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VIP Mya Michelle · 12-21-2012, 10:54 PM

Hi everybody i just want to report a NCNS for lukeskywalker1971 tonight.

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...post1052089578

I replied to his iso to which he responded, we coresponded and aggreed i would meet him at the strip club baby dolls, once i arrived he was not able to be contacted.

Luckily the strip joint is only 6 miles from my place (people told me that ISO forum was a bunch of bologna, now i know first hand). Never the less very aggrevating especially after we cooresponded so much before i arrived, and i was sure that he was "for real".

Stay Safe and Happy Holidays Ladies and Gentlemen

Texasquest · 12-22-2012, 12:23 AM

Sorry Mya. NCNS sucks on both sides of the fence. I'm glad to see you call this gent out on it. Fir I'm sure if the tables were turned he would be screaming and asking for your head. Gentleman. If you make an appointment then have the canines to show up. As far as I'm concerned LS you owe this lady for her time. Even if you had "something come up" you could have taken 30 seconds to send her a msg. You didn't do this so Mam up and pay the lady.

Guest092216 · 12-22-2012, 05:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Texasquest

Sorry Mya. NCNS sucks on both sides of the fence. I'm glad to see you call this gent out on it. Fir I'm sure if the tables were turned he would be screaming and asking for your head. Gentleman. If you make an appointment then have the canines to show up. As far as I'm concerned LS you owe this lady for her time. Even if you had "something come up" you could have taken 30 seconds to send her a msg. You didn't do this so Mam up and pay the lady.

+1

Dang I'm sorry to read this. Hopefully there's a good reason for it. Please let me know if he offers u an explaination and compensates you accordingly. I honestly had no problems whatsoever with him, but if he NCNS'd you without any reason or a gesture to show you he wished you two had met then I will not ref him in the future.

the_chewtoy · 12-22-2012, 06:22 AM

+1 Turnabout is fair play. If we guys get to NCNS report a lady, then nice to see a lady return the favor!

Sorry you were inconvenienced, Mya. I agree with Texasquest--men, if you make an appointment, show up!

Guest100513-2 · 12-22-2012, 06:37 AM

Lets guess what excuse he will use

I am going with phone issues, he started his period, and his SO decided to fuck him senseless so his dick was too sore.

pyramider · 12-22-2012, 06:59 AM

Good try monck. I bet he was in the VIP getting his nob polished.

Guest112916 · 12-22-2012, 08:26 AM

You're wrong with all those Monk....He dropped his phone in the toilet.

scurryken · 12-22-2012, 08:29 AM

how could you nc/ns mya she looks so sexy.

VIP Mya Michelle · 12-22-2012, 08:53 AM

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Originally Posted by pyramider

Good try monck. I bet he was in the VIP getting his nob polished.

youre probably right pyramider, he was already at the club so he probably already found a stripper.

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Dang I'm sorry to read this. Hopefully there's a good reason for it. Please let me know if he offers u an explaination and compensates you accordingly. I honestly had no problems whatsoever with him, but if he NCNS'd you without any reason or a gesture to show you he wished you two had met then I will not ref him in the future.

Thank you for your concern thathotnurse i would not ask you not to refer him, you gave a true account of your encounter with him. Unfortuantley people are not always consistent.

Thank you texasquest, von speiler, scury ken, chewtoy and monk monk , u guys make me feel alot better about the whole situation, backing up that it isn't my fault. It can be real easy to blame yourself when you fall for B.S.

pyramider · 12-22-2012, 09:58 AM

An outcall and to meet at a titty bar is just asking for problems. Hopefully, you did not have to pay the cover.

Guest092216 · 12-22-2012, 01:01 PM

It's normal to want to trust people. What ends up happening is person A takes person B for their word and when person B proves to be a lying POS, person A likely feels naive and taken advantage of ....... So, now persons c,d,e,f, etc are automatically suspected of dishonesty, the manner in which they are dealt with is certainly more distant and guarded. The lady's focus on providing quality and respectful service (that person B enjoyed but took for granted) is swiftly and subconsciously shifted over to: protection and survival.

Guys comment very very often on how cold and distance some ladies are. I would guess they've crossed paths with too many person Bs. I know it has had an effect on me for sure. I get impatient and ask people not to contact me if I get even the slightest impression they are just entertaining themselves at my expense without any intention of booking actual time.

Mya, dont feel bad. I'm about to post a warning for a very similar situation that happened to me last week except the gent was there, kept me for a good bit of three hours then decided he was too tired for any private time but swore to me he wanted a session the next night and promised he would see me tomorrow. Well, like a total dumbass I didn't want to degrade the "mutual respect" thing that seemed to be present. At the time I felt like I would be an asshole if I did. Lesson learned.

I'll post it later tho...going to mall....

)))))))

ManSlut · 12-22-2012, 02:58 PM

I'm glad you wrote this Mya. I wish more providers would do this if a dude wastes their time. Why any man would stand you up is unfathomable to me...I will be happy to make it up for him but my To See List has about a 2 week backlog.

This thread does bring to my 'look from both sides' mind, where are the ladies that say, "Let's give him the benefit of the doubt, maybe something happened to him, an emergency appendectomy or something, we just don't know."...LMAO

I wish you ladies could write reviews on us and Mya would write my first one!!

The Passionate ManSlut...Gatekeeper for the Truth

rocker · 12-22-2012, 04:32 PM

You should wait 72 hrs before posting NCNS! He could have been in a car accident, he may have had an emergency with a fam member, maybe had a flat tire, cell battery was dead so he couldnt call you.

I think you should give some time to respond back to you. Maybe he got a better offer. Move on and forget it, happens to all of us.

Rocker

pyramider · 12-22-2012, 08:33 PM

Its always better to post when the emotions have leveled off. Granted, the emotional rants are good entertainment but let things cool a bit. I thinck 72 hours is a stretch but let it cool off a bit. See if the fucktard contacts you and if he is willing to make right or if he just wants to lie his ass off.

VIP Mya Michelle · 12-22-2012, 09:11 PM

This is the first NCNS i have had so far since my time on eecie.

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An outcall and to meet at a titty bar is just asking for problems. Hopefully, you did not have to pay the cover.

I never went in the club because they dont allow unescorted women in there by themselves without a gentleman, so it didnt cost me any money just a lil gas and about 40 minutes of my time. Not including the time it took me to get dressed to go out.