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Mature Companion · 02-20-2011, 02:27 PM

MFM enjoyment. To what extent do you allow yourself to be UNINHIBITED?

I pose this question based on a truly uninhibited wonderful experience I enjoyed with 2 incredibly wonderful mature men, some time ago.
I've enjoyed many 3sums of the MFM pleasure. Both in & out of the hobby.
In most cases the men were NOT as uninhibited as I would of liked. Though still the pleasures were bountiful.

But 1 of the MFM, 3sums I enjoyed...blew my socks off. I've known both men for a good while. I never in a million years thought I would see their complete uninhibited side, during said 3sum. I didn't judge them in any form or fashion. It was all erotic and totally unexpected. I would love to experience it again!
(Story to follow soon)

So to what degree, do you allow yourself to truly become uninhibited, When enjoying said company of adults?

DallasRain · 02-20-2011, 03:07 PM

I find myself letting everything "loose" and going "balls to the wall"!

Read my review.....it is the one from the Dallas section done by BADHUSBAND...lol!

1Curiousguy · 02-20-2011, 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted by DallasRain

I find myself letting everything "loose" and going "balls to the wall"!

Read my review.....it is the one from the Dallas section done by BADHUSBAND...lol!

Dallas I can't ever see you being anything else and I love you for it!

Sonya Playmate · 02-20-2011, 06:15 PM

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Originally Posted by DallasRain

I find myself letting everything "loose" and going "balls to the wall"!

Read my review.....it is the one from the Dallas section done by BADHUSBAND...lol!

Well said Dallas... Yup let loose and enjoy every moment

Layedback · 02-20-2011, 08:05 PM

With the right partners I could definitely be completely uninhibited but I look forward to reading your story to see what specific acts blew you away.

Mature Companion · 02-20-2011, 08:07 PM

Thanks for the input, Dallas.

I should of clarified in my initial post. That I was seeking input from men who partake of the MFM pleasure and to what extent do they allow themselves to be completely uninhibited?

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Originally Posted by DallasRain

I find myself letting everything "loose" and going "balls to the wall"!

Read my review.....it is the one from the Dallas section done by BADHUSBAND...lol!

Likinikki · 02-20-2011, 08:37 PM

Love it Dallas, "Balls to the Walls" yup, that about describes it! (lol) Inhibition has to be the #1 component...otherwise how good can it really be? If someone has to *become* uninhibited...it's not going to be a great time for all.

All the components have to be there...chemistry, open-mindedness, inhibition and creativity...imho.

DallasRain · 02-20-2011, 08:40 PM

oops sorry

have fun!

Rider68 · 02-20-2011, 08:52 PM

Actually I have only done this once and it was great...for awhile. It was so erotic and primal and she was really into it and wanted both of us. After awhile I realized what I was feeling was my buddys dong going in her backdoor and it was this pressure was what was bringing me way to quick to completion. Then all of my phobias and hangups started to surface and it ruined it for me way to early that night. Of course that all happened 20 some years ago and I have never had a strong enough friend to share a woman with since. Thats probably TMI but I just thought I would share.

Mature Companion · 02-20-2011, 09:01 PM

Not necessarily true. I've an incredible great moments with men whom are not 100% uninhibited. It would be even more incredible if all uninhibited components are there. But even when they're not, It doesn't take away from said date being great and thoroughly enjoyed!

Some folks don't know how or don't feel comfortable letting go of their inhibitions. It takes time to do so with the right partner. And enjoying the moments when your partner trusts you, feel safe & comfortable with you and the layers of their inhibitions are peeled away. Those partners become some of the best lovers!

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Originally Posted by Likinikki

Inhibition has to be the #1 component...otherwise how good can it really be? If someone has to *become* uninhibited...it's not going to be a great time for all.

All the components have to be there...chemistry, open-mindedness, inhibition and creativity...imho.

ammonite · 02-20-2011, 09:07 PM

For me, the first time I tried it, me and the other guy were to inhibited to perform. Subsequent MMF and MFMF sessions have been much better and a lot of fun. It just takes some getting used to. Practice makes perfect they say LOL.

wildwooly1 · 02-20-2011, 09:40 PM

First off lets get some points out in the open about MFM ..there is four different stages of MFM.
1. oral and vaginal
2. vaginal and anal
3. two in vaginal
4. the guys doing each other and her at same time

the first one is very stranger friendly and you can do this with any guy as long as they stay in their area..
the second you are going to cross swords while this is going on and you better know the othe guy a little bit..
third you are going to be rubbing on each other and you better be very open person and know the other guy real well..
fourth you better be swinging to a different tune because you have just crossed the straight line.
I have done the first and second and it was a great experience but i would not go to step 3 and 4 for any lady..sorry not my cup of tea.
If the lady is into having 2 guys at same time it can be really good and both guys can benefit from the others ability and it just makes everything hotter but you both better be pretty open guys or it can turn into a dissaster.

davidsmith0123 · 02-20-2011, 09:48 PM

I have tried MFM, twice, and in both cases I admit to being a bit inhibited. Partly because I was a newbie. Maybe I would be less so on a second round with either M. Partly I did not know the other M, so it was not clear just what was welcome and what was not. Probably on both sides. Don't know what the F thought, but we concentrated on her, and she seemed to like it, so . . . .

Likinikki · 02-20-2011, 10:02 PM

My point is...if someone is feeling *inhibited* for any reason...how much is that person really going to get out of that experience...if they're being honest and realistic?

Anyway, sorry, I didn't realize that you were only asking the gents their POV about their experience.

davidsmith0123 · 02-20-2011, 10:22 PM

Well, I can feel (somewhat) inhibited and still think I got a lot out of that experience. Not as much as possible, but still quite enjoyable. You are talking to someone who has, prior to this experience, never had a threesome. It was great, regardless of inhibitions I felt. Next time I may be more discerning. But really, I have no complaints.