I feel the need to speak my peace and the site has allowed me to do so in a matter that recently occurred. I was accused without proof, by a provider of outing her. She was told by another provider that I had shared her info, and photos of her and her child. First off, her social page, which was linked to her boyfriends open page, had been passed around by many of the guys of NOLA,(you know who you are) to many others, providers included. When it was sent to me, I did not save the photos nor did I email or post them, or her name, anywhere in public. It was known by many, but as far as I know, no one cared. As many know I have never shared personal info. And to be blunt, with all the high profile clients I have screened for in the past, it serves me no purpose nor would it benefit me in any manner to worry about someone so insignificant, nor do I care. In the big scheme of things, this hobby board is really very small, and does not rule my life, nor do I thrive off of it, unlike so many others--which is apparent by the number of posts they make. As far as the person accusing me, I feel she was misinformed and understandingly so in an emotional and hysterical state of mind decided to go after me without any real proof, other than the word of a person who has no credibility whatsoever. I have yet to figure out why, nor do I care, why that person decided to start this. All I know is that I am very thankful to the mods for taking the time to look into it and giving me a fair voice in the matter. I hold no ill feelings towards the other 3 people involved, and as I stated to the mod, I have no intentions of having any contact with them again in the future. I am a very forgiving person, hold no grudges, and believe that life is too short to be bitter and angry.
I wish everyone well, have fun, and stay safe out there.
Toodles!