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lagerlover · 10-04-2015, 03:35 PM

Please consider your clients when you agree to an appointment. Speaking only for myself, it requires a complex aligning of the stars for me to make an appointment. if it in is during the weekday I need to arrange my schedule and block the time to get away. The possibilities of making such an arrangement are limited so when I say lets go it is a unique occasion.. Same goes for a weekend appointment, opportinities are limited and for me making a commitment is a challenge. In order for me to make this happen in every case , I always try to schedule in advance, minimum of 24 hours and often much more than that. I scheduled an aappointment for this weekend at a specified time well in advance and got a "perfect" response, "an hour" would be great" and we will stay in touch. On the day of the appointment my request for an update within an hour of the agreed time I was met with "can you do later?" and the appointment fell through. Unfortunatly this is not the first time this has happened with this provider but it is the last. There were other providers who were availble during my limited time frame but I did not contact them because i had made a commitment. Ladies, this behavior not only screws your clients but it also impacts your colleagues. I would have gladly contacted other provider for an appointment had I had been notified more than 30 mins before the scheduled time. Both me and the distaff members of the community have lost because of this rudness. i know shit happens but this is the third and last time this provider has committed to a meeting and reneged at the last minute. You ladies ask for our respect, how about some consideration in return.

lagerlover · 10-04-2015, 03:45 PM

ment this for he Omaha forum

lagerlover · 10-04-2015, 03:51 PM

nebraska forum as well

Guest040816-1 · 10-04-2015, 09:21 PM

Great point. I know that stuff happens but three times? Ugh.

RafaelH · 10-04-2015, 10:13 PM

I had the same happen to me a couple of times this summer. Fortunately my plan B dates kept their appointments the following week. I chatted about this with one of the ladies, she said she had heard the same complaint from several gentlemen.

windowsidiot · 10-05-2015, 08:24 AM

This type of problem seems to be getting more prevalent. Providers say ncns is increasing for them too. Maybe they are scheduling more than one for popular times just in case. Any input from the ladies?

charmingmark · 10-05-2015, 08:49 AM

Lexi Lynne has done this three times to me
I understand stuff happens but the same pattern disregards the nature of the hobby

Mike1961 · 10-05-2015, 10:16 AM

I can see it happening once or twice but three times is too much if its in a short period of time. Maybe the ladies are getting more ncns because guys are lining up backups.

Greenie76 · 10-05-2015, 10:16 AM

Perhaps we should have a thread to track NCNS and other such scheduling issues with names. It seems like most people only leave reviews for the good experiences but in reality the bad ones are equally important.

windowsidiot · 10-05-2015, 11:09 AM

I presume habitual ns clients are noted in the powder room.

I like rice · 10-05-2015, 11:35 AM

Largerlover I feel your pain on making things work in a difficult time frame. I often have a 90 min window or have other folks on the trip so I have to sneak away or do something late at night outside of most providers normal hours of 9 am to 10 pm.. If she changes can't work in those windows we discussed for that trip, I have to cancel.

That being said, I think I've only every had one person not make an appointment. And she offered a later time that day (about 90 mins later) and it didn't work for my day.

One other time I canceled when a gal changed the arrangements as she was supposed to do an outcall to me (said she was in a room near my area) and then wanted me to do an incall 30 minutes away. This came a day after she NCNS someone else so I declined and was able to find a last min. gal who could get me verified.

But I also realize that some girls just can't work under the terms I need. As a result, sometimes you just have to see if a gal can work you in the day of without much planning and know if you can't get someone to respond you're just not going to play. That's why I only hobby here and there and hit lots of AMP's when I travel.

Guest040816-1 · 10-05-2015, 11:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Greenie76

Perhaps we should have a thread to track NCNS and other such scheduling issues with names. It seems like most people only leave reviews for the good experiences but in reality the bad ones are equally important.

Greenie,
NCNS reports can be met with harrassment from not only the offending lady, but also from white knights on this board.

joblow306 · 10-05-2015, 12:26 PM

Not the only one. I don't live down here just work so trying to get something set up takes some work. In the last few weeks tried to see Kelly 4 different times and every time ended in her not responding back when she says yes we can meet and I have already driven to nearby location. I know thinks come up and that's fine just let a person know.

Greenie76 · 10-05-2015, 01:00 PM

Thanks for the response and I get what you're saying.

I'll be honest. The hassle and drama I've experienced in this hobby recently has caused me to take a break from the full service providers. I'm to the point where I'd rather go to an Asian massage place, get a nice relaxing body rub with a happy ending, and be ready to go. It sucks that there aren't any good ones in Lincoln but at least I know when I show up at (fight club rule #1) I can just walk in and get things taken care of.

wedge_donovan · 10-05-2015, 01:19 PM

I learned that the hard way didn't I smooth? You were one of the few that backed me up. KK and I buried the hatchet balls deep many times after that, but not until I took a beating from White Knights first. It has been fun to watch them complain about their NCNS shows now or remain quiet when somebody else complains now.