Sugar Daddy

[AspenMartin]

Im new to Eccie and have played around on a few sugar daddy sites.. i have had n o luck, i really want one man to play with often & not multiple partners.. WHats a girl to do ??? any suggestions?

[Monica4u]

Any luck baby girl ....

[Brooklyn Sky]

wow wish i created this thread
i know how you feel girl

[dreamvacationdates]

wondering why you wouldn't have success on a sugar daddie site, and chose to state that here where most guys here aren't trying to be that,
are you really looking for a suger daddie

[Sidewinder]

There have been a few threads on this topic in this section so far. You might want to read through them.

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=541787
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=567205
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=515539

The consensus among SDs, at least on here, appears to be that providers are not well-suited to being SBs. Too much focus on money.

[Kami Parker]

Ignorance is bliss!

[Chloe Kensington]

A lot of the men on Sugar Daddy sites are known to be cheap. Diamond Dash on the post above sounds more like what women are looking for.

[Gotyour6]

A sugar daddy will seek you out.
Place an ad on there and what you want.
They will get back to you.

I am a real one, spoil, pay for apartment, car etc.
Took her shopping last weekend.

I met mine where she works. That is where we find them.
We see someone, hand them a business card and ask them to text us after work.

This has been done to death and I dont think this thread will last long.

Good luck

[Chloe Kensington]

Originally Posted by Gotyour6

A sugar daddy will seek you out.
Place an ad on there and what you want.
They will get back to you.

I am a real one, spoil, pay for apartment, car etc.
Took her shopping last weekend.

I met mine where she works. That is where we find them.
We see someone, hand them a business card and ask them to text us after work.

This has been done to death and I dont think this thread will last long.

Good luck

Not everyone frequents these boards and has seen similar topics. Still, you sound like a good Sugar Daddy! I'm curious how the financial conversation goes. Do women get offended when you offer them money?

[John Bull]

You generally don't offer them money. You talk about what they need and what things they like and it just evolves. If she has GPS, that will soon be apparent and you move on. If she's reasonable and within your budget, you proceed.

[Energy]

Originally Posted by John Bull

You generally don't offer them money. You talk about what they need and what things they like and it just evolves. If she has GPS, that will soon be apparent and you move on. If she's reasonable and within your budget, you proceed.

+1000 to you John. I've recently taken the role of SD and so far I'm really enjoying it. In total (money, gifts, favors) I probably give a little more if averaged on a per hour basis but it's much more mutually beneficial. More like a good "friends with benefits" relationship. So far, she hasn't developed GPS, has traveled with me a couple of times and seems genuinely appreciative when I do her a favor. The SD/SB relationship must be completely different than the "escort on retainer" deal, otherwise it will die quickly. Most of us aren't looking for a strictly business deal, otherwise that's what we would pursue.

Good luck in your search. It takes time and patience but if you approach it correctly, you will find what you're looking for.

[Sidewinder]

I second Energy's +1000.

What is interesting is that there are quite a few girls doing their boyfriend-shopping in the SD/SB market not because they want money but because they want a boyfriend who CAN take them someplace nice, who DOES know how to treat a woman well, as opposed to what she finds in the guys immediately around her all day every day.

[bladtinzu]

Agreed sidewinder. And let us not forget escorts and strippers make super shitty SB's.. Just a fact of life.

[Sidewinder]

It isn't that they make terrible SBs.

It is that they have no idea what a good SB is all about.

Let's leave it at that.

[Lovelyelle_01]

Originally Posted by Sidewinder

It isn't that they make terrible SBs.

It is that they have no idea what a good SB is all about.

Let's leave it at that.

+1

MOST ladies who work in the adult industry have no clue what being a good SB is all about. There's usually too much focus on $$$ for them to see the relationship for what it really is/should be. This topic can be/has been beat to death, and the opinions will still always be the same. The only advice that I can give to the OP is to stop looking for one, ESPECIALLY online. Your chances of meeting one are far more likely to happen in a RL situation. Also, don't try to FORCE anything. A true SD/SB relationship is supposed to progress just as natural as any other relationship you'd decide to pursue with an average Joe. Just my honest opinion.