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Jett_Thorne · 10-28-2017, 11:07 PM

Back at it again, with the online rants!

(Y'all will have to excuse me, I don't get to talk about work much)

What's with all the bareback requests? Are guys just not afraid of HIV anymore?

Clients, enlighten me, please lol

JdeHog · 10-28-2017, 11:40 PM

I don't know if it's so much not being afraid of HIV and other STDs as just not really caring. Some guys try to use it as a bargaining tool by promising a good review in exchange for bareback service.

Ginger Doll · 10-29-2017, 10:03 AM

I've been getting a lot of those requests lately myself.

The fact that they're not worried makes me wonder if they already have issues.

BabyDallass · 10-29-2017, 10:13 AM

I've been getting it a lot too, makes me wonder how many girls are really providing this as well. I think they ask because girls actually do it!

Jett_Thorne · 10-29-2017, 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

I've been getting a lot of those requests lately myself.

The fact that they're not worried makes me wonder if they already have issues.

Right? I can almost understand bbbj. A lot of people don't think you can get STD's from oral. But asking for full service with no condom? *shakes head*

They're more worried about me getting pregnant than either one of us getting HIV. The condoms are for my safety, and yours!

Jett_Thorne · 10-29-2017, 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by JdeHog

I don't know if it's so much not being afraid of HIV and other STDs as just not really caring. Some guys try to use it as a bargaining tool by promising a good review in exchange for bareback service.

Kind of seems silly to not care about things like that, imo, but I understand where you're coming from

bluffcityguy · 10-29-2017, 03:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Jett_Thorne

Clients, enlighten me, please lol

Well, I wish I could but,

1) I'm not your client. Yet, if ever, and

2) I don't ask for bareback services (though BBBJ when given is certainly appreciated), so I don't know why the requests for BBFS (assuming you're getting those).

I've heard (never verified it) there are threads in Dallas (and other Texas forums) specifically geared to finding providers who do BBFS, and skimming USA Sex Guide I've noticed several "Bareback Beauties" threads in several areas which are devoted to the same topic. So my subjective impression is that yes, demand for bareback services seems to be growing. Or more likely, not so much growing as simply coming out from underground; the impression I've gotten is that there's always been a steady demand for bareback full service, but in the past being open about wanting it was a sure ticket to being shouted down in the open forums (and possibly shunned by providers). Nowadays...

Cheers,

bcg

Guest110920 · 10-29-2017, 03:42 PM

Well, we're not all like that. I would hope that most of us aren't. Personally I've never asked and would decline if it was offered. Also I 'd stop seeing a provider that offered it to me (thankfully no one ever has) - because I'd assume she was offering it to lots of other guys as well. This is risky enough* without being stupid.

*Don't read that as me saying I think providers are disease-ridden. I dont't think that at all. But condoms can fail, and there are some diseases (HSV2, HPV) that condoms aren't effective at stopping anyway. So there is some risk involved no mater how careful you are, and I don't like the change in the odds when barebacking with clients is in the mix.

Guest110920 · 10-29-2017, 03:44 PM

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Originally Posted by bluffcityguy

Well, I wish I could but,

1) I'm not your client. Yet, if ever, and

2) I don't ask for bareback services (though BBBJ when given is certainly appreciated), so I don't know why the requests for BBFS (assuming you're getting those).

I've heard (never verified it) there are threads in Dallas (and other Texas forums) specifically geared to finding providers who do BBFS

There are also providers openly offering it in their ads in the Dallas ad forums.

harpar12 · 10-29-2017, 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by bluffcityguy

Well, I wish I could but,

I've heard (never verified it) there are threads in Dallas (and other Texas forums) specifically geared to finding providers who do BBFS bcg

Right, there in one Dallas provider ad, the provider asked guys to get checked and bring a full report to the session to do BBFS. One way that is much safer than giving BBBJ without any tests lol.

ACharmXo · 10-29-2017, 05:59 PM

Dallas providers and hobbyists are absolutely disgusting.
I would NEVER advertise there EVER again.last tour I cut my losses and left bc no one wanted to see me cfs/cbj and tbh I didnt want to see any of them either...just wasnt taking those chances
And tbh its really just on eccie I think guys use the review system to manipulate the girls + its oversaturated out there with dancers and providers ..
when I advertised on BP EVERYTHING was covered and I never had anyone argue me on it too bad but on eccie its a diff story.

harpar12 · 10-29-2017, 06:28 PM

Also I have heard that some girls on SA is offering BBFS.

bluffcityguy · 10-30-2017, 03:57 AM

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Originally Posted by harpar12

Also I have heard that some girls on SA is offering BBFS.

I can see that as a more viable M.O. if both the girl and the guy are looking for an exclusive SD/SB relationship, insist on mutual STD testing and disclosure of test results, insist on absolute exclusivity of sexual relations for both parties, and of course, if one or both of them are using some other birth control, unless her sugar daddy is willing to risk paying child support as well as his sugar baby's allowance.

It's not entirely risk free, and bespeaks a great deal of trust for both parties, but it's much safer than getting BBFS from a variety of providers (or from one, for that matter).

Cheers,

bcg

BK · 10-30-2017, 07:54 AM

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Originally Posted by harpar12

Also I have heard that some girls on SA is offering BBFS.

Bbfs with a SB isn’t uncommon. Most SBs tend to have a longer than a one off meeting like a provider. If they act like a provider it’s easy to discern. Bbfs should never happen until well into the arrangement as it’s really a relationship at that point. Do guys have bbfs with their wives? Sure. Do providers have bbfs with their SO? I’m sure of it.

Most SBs don’t jump to bb on First meets, it’s kind of the whole point of going the SB Route to see one person, and be exclusive. Always be safe when playing the field to minimize risk. But it’s always a risk.

BabyDallass · 10-30-2017, 10:30 AM

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Originally Posted by harpar12

Also I have heard that some girls on SA is offering BBFS.[/QUOTE

Bbfs with a SB isn’t uncommon. Most SBs tend to have a longer than a one off meeting like a provider. If they act like a provider it’s easy to discern. Bbfs should never happen until well into the arrangement as it’s really a relationship at that point. Do guys have bbfs with their wives? Sure. Do providers have bbfs with their SO? I’m sure of it.

Most SBs don’t jump to bb on First meets, it’s kind of the whole point of going the SB Route to see one person, and be exclusive. Always be safe when playing the field to minimize risk. But it’s always a risk.

I've been in three SB situations and none of them wanted BBfs..guess I was lucky! :/
And if you get them in the right age, they don't even want sex, can't perform. They just rather squeeze a boob or butt check or two...lol