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Zenovia · 12-28-2015, 10:29 PM

Since the beginning of this awesome "hobby journey" of mine.
I have met a few good men, and have bonded with some.
Everyone has their favorites, hobbyists and providers alike.
I can honestly say, I haven't had one bad experience with any of the gentlemen I spent time with and for that I'm very grateful. THANKS A MILLION GUY!

ON THE OTHER HAND...
The audacity of some providers is very perplexing.
How dare a provider try to put stipulations and questioning a man that clearly is not her husband / boyfriend! (I find that to be very psychotic) Besides getting a verification from each other, it really isn't our business who these guys choose to spend their time and money with.

Gentlemen, correct me if I'm wrong, partaking of this"hobby world" gives you the sought out fantasy and a wide range of ladies to choose from to do it with. RIGHT?!
So why in the H.E.DOUBLE HOCKEY STICKS would you let a non factor woman try to sabotage a potentially good time?

THE FUCKERY IS STRONG IN THE WORLD OF ECCIE!

Danielle Reid · 12-28-2015, 10:35 PM

I've never seen someone spell out HELL like that...

Anyway whores become possessive as much as Fucktards. It's the eye rolling side of this great world. I've lost regulars to other providers but I can't Bitch about it. I want to, but no one would listen. Doesn't matter, not like they put a ring on it. There's enough dick and cash for everyone. Obviously they are somewhat of a factor if they're important enough to be used as a reference. Some ladies don't like to share their toys

notequiteatroll · 12-28-2015, 10:36 PM

oh, there's a story here.
baby, if i were a bigger man i'd be at your door in a heartbeat. your style turns me on.

i think i'm not deep enough into this hobby world (and with not terribly deep pockets) to get caught up in possessiveness. if that's what's going on.

but yeah the idea is no stirngs attached and a wide open playing field.

Zenovia · 12-28-2015, 11:14 PM

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Originally Posted by notequiteatroll

oh, there's a story here.
baby, if i were a bigger man i'd be at your door in a heartbeat. your style turns me on.

i think i'm not deep enough into this hobby world (and with not terribly deep pockets) to get caught up in possessiveness. if that's what's going on.

but yeah the idea is no stirngs attached and a wide open playing field.

Lol.. Yes a few absurd stories have been told to me. Some are very interesting at the same time hilarious. I just can't understand how anyone could be so possessive over another human being...especially if they aren't your s/o. Guessing we all must choose wisely on who to spend time with.
One day, if in our cards, we'll cross paths..rest assure you will have a phenomenal time with no worries of blackmail!

Zenovia · 12-28-2015, 11:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Danielle Reid

I've never seen someone spell out HELL like that...

Anyway whores become possessive as much as Fucktards. It's the eye rolling side of this great world. I've lost regulars to other providers but I can't Bitch about it. I want to, but no one would listen. Doesn't matter, not like they put a ring on it. There's enough dick and cash for everyone. Obviously they are somewhat of a factor if they're important enough to be used as a reference. Some ladies don't like to share their toys

First time for everything...

I like your input! I'm only few months new to this hobby world thing, and definitely not accustomed to the possessiveness of either provider or hobbyist. I just don't see the point in any of it! Like you said..there is enough dick and money to go around. So why would one be so vindictive?! Just trying to make sense of it all.

Ginger Doll · 12-28-2015, 11:33 PM

It's unfortunate that girls act that way, but they do. I've had this problem more times than I can count over the years.

What's funny is that the girls who play those games usually don't think about the fact that they will eventually need a reference from you.

The blackmail thing sounds a little above and beyond the usual hobby possessiveness, though.

Danielle Reid · 12-28-2015, 11:40 PM

I don't understand women. I also don't understand men. I just do what I do best and hope the man in front of me is enjoying it

watchoutthegameisrigged · 12-29-2015, 12:13 AM

"I don't understand women. I also don't understand men. I just do what I do best and hope the man in front of me is enjoying it."

That might just be the most blatantly honest comment I have ever seen here.

notequiteatroll · 12-29-2015, 12:19 AM

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Originally Posted by watchoutthegameisrigged

"I don't understand women. I also don't understand men. I just do what I do best and hope the man in front of me is enjoying it."

That might just be the most blatantly honest comment I have ever seen here.

its why i love her (posts)

clydesdale · 12-29-2015, 12:27 AM

I fall in love with every lady I've visited with.....for an hour or two

. I actually had this happen to me with a provider once. She wasn't possessive of me but she was possessive of my donation. I was a newbie and she was the only newbie friendly provider to me at the time. I started off giving her as a reference to other ladies through PMs on here but because of the possessiveness she wouldn't return the ladies inquiries. Luckily at the time I was on P411 and she gave me an OK and the ladies on P411 accepted her OK thus giving me more OKs. As a result of her possessiveness I chose not to ever visit her again which cost her future donations from me and other gentlemen who have ask me about how she is/was. I hobby so I can have a variety of fun, variety meaning a variety of ladies, and when a provider wants to get possessive I will avoid them at all costs. When I do visit a lady I am after the ultimate GFE to the max and I mean the whole girlfriend illusion with cuddling and everything. So as I said I fall in love with every lady I meet......for an hour or two. And if they are nice and good they have a friend any time they come to my area and need any input, advice, or help. Just my .02 worth.

Iridemhard · 12-29-2015, 01:11 AM

Jealous providers?? This is news to me...

nwaarguy · 12-29-2015, 01:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Nova Nwa

Gentlemen, correct me if I'm wrong, partaking of this"hobby world" gives you the sought out fantasy and a wide range of ladies to choose from to do it with. RIGHT?!

You're right nova this a fantasy and variety is the spice of life.

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Originally Posted by notequiteatroll

i think i'm not deep enough into this hobby world (and with not terribly deep pockets) to get caught up in possessiveness. if that's what's going on.

Me too

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Originally Posted by clydesdale

. As a result of her possessiveness I chose not to ever visit her again which cost her future donations worth.

jealousy and possessiveness will make hobbyist run like hell.

I don't understand it never will kinda reminds me of high school drama and BS.

Danielle Reid · 12-29-2015, 02:02 AM

From what I've witnessed and based on open complaints followed by reviews of the complainee from the complainer or his comrades...there's not really much of anything to make a hobbyist run like hell

You can be a ****ed out ***** whore with missing teeth and ***** marks or a serial killer black widow and you'll still make enough every month to supply your extracurricular activities and make rent on time

Danielle Reid · 12-29-2015, 02:12 AM

Oh no he gave me a NO review!

So the fuck what? Not like you're going to lose business over it. Start drama: get dates from the nosy guys looking to know more. Start a rumor: the victim gets dates to see if it's true. Get a NO review: get dates from the curious.

Most of these guys don't read reviews, not to mention most of the reviews are half truths because the men are afraid they won't get their dick wet anymore if they tell the truth. WKs and hooktards use scare tactics to try to control the masses. It's mainly bullshit. No one truly loses business for just one thing. The only way to ruin the career of a hooktard is if said hooktard 1. Falls off the face of the earth or 2. Ends up in jail for an extended period of time. Otherwise her phone will still ring and she'll still get those half assed "Dear Penthouse" reviews leaving out all of the bad.

Danielle Reid · 12-29-2015, 02:14 AM

Now, prove me wrong. Don't worry, I'll wait

Back in topic. Providers get protective for a few reasons. Mainly because they don't want the high tipping client to share his money with the next girl. God forbid the high roller spends his money on one of her rivals. That'll get panties in a bunch quick!