The Lesson to be Learned from SipSap Brittany

[Guest090116-1]

First of all, if you are a guy and have a pulse most likely there will always be the urge in you to seek out new pussy. When you are paying for it then it's just a natural condition of being in that frame of mind.

But it seems that when especially pursuing youngish providers you are often taking a great risk as to the reward you might get from the experience.

And we've all made bad mistakes when it's late, we're horny and taking risk that we never thought we'd take.

Many of us are only too willing to have a new girl come to our place without really knowing much about them, but golly they sure look good naked.

Brittany is not the first girl to have some "friends" rob clients. There have been others that have even burglarized homes of clients they have seen. Imagine the hell your life would be if you were found out to be fucking an escort and also got your stuff stolen? Good luck with that story, brother.

Plus just look at the potential of being in a situation like what some have been recently. You're being robbed by idiots with guns or other weapons. How stable can they be? Even if you cooperate maybe something will set them off and you've got a bruise on your head/face you have to explain away somehow. They are thinking and know they have you and there is little retaliation you can do to them without exposing yourself as a john.

Watch porn and take care of it yourself. Try phone sex. Or just called a well established provider that will give you a wild time, a safe time, and you know will provide you with what you are seeking. There are a variety of local ladies that we all know of that will provide just about any experience you are seeking.

I'm glad that all of us brothers who have had such ugly encounters have been able to remain relatively safe.
To all of the caring and considerate and professional ladies that frequent this site, God bless you.

[husker_do]

Great post and good advice. Glad I didn't get caught up in that biz and glad too that everyone made it out safe. Unfortunately a lot of times the bad apples just pop up again. So even though they are off the street right now they'll probably soon be out; or they're be others like them. So everyone be careful and play safe !!!

[Enigmatic]

Excellent analysis and Sage advice, MP. I am going to try to remember this after four beers and after midnight

[Guest040816-1]

Preach it brother! Great advice.

I think one thing I've observed is that what might be safe one time won't necessarily be safe later. I think everyone who spoke up was a repeat customer. And benefactor. The moral is continue to keep your guard up even with established relationships. There could be dynamics that have changed.

[RafaelH]

I think everyone who spoke up was a repeat customer. And benefactor.

I think this is the key--once you're giving them cash outside of a session they're going to figure you for a sap and a pussy, and take advantage of you. Early in my hobby career I was planning a repeat with a lady I had seen once before, exchanging texts in the week leading up to our date. Things went well, and a few days later I get a text saying she's a little short can I wire her her $50 so I did. We set up another date, going to a ball game first before going back to her place Soon as we get seated she starts getting texts, then she disappears for a half hour before she starts texting me saying she'll be back soon. I don't hear anything from her for over an hour and decide to leave. The next day she's calling saying I owe her for a session. It's early in my career and I feel bad so next time I'm in town we meet up & I give her the fee with no expectation of a session. Next thing I know I'm getting texts regularly asking for "help". I start to suspect she's pimped, and they've got me pegged as a pussy. I never answered her again.

After Redbook got shut down last year I got hit up by a couple ladies I dated when that site was going, telling me times are tough and could I help them out. I ignored all of them.

I'm sure some of you gents have helped a lady out when she needed it and had no problems later. And I've repeated with several ladies over the years and haven't had any problems. All I'm saying is you open the door for making yourself a mark, so be careful when giving money outside the business. As Smooth said, dynamics change.

If a lady wants your cash outside the hobby she should throw you some freebies.

[Dude30]

Well Brittany was well known provider, I've seen her and she was amazing and super nice. Then second time I thought I won't make it alive or hurt. So what I'm trying to say is you never know.

[Guest022016]

I'm sorry but I'm probably going to piss people off.

Women make on avg 200/hr. Unless women have huge freaking problems that normal people shouldn't be involving themselves in anyway they shouldn't be asking for money. There is really no reason a woman should be broke in this business esp in NE bc there's very little competition. If she needs money tell her to post an ad. Plain and simple.

Men..stop being captain save-a-hoe. Ultimately, you're enabling bad behavior.

This situation escalated to something very scary and I'm glad everyone is unharmed and I hope people can see the reality and worst case scenerio of feeding into bullshit behavior. I was quite amazed how many ppl gave her something for nothing.



Rant over.

[Quorod]

*Sadly removes his Captain Save-A-Ho hat.*

[Greenie76]

Also, if it's late and you're horny and fapping won't do it, consider a strip club. You don't always need to get your dick wet to fulfill that urge. I'm not saying not to visit the local eccie ladies by any means but often times the reason I've considered an outside (of eccie) source is because it's late and the ladies here are busy or unavailable. I don't even really go to backpage anymore. There's no point. I'd rather see someone from here and know I'm in good hands.

I tell people I'm spontaneous but at times that turns into compulsive. I usually decide I want to do something "deviant" and then once I've decided I have to do it within an hour. That's when the trouble starts... Luckily there are a number of legal safe options.

Perhaps some of the ladies here could have emergency short notice hours with increased rates!

[wedge_donovan]

Your wit and ability to cut to the chase humors me Sara

[12blue4u]

easy to say when one is not homeless calling you and crying. i hate women crying. yes we are enablers at times. and yes most have made some mistakes. and yes so have I.

[Mike1961]

Originally Posted by MissSaraXXX

I'm sorry but I'm probably going to piss people off.

Women make on avg 200/hr. Unless women have huge freaking problems that normal people shouldn't be involving themselves in anyway they shouldn't be asking for money. There is really no reason a woman should be broke in this business esp in NE bc there's very little competition. If she needs money tell her to post an ad. Plain and simple.

Men..stop being captain save-a-hoe. Ultimately, you're enabling bad behavior.

This situation escalated to something very scary and I'm glad everyone is unharmed and I hope people can see the reality and worst case scenerio of feeding into bullshit behavior. I was quite amazed how many ppl gave her something for nothing.



Rant over.

Originally Posted by 12blue4u

easy to say when one is not homeless calling you and crying. i hate women crying. yes we are enablers at times. and yes most have made some mistakes. and yes so have I.

I agree with Sara. Girls can easily make enough money in a day to live for a week or more if there isn't some bad habits costing them a lot of money. Maybe there buying too much lettuce or spinach or using too much dressing on there salads.

Blue it is hard to say no but sometimes it may be the best thing for them. My first regular was spending her money unwisely and would hit me up for extra cash when I couldn't see her. I expected to get it back in services and that never happened even though it was agreed too. Money in their hands go elsewhere before the necessities are taken care of.

[ILuvNips]

Originally Posted by Mike1961

My first regular was spending her money unwisely and would hit me up for extra cash when I couldn't see her. I expected to get it back in services and that never happened even though it was agreed too. Money in their hands go elsewhere before the necessities are taken care of.

I just recently made the same mistake with a high maintenance X. A couple months ago when she was planning her exodus, I fell for the fake abortion money scam on top of everything (condoms aren't always guaranteed). Then, the other day she posts a baby bump pick on Instagram. But at least her nails and hair were perfect....lessons learned

[windowsidiot]

Originally Posted by 12blue4u

easy to say when one is not homeless calling you and crying. i hate women crying. yes we are enablers at times. and yes most have made some mistakes. and yes so have I.

I have helped ladies out on several occasions (5) usually by prepaying for dates. Only one reneged but the relationship was always strained ,with all of them, after that. Too bad since they were favorites at the time.