truth in reviews....

[DallasRain]

I have been contemplating this issue for awhile now...

I have quite a few potential clients inquire if I do "certain activities" ...if it was listed in my reviews then they would not have to ask!

When you write a review,how honest are you? Do you honestly actually list fetish activities you have participated in or do you hide them out of fear of being ridiculed??
99% of the sessions I do will include strap on play/prostate massages/men wearing ladies undergarments/etc.......but VERY few or almost none will list these type activities in the review.

I think it would be cool to let clients know what "really" happened,so they can see what a provider is "really" all about!

YOUR OPINION PLEASE

[Anita Lay]

I agree Dallas

[skeeter]

Dallas I will admit that sometimes I am not 100% honest ....I may omit some activities........

. But it's not for me but for the lady.....

Suppose ( just as a hypothetical ) you and I had a session with some really intense Greek activities .... Or say another lady asked me to stay over for a lot of extra time OTC..... Or one that occasionally squirts put on a shower festival ......
But these things may not be offered to or accomplished for/by everyone .... Then the lady is on the spot or a gentleman goes in expecting something not necessarily available......
Roflmao..... Since I have never worn ladies under or outerware ..... I don't mind telling that you give a great prostate massage or anything else that reflects on my activities.... But I don't want to subject the lady to undo pressure
Just my way of looking at it

[DallasRain]

so true Skeeter

but in my case all my activities are listed on my website--
what you said brings to my mind why some guys do not write me reviews...because they are ashamed to admit they have participated in the activities I am well known for

[gimme_that]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

I have quite a few potential clients inquire if I do "certain activities" ...if it was listed in my reviews then they would not have to ask!

I think as far as normal services such as acrynms and such your reviews cover all basis for those. As far as bdsm, this might be much different. Because I rarely see reviews.....other than a guy who reviewed a transvestite touching on anything in the bdsm realm.

Originally Posted by DallasRain

When you write a review,how honest are you? Do you honestly actually list fetish activities you have participated in or do you hide them out of fear of being ridiculed??
99% of the sessions I do will include strap on play/prostate massages/men wearing ladies undergarments/etc.......but VERY few or almost none will list these type activities in the review.

I think for the most part guys try tto be honest as they can. But as far as bdsm reviews I'm thinking that they may feel as if they are opening themselves up to possible ridicule. You also gotta think too bdsm and other fetishes may be a "closeted" type of activity for those dudes. Or another scenario where the hobbyist like an occasional mix of gfe one day, pse another, bdsm and fetishes another day............and tries to see a provider who only offers gfe.If that other provider does reasearch on your reviews, and isn't particularly keen on your service choices it could possibly limit that guy from other types of ladies at another time. She may feel slightly intimidated by the fact he takes dildos to the ass, or prefers to be dominated at times......when the client can be a possible chameleon and adjust according to who he sees, not all providers are that way.

I think to some extent too......the ladies tell those guys not to review them in that capacity as well. If she is doubling by offering gfe service as well.....but she scats and pisses on other guys in reviews, me being gfe preferred I might negate contacting her if I have a first hand account of what she offers that's over my sexual threshold. And usually in my experience ladies who offered bdsm were a little less believable when it came to gfe.....so I figure bdsm or a means of authority in session was theeir natural element and not being told what to do and submissive in a gfe session.

The closest I could say I was ever in this situation was when I was exclusively seeing black petite providers. When I tried to see ladies who were white, BBW's, and spinners they wanted to know why I didn't see ladies of their particular body type before. Especially the bbw ladies. So ever so often I tend to see a token provider that caters to a particular group and size of a lady Ill see in the future. And I at least try to keep my p411 somewhat racially diverse. I once tested this out in a city up north and used two black providers as my reference to see a white lady......and she instead contacted a much older ref that was white and out of state........but I'm rambling and I think I forgot the point I was trying to make lol. Its late.

I just think they prefer to be sorta in the closet and hidden than totally exposed.

[annie@christophers]

TORTURE LOL.. Other than that ..Dallas They want to get as much as they can for a lower price..THEN again they may just be embarrased to be cheap freaks.. ya know darling this game is weirder all the time !! xxoo annie

[heidilynnla]

Discretion is a big part of the hobby. Guys are more likely to post stuff like that in another realm. The trend on local Eccie board has been to conquer "new blood" at the lowest rate. Can't blame them for not wanting to review a lady who is already known, seems pointless. When we go shopping we either look for a good sale or splurge for something we really want, right? I am more likely to brag about the pair of fabulous shoes i got for twenty bucks as opposed to the shirt I had to get for $80 because it was a perfect fit. Everyone knows where to go for the best local wild ride, Dallas!

I'll take a Ter review over this only because local guys are already familiar with my style and services.

