018 · 10-15-2016, 04:11 AM

Shame on her, she is wrong!
Sorry that happened to you

Melissa Madyson · 10-15-2016, 07:48 AM

That is a very shameful thing for a lady to do. I see gentlemen no matter their age as long as they are respectable. You see sometimes a guy will book a certain lady because she seems hot because she's this or that because her reviews your mileage may vary depending on what day of the week it is and she thinks that she is God's gift to men...

Me on the other hand guys seem to think that a BBW lady is not their type and that's okay. But I don't stand people up, I don't have people waiting and wasting their time if I say I'm going to do something I try to always always keep my word. I go out of the way many times just see you guys even after they've been turned down buy another provider. So you see one shouldn't judge a book by its cover. Ask any of the guys that I just recently saw in Baton Rouge on my trip and they will vouch for my good works. Again I'm sorry that happened to you she was less than to do something so cruel to someone as nice as you.
M.M.

holmes50 · 10-15-2016, 08:22 AM

Sorry it happened to you.

Beastly.Beautiful · 10-15-2016, 11:43 AM

I too have had a provider turn around at my door because i am of mixed races. i am part french and mexican she must have thought that i was AA or pale White because she said" sorry i only date american guys"? damn I thought money was the only color desire.. I even brought here flowers to break the ice with. I should have noticed a problem when she told me that my bp reference wasn't accepted and she did not want to contact tara for verification. I mean at least she wasn't a ncns but man what a time waster. LADIES- do skin color really matter that's like the biggest case of prejudgment ever for me. I asked because I've never had someone show up for a photo shoot and have a change of heart because my vocab didn't match my appearance..

Blackmagicman · 10-15-2016, 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Beastly.Beautiful

I too have had a provider turn around at my door because i am of mixed races. i am part french and mexican she must have thought that i was AA or pale White because she said" sorry i only date american guys"? damn I thought money was the only color desire.. I even brought here flowers to break the ice with. I should have noticed a problem when she told me that my bp reference wasn't accepted and she did not want to contact tara for verification. I mean at least she wasn't a ncns but man what a time waster. LADIES- do skin color really matter that's like the biggest case of prejudgment ever for me. I asked because I've never had someone show up for a photo shoot and have a change of heart because my vocab didn't match my appearance..

Oh no man you don't want to be one of us I would keep a genealogy result in my pocket.

Beastly.Beautiful · 10-15-2016, 12:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Blackmagicman

Oh no man you don't want to be one of us I would keep a genealogy result in my pocket.

lol that was a first for me. I been working in the sex indusry for 4 yrs and never have i met a overly problemed queen. i was really just thinking of different scenarios of how that situation could of turned out differently. wildwing things will get better for us.

wildwing · 10-15-2016, 02:04 PM

I've seen quite a few ladies on here, many of them not providing in BR NOW. So when I do get a date I am usually planning the session, what I would like to get out of it, and actually how I can make the lady feel great about her work. 85% of the time it works out. Oh well.

Spontaneouscb28 · 10-15-2016, 02:07 PM

I've had it happened to me before too. It's irritating especially when u drive for more than 50 miles to have that happen to you

1+1 · 10-15-2016, 02:19 PM

[QUOTE=Beastly.Beautiful;105875 5710] damn I thought money was the only color [/QUOTE

Women can be selective in this Industry and it is not only about the money.Many Stellar women have there select requirements.Age limitations,Weight limitations,Race limitations,I have seen some showcases that would make you think the escort was interviewing for a male model.The good looking, younger women can get away with this because they won't lose money or they have a sugar daddy that will pull the slack on their finances.

The reverse effect has been men NCNS by a gorgeous,model looking escort that they let slide because she was so addictive.

Guest123018 · 10-15-2016, 02:23 PM

^Thanks for sharing chick .... lol

1+1 · 10-15-2016, 03:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Melissa Madyson

That is a very shameful thing for a lady to do. I see gentlemen no matter their age as long as they are respectable. You see sometimes a guy will book a certain lady because she seems hot because she's this or that because her reviews your mileage may vary depending on what day of the week it is and she thinks that she is God's gift to men...

Me on the other hand guys seem to think that a BBW lady is not their type and that's okay. But I don't stand people up, I don't have people waiting and wasting their time if I say I'm going to do something I try to always always keep my word. I go out of the way many times just see you guys even after they've been turned down buy another provider. So you see one shouldn't judge a book by its cover. Ask any of the guys that I just recently saw in Baton Rouge on my trip and they will vouch for my good works. Again I'm sorry that happened to you she was less than to do something so cruel to someone as nice as you.
M.M.

+1 Becky
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ilovethemgirls68 · 10-15-2016, 05:24 PM

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Originally Posted by wildwing

I really don't get it. Are the ladies playing several guys to fill a time frame leaving the guy thinking he is going to get some and an hour later crickets. Sure wish the provider would have PM'd me saying that she had to take someone else. Wasted gas, my time and not an apology. Very disappointed. Ladies you can tell me you have a better session lined up - I will understand.

I had this happen to me today.

holmes50 · 10-15-2016, 06:14 PM

Regardless of where it happens it sucks. When it happens in big cities such as Houston your opportunity of having a plan A, B, or C is much easier. Louisiana uh not so much.

I like rice · 10-15-2016, 09:10 PM

I had it happen this week when visiting. Lined things up about 10 days early. Had contact the weekend before with banter back and forth. It continued to the day before telling me things were on and we were great to gour the next day. I got my room that day and let her know. A bit later I get asked how many days I'd be in town to which I replied I was leaving the next day. What she didn't know was I was having a really great afternoon at the casino and I was going to see if her $220 appointment could turn into a multiple hours or even an overnight appointment as I was willing to spend a grand or two since I was on vacation. I showered, as I got out and was about to text her my phone buzzes. It was about 90 mins before the appointment and she canceled. She tells me to try her friend. I told her I was disappointed she couldn't make it. She gave me the excuse that she had a bad luck day and feminine issues started up and it wasn't possible. But it must be over now because 48 hrs later she's asking for short notice appointments. So my guess is I got dumped for a regular. It's fine. It happens. I wish she would have done it at 3 instead of almost 10 when it was hard to get a decent person lined up to play with. In the end I saved some extra money to hobby with at home and now that I'll be in town 4 or 5 times a year I'll know to schedule with someone else when I return.