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CiaoBitchezz! · 08-23-2011, 01:41 PM

So in the last 2 weeks Ive had requests by a Christian counselor, kinda well known in a certain city and now today a Preacher out of Florida who made the news a while back after a sting.

I ended up seeing the counselor, whom I thought was getting material for research, and the biggest nastiest freak Ive met yet, yuk.

Now preacher man who has a record and has his church standing behind him for his trial wants to hook up.

NOT!

It makes me want to puke! Those who have this Heavenly Facade within their communities are nothing but scumbags inside.

If I can post links to his arrest before I will, it just sickens me to have this person contact me. Its not like the majority of us here play off as a fucking saints in public as these men do. These people who claim to live such a good and holy life are really and truly the deviant ones and menace to society.

also, Im thinking about forwarding the email to his congregation board. They do not need to be standing behind this person. He is fooling them and probably spending church money on hookers.

awl4knot · 08-23-2011, 03:13 PM

CB,

Although many share your disgust of hypocritical clerics and do-gooder politicians who feign horror over the P4P industry, I think many would question whether your consideration of revealing the hypocrite is wise.

There is no surer way to wreck a career than for a provider to out a client, and by that I mean every client, unless they committed or threatened some serious crime against the provider or some innocent person.

We hobby in a secret world and any breach of that secrecy must be looked at with great concern. The thinking goes, "if she ratted out Mr. X, then why wouldn't she do that to me if I ticked her off or she was being pressured by LE?"

Just remember all the havoc that followed Lulu Baines' betrayal of Elmer Gantry in the movie of the same name.

I suggest you should let this simmer a bit before you decide to act.

burkalini · 08-23-2011, 03:17 PM

Got to agree with awl on this one. Sit back and do some serious thinking before you do that. If you out him you will leave that uncertainy for all your clients on what will it take for her to out me? Just an opinion

Waldo P. Emerson-Jones · 08-23-2011, 03:23 PM

Just curious, but how did you recognize these guys before seeing them? Are they using real names when contacting you?

And, gotta agree with the others--never good to out someone.

Budman · 08-23-2011, 03:32 PM

I don't get why you give a shit. Take his money and move on. I bet you have a whole bunch of clients that are just as hypocritical in their real world lives. This guy just happens to be a bit more public. Other than the business relationship you have with him none of the other stuff is any of your business.

I agree with Waldo, How do you know it is the same person?

pickupkid · 08-23-2011, 03:33 PM

lets not forget the tv Evangelist who used to to see hookers

http://www.people.com/people/archive...098413,00.html

His followers forgave him and still on tv

Guest120615-3 · 08-23-2011, 03:34 PM

Hey, we all have our flaws, religious nuts too! It's what makes us human!

Col. Zodiak · 08-23-2011, 03:34 PM

CB, gotta throw my vote in with the others.

To quote Lazarus Long, a character in several Robert Heinlein books:

"Cutting a man's throat is only a temporary pleasure and bound to get you talked about."

Why bring yourself down to his level?

His true colors will come out soon enough, if not already.

And won't even get into the trust you would destroy on your own behalf by doing so.

Just my dos centavos, which ain't worth much at current exchange rates.

The Colonel

Headkeeper · 08-23-2011, 03:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CiaoBitchezz!

Im thinking about forwarding the email to his congregation board. They do not need to be standing behind this person. He is fooling them and probably spending church money on hookers.

This kinda freaks me out. There seems to be a lot of anger here over something. Outing clients because you don't agree with their morals (or moral failing) is not a good thing.

only1sweetmaddy · 08-23-2011, 03:47 PM

Oh my- I would never-ever-never-ever out somebody, I don't care who they are! If they are the pope I wouldn’t give a rats ass, everybody has needs, including the so called righteous!
　
For example, a few years back, I had a guy come to my incall location. The whole time we were doing the naughty I kept thinking to myself that he looked familiar! After the session was over and I did some research- I then realized that I had seen him on T.V. !! He was the mayor of a small town located about 30 miles from my location.. I had a good laugh about it, but I really didn’t think nothing of it..

Guest071613-2 · 08-23-2011, 03:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Col. Zodiak

To quote Lazarus Long, a character in several Robert Heinlein books:

"Cutting a man's throat is only a temporary pleasure and bound to get you talked about."

I love the above post/quote on many different levels.

Quote:

Originally Posted by CiaoBitchezz!

also, Im thinking about forwarding the email to his congregation board. They do not need to be standing behind this person. He is fooling them and probably spending church money on hookers.

Outing is the cardinal sin of the hobby!! Don't go forwarding emails to his congregation board! WTF?! Really??? Might be time to consider a different line of work...

Still Looking · 08-23-2011, 04:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CiaoBitchezz!

So in the last 2 weeks Ive had requests by a Christian counselor, kinda well known in a certain city and now today a Preacher out of Florida who made the news a while back after a sting.

I ended up seeing the counselor, whom I thought was getting material for research, and the biggest nastiest freak Ive met yet, yuk.

Now preacher man who has a record and has his church standing behind him for his trial wants to hook up.

NOT!

It makes me want to puke! Those who have this Heavenly Facade within their communities are nothing but scumbags inside.

If I can post links to his arrest before I will, it just sickens me to have this person contact me. Its not like the majority of us here play off as a fucking saints in public as these men do. These people who claim to live such a good and holy life are really and truly the deviant ones and menace to society.

also, Im thinking about forwarding the email to his congregation board. They do not need to be standing behind this person. He is fooling them and probably spending church money on hookers.

I think the DEVIL made him do it! LOL

CiaoBitchezz! · 08-23-2011, 04:06 PM

Im not going to "out" him, I was just blowing off steam. Ive never done that and never will. Plus that would lead the media to me and I deff want no affiliation or exposure of any of this part of my life. Yes he sent over his real info, his number led me to his real name, linked the name to the info and articles. I had called his number before I did all that then he returned my call afterwards. He admitted it was him, non chalantly as if he didnt care. He could have at least tried to lie and BS his way out of it. Furthermore, he lied about his age so regardless of his history I wouldnt have seen him anyway.

As far as a career change, lol, this isnt my career, only something on the sly, so thats why I didnt "have" to see him. I dont want his money.

I feel for those who actually believe in him. I have no desire to give a preacher an erotic massage. He in my opinion has placed himself in a position of higher morals, and is really disgusting.

Yes I still have my conservative southern baptist ways, and that will never change. Some things are just wrong.

guest100913 · 08-23-2011, 05:21 PM

Live and let live, without outing anyone. JMHO

gimme_that · 08-23-2011, 05:22 PM

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Originally Posted by CiaoBitchezz!

Yes I still have my conservative southern baptist ways, and that will never change. Some things are just wrong.

The outing would be the same as a former client seeing you on a church pew and feeling it was his christian calling to out you because you were living a lie. How is your situation as a provider any different than his though.