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Guest082413-1 · 01-27-2010, 05:38 PM

Have any you gents/ladies ever fallen in love with your clients or providers? I have documented this phenomenon on my MySpace blog, but am curious to see who have ever fallen in <3 <3 <3.....

Exotic Lily · 01-27-2010, 06:00 PM

I had a long term arrangement with a client that lasted 4yrs (2003-2007) and he fell deeply in love with me. I loved him dearly but wasn't 'in love' with him because I couldn't accept the fact that it was a long term paid arrangement. I finally had to end it when I retired late 2007. Now that i've returned after 2.5yrs, he has contacted me recently wanting to resume it... this has me wondering... do men ever really fall out of love?

Iceman · 01-27-2010, 06:06 PM

I'm sure it happens. You never know when or where you'll meet that special someone.

I imagine it could be very complicated given the unique circumstances (provider or client) though.

charlestudor2005 · 01-27-2010, 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Exotic Lily

... this has me wondering... do men ever really fall out of love?

I think there are a few option, and they all happen depending on the parties involved:

No, they don't fall out of love.
Yes, they do fall out of love.
They don't fall out of love nor do they stay in love. They fall into a routine. This is b-o-o-o-r-i-n-g.
They begin to hate. After all, the same emotion as love is there, it's just a fine line between love and hate.
They feel nagged and leave.
They don't get the sex they want and leave. After all, this is more important to men than to women (even women admit this).
The relationship isn't satisfying any longer (for whatever reason) and they leave.

There are probably more alternatives--these are the ones that I can think of off the top of my head.

If you can think of others...please chime in...

gman44 · 01-27-2010, 07:53 PM

I'm am definitely in lust with The OP

flowerflower1 · 01-27-2010, 08:11 PM

i have only been with angelina once but i could fall in love with her in a heartbeat.... thank goodness i don't live in austin or i could seriously be in love and or bankrupt

dsocorvette · 01-27-2010, 08:20 PM

Do men fall out of love? Yes of course we do. We don't forget the good or the bad. We can fall out of just as easy as we fell in.

GuYFoX · 01-27-2010, 08:46 PM

Lust definitely.

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Originally Posted by flowerflower1

i have only been with angelina once but i could fall in love with her in a heartbeat.... thank goodness i don't live in austin or i could seriously be in love and or bankrupt

in love and or bankrupt

GTO · 01-27-2010, 08:58 PM

Angelina, I read your blog and am sorry that you were hurt so.... maybe it's easy to happen in these relationships, but I believe that you don't need people like that and you'll find those who will respect you. Keep looking :-)

rekcaSxT · 01-27-2010, 10:11 PM

Aw babe, I read your blog. I am so sorry this happened to you. You know I adore you and would never treat you this way. I hope you can get over this. If I knew who this guy was I would have a couple "words" for him.

I hope to see you again soon hun. Don't be a stranger.

TexTushHog · 01-27-2010, 10:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Exotic Lily

this has me wondering... do men ever really fall out of love?

I never did with the gal I really loved.

rekcaSxT · 01-27-2010, 10:27 PM

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Originally Posted by TexTushHog

I never did with the gal I really loved.

I saw a picture of "the one that got away" tonight. It took me back. I would still give anything to be with her...

SFviii · 01-27-2010, 11:07 PM

I must admit that I felt something special with the lady during and after our dreams together.

Mostly from a few regular GFE providers and Porn Star escorts who provides GFE. Then I'm cured when I meet the next GFE/PSE dream.

Moving on and having fun,
SF8

Guest082413-1 · 01-27-2010, 11:36 PM

Well, Exotic Lilly's testimony reached the heart of what I was seeking, in addition to the words of FlowerFlower 1, RekcasTX, TexTushDog, CharlesTudor, GTO, Shootfighter, Genius (who I admire) and of course, Corvette. Please excuse my blog, I was in a deep state of drunkeness (sp?) from a 2004 Napa Cabernet Sauvignon....a full bottle. I have a career outside of the hobby that requires my intellectual abilities, so being called that name broke my heart. It's hard, especially, when you care about the person calling you that name.

I love several of my clients....I have fallen in love, but a girl can never kiss and tell. I'll never disclose who I am in love with. I find that I am simply in love with the fact that I am single and I feel like each time I am with a client, I am with a boyfriend who spoils me. I choose not to have a boyfriend outside of the hobby as I view everything as a financial transaction, which is indeed sad on many levels. If I don't feel compensated, I leave. FlowerFlower 1, RekcasTX and GTO have always spoiled me!

Tracey P · 01-28-2010, 12:17 AM

Yes, I have have had clients fall in love (infatuation). What I have learned from the ordeals of the past is that the provider plays a very important role in the situation. Ladies need to learn what they want (or dont want) and be CLEAR to the gentleman. Honesty is the best policy. This means no confusing mixed signals or manipulation. When its clear that a man's emotions are getting involved, it is not fair to be any less than honest with him. For a provider to say, "I dont know WHY he keeps bothering me! Hes stalking me!" is a little...irresponsible. Dont lead him on in the first place! Say what you mean and mean what you say....But easy for me to say... Hindsight is 20/20