Getting turned down for a session.

[Kayleehotchick]

If a provider turns you down for a session, would you want to know why?

[74comet]

I absolutely would want to know why. Could be that erroneous information is circulating that could hamper further forays in the hobby world.

[OldGrump]

Yes. I would want to know if it was something I should correct.

If it was because of age, weight, or just being too damned nice, I'll have to live with it.

[Gbfsl]

For sure I would want to know.

[Kayleehotchick]

Excellent.

Now, are there some reasons that are TMI? Like she is on her cycle, for example?


I turned down a session a few days ago due to the hobbyist reputation not so great amongst the ladies. I didn't tell him why because I didn't want to feel like I was throwing a few providers under the bus.



It was a catch 22 for me personally.

[FunInDFW]

Do I want to know? Yes. Do I expect you (the collective you) to tell me anything truthful if I were to ask why? No.

Originally Posted by Kayleehotchick

Excellent.

Now, are there some reasons that are TMI? Like she is on her cycle, for example?

Yes, and no.
TMI: I'm bleeding like a stuck pig so I can't see you.
not TMI: This week isn't a good time for me. I'd still love to you see if you though if you're interested sometime next week.

[rockerrick]

Personally if that were the case, YES I would rather know that than think providers are talking shit sabotaging me in ladies area.

[Kayleehotchick]

Originally Posted by FunInDFW

Yes, and no.
TMI: I'm bleeding like a stuck pig so I can't see you.
not TMI: This week isn't a good time for me. I'd still love to you see if you though if you're interested sometime next week.

LOL....awesome advice! Thx!

[zipster]

To answer both of your questions......Yes and No!

[icansmile]

I have visited more than one lady that I WISH had turned me down.

[pashunfroot]

FunInDFW has it right in the case the there is a legit reason the provider needs to reschedule/cancel.

the other part of the question I believe was where the provider doesn't wish to see the hobbyist, in which case I would want to know if there was some misunderstanding, incorrect info or if there is just something that i may need to work on (deoderant, mints, showering, keeing my mouth shut etc.)

[oldbutstillgoing]

It would be nice to know but not expected to be told. Entirely up to you. The one I would really be interested in knowing is if I had a session and was then turned down for another one. Have had it happen only twice but have always wondered if it was something I did or said inadvertently.

if the guy is mature and capable of dealing with the truth, it could be valuable feedback. But, how id the provider to know?

[L.A.]

I already have low self-esteem. If I get rejected by an escort I might kill myself. Better make up something good.

[anita]

Originally Posted by L.A.

I already have low self-esteem. If I get rejected by an escort I might kill myself. Better make up something good.

[Guests021916]

Yes Kaylee, if we are to be turned down a small explanation would be appreciated. There is a possibilty that incorrect info is being circulated. I realize from you veiw point the rejected fellow may start to argue. ugh.. there is no perfect way to go here.