[heidilynnla]

Ps the reason my alter ego "hedone" fell off the face if the earth is because the only guy who had the nerve to post a review got shot down by lowgear. (dont know him and not taking a shot at him because I understand some of the skepticism) I started discussions in another realm about my non GFE activities and have gotten some great, loyal clients.
Guys don't want to brag about their freaky side.

[thegfegirls]

Yea we get alot of freaks wanting those "Young ,Hot, and Attractive" girls, Whats the world coming to?!?! lol.
Dallas, to ease your concern your reputation precedes you... I doubt there is anyone in Louisiana who does not know that you are open to almost everything except farm animals... cept that one time but that was mexico and the tequila was flowing like the amazon,lol. I have no doubt you have the corner on the naughtiest that eccie has to offer, so honestly I think what you are getting when people keep asking is someone looking for the added excitement of anticipation. They ask what u do just to hear it so they can use their dirty little minds in overdrive until they see you!

The again, I could be wrong and there are some men who just do not know that "Dallas Rain is the Queen of the Train" and "Dallas built the Fallace Penis Palace",lol.

[stavinChain]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

...99% of the sessions I do will include strap on play/prostate massages/men wearing ladies undergarments/etc.......

IMHO, outside of 'Another Realm', very, very few guys on this board are secure enough in their sexuality to admit to taking something up the ass, or dressing in women's clothes. Other guys will chastise them to no end. They'll be called 'gay'.

So, Lady Dallas, if want it known that you provide those services, you'll just have to advertise it yourself.

[causewaycommuter]

Stavin, I completely agree with you. What do you think the comments would be if a well known guy writes a review and talks about how the provider fucked him in the ass with a strapon? Now what would the comments be if a newbie or not-so-well-known hobbiest writes the same review?

I think there are reviews where the guy embelishes the truth & makes it sounds as though the session was a marathon fuck fest that a porn director would be proud of. I also have to assume that there are activities that go on in sessions that the guy would never mention in public, let alone in private.

A man's "inner neanderthal" is a strong force and wins out many more times than not. Call it insecurity, not being comfortable with his own sexuality, or countless other things. This site's personality (save for The Other Realm) is geared toward mainstream sex. I assume, and I could be dead wrong, that mainstream sex makes up the majority of sessions. But we would all be naieve to think that bdsm, cross dressing, strapon/anal play, role play, transgender, etc etc etc doesn't happen with some level of regularity.

[ChesterAtkins]

Originally Posted by thegfegirls

Yea we get alot of freaks wanting those "Young ,Hot, and Attractive" girls, Whats the world coming to?!?!

Younger Women but you forgot the Faster Horses, Older Whiskey and More Money! aka Tom T. Hall..

[Outdoorsman]

I write honestly in my posts, in the threads, and in my reviews. I can only speak for myself. I really am not concerned what a bunch of people on a website think about me, so I will write exactly what takes place in my sessions but then again eaiser for me to say because I like the GFE sessions, never had a prostrate massage, and I do not have any desire to wear any clothes in a session, much less women's. But really I do not judge either, if a guy wants to be prodded anally and another person is willing to do it, I say go for it and I hope it is as fun as you expect.

For example I just adore removing stockings off a woman's legs, I do not know why, do not care either, I like it. I am not ashamed of that at all, I also do not know why I like certain flavored ice cream but I like it. I think i pay good money to you ladies to perform and fulfill my desires and if my desire is something you are willing to do or allow me to do then great!!! I do wanna remove some fishnet stockings off a woman now!!!

I love it, slowly pulling them down her leg as puts in the air with her foot adn toes pointed forward. I am sitting upright on the bed and she is laying back against pillows arching up her back. SHe smiles, I caress and slowly pull the stocking down her thigh while playfully and softly caressing her smooth silky thighs. She looks at me with a sexy grin as I move past her knee and down that soo sexy calf. Her g string is still on and I attempt to sneak a peek at her kitty, but she sees me, as my motor is being worked up for the pot of gold. Yep, I like that!!!! If you think I am weird or sick, who cares? If you a re a provider do not see me, if your a hobbyiest I don't care.

I have put that in a few reviews, but really I do not do it that often or at least not as often as I would like. I need to schedule an appointment now and she has to wear fishnet stockings - I f..ing love that!!!!! I do nto need the heels or shoes, not into foot jobs, although I should try one I guess?! I just love removing stockings but I tihnk at this point if your reading you understand that.

[Guest080212]

Dallas one other thing is that not every one is privy to the full reviews on this board for not wanting to post reviews for reasons that are self explanitory or not wanting a charge on there card.
Having said that if anyone looks at the board on a regular basis they might understand that you are very sexually open minded.You could take the fact that people ask you as a compliment.
As with what most guys have said maybe they do not want the full extent of the te-ta-te published for the same reasons as above.IMO many people dont explore the outerboundrys of their sexuallity with there regular partners.Because in a domestic that shit can get flung in your face real quick again just IMO.

[Anita Lay]

Good points and educational with both parties involved. Keep up the good work people.