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Bristal · 07-12-2011, 10:55 PM

As some of you may already know a good friend of mine is starting up here on eccie. I thought this would be a good time for guys to give any tips on what makes a good date. From initial contact all the way to the end. Maybe just things you wish us girls knew. I have been a provider for a long time but know there is always more to learn to make every meeting perfect! So speak freely!

XOXO

lakecat · 07-13-2011, 08:00 AM

If you approach each date with the attitude that for the time we're together, we're lovers and all your attention is focused on me, you will have many satisifed, repeat customers and you may even enjoy yourself in the process. If you treat us like an ATM machine and make it clear your objective is to get as much money out of us as quickly as possible, you're going to spend a lot of your time finding new targets rather than meeting old friends. Attitude is everything.

LeilaniBebe · 07-13-2011, 09:45 AM

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Originally Posted by lakecat

Attitude is everything.

+1

Bristal · 07-13-2011, 10:18 AM

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Originally Posted by LeilaniBebe

+1

Iagree! Probably the #1 thing that can make or break a date.

ScubaBad · 07-13-2011, 10:47 AM

I have to agree. I'm also a big fan of getting to know one another. A little connection goes a long way, I prefer to get to know the girl a little before the date with a little bit of phone conversation or at least for a little while at the beginning of it. When a girl just texts or emails and doesn't talk to you before the date and shows up just for BCD, she is usually just going to be seen as a sex object or a piece of meat. Although I'm sure there a plenty of guys that want that, I can't see how that is a good thing for the provider. Just like a real relationship, it shouldn't just be about BCD. If we connect, I will keep coming back for more...not just 1 hour.

Sleepyhollow · 07-13-2011, 07:18 PM

+1 to Lakecat and ScubaBad; the ATM attitude is the surest way to drive us away!

CuteOldGuy · 07-13-2011, 09:43 PM

If a provider can make me think I'm young, attractive, and well hung, they have a friend for life! That is, if I ever visited providers, uh, which I don't, uh, I just make up stories. Yeah, that's it.

ScubaBad · 07-13-2011, 09:49 PM

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Originally Posted by CuteOldGuy

If a provider can make me think I'm young, attractive, and well hung, they have a friend for life! That is, if I ever visited providers, uh, which I don't, uh, I just make up stories. Yeah, that's it.

Ditto to the 1st sentence....we'll 2 and 3 also

KCboy · 07-14-2011, 04:30 AM

Friendly warm encounter. I agree with all that is said about attitude. I think if the provider is a true GFE, I know many interpretations, but really makes you feel like your the one then I will come back again and again. If the acts are mechanical in any way then why repeat with her? Also work it for the entire time and dont be a clock watcher. My humble opinion.

Redwolf · 07-14-2011, 07:42 AM

Show your clients with your words, attitude, and actions that you are grateful that they chose you from all the other local and traveling ladies. Don't ever begin taking them for granted. Make their time all about them and you.

MsElena · 07-14-2011, 08:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Redwolf

Show your clients with your words, attitude, and actions that you are grateful that they chose you from all the other local and traveling ladies. Don't ever begin taking them for granted. Make their time all about them and you.

Good one, but remember it goes both ways. Don't let the guys start walking all over you. Not all will do that, but there are guys out there that will take advantage of you or try to.

Mean what you say, say what you mean. Always stand behind your word.

KCboy said don't be a clock watcher. No, you shouldn't always watch the clock, but be aware of your time. Some guys will want to take advantage of your time. The guys spend money for a certain amount of time and that's what they should receive. If you decide to go over that time, it should be a decision made by you and no one else.

flash1243 · 07-14-2011, 09:09 AM

I think there are two distinct flavors of encounters, both of which are delicious. The first is the GFE - girlfriend experience, which seems to be what most of the previous posters have described.

The second is the PSE - pornstar experience, which is my personal favorite. I like a girl who is aggressively seductive or sexual, and completely uninhibited. That can take the form of attacking me at first sight, or letting me know in no uncertain terms she wants me to attack her. Save the chit chat for later. This doesn't necessarily suit most girls temperment, and may be difficult to accomplish in the context of a business transaction, but those who can pull it off will get my repeat business.

Bristal · 07-14-2011, 09:52 AM

You guys are all great! Thank you so much

diddler · 07-14-2011, 11:34 AM

Communication is key. From the beginning...prompt responses to emails,pms, or voicemails. When someone is new there is a lot of doubt...this can be defused with quick and to the point responses. Remember...you only have one chance to make a first impression.

malwoody · 07-14-2011, 01:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Bristol

You guys are all great! Thank you so much

Naaa, these guys aren't great, but you, well I'm sure that's a
different story.