Cravin I am going to take some liberty here as I have thought through this question. But I think the two single word answer here is ATTITUDE and RESPECT. If you make a sincere effort not to go over on your visit if she isn't a "clock watcher" you should be fine.
You attitude will go a long way in you getting a FEW extra minutes to get the job done. If you want a 2nd shot POLITELY ask do we have time for round 2, unless it's obvious that you do. But if you pay for an hour and then think you are entitled to 90 minutes or 2 hours because you are having a hard time getting off, don't expect her to offer anything for free.
RESPECT, that her time is valuable, respect that she may have another gentleman coming later and needs to get some errands ran, or a workout in, respect that if you are there late at night she may have a 6am appointment. A little kindness, honest communication, and being considerate of her may be enough incentive for a lady to let you stay and play a FEW extra minutes. Ladies feel free to correct me if I am wrong on this.
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