Greek

[DestinyInKC]

what are some tips to make greek easier?
I think I am adding it to my menu in the next month
any advice will be helpful

[Enchanterlingum]

Study with the Jesuits. That's where I learned it.

Probably not the answer you were looking for :-P

[AllThisMeat]

I take it you're a beginner so... Explore the area yourself, maybe while you're in the shower put a little finger in there. Also you should try playing with a few toys, well lubed of course, to get used to having something in there. Start small and work your way up to larger toys.

In actual play practice, I would start when you're most comfortable... if you're anxious or tense it will be hard to get in the right mood to do it. Start with some external stimulation of the area first then work your way in. LUBE is important. Remember to breathe... slow, steady breathes can help a lot. When you start... go slow. This is not something you want to rush into. When you're new at it, it is best for the lady to be in control of the pace and how much is inside her.

Make sure you have enough fiber in your diet. The anus doesn't store poo... but if you have had to strain to go #2 you could cause irritation which can make playtime a bad experience.

Hope some of this helps... I'm sure the ladies will come in with some better ideas.

[Guest012814]

I agree with AllThisMeat.

I've helped a couple of women get over their apprehension of Greek and shown them how enjoyable it can be over the years.
A variety of anal sex toys of various girths and lengths and LOTS of lube helped. Slow and steady wins that race. Try a small thin dildo (finger size) first with plenty of lube to get used to having something up there. Slowly graduate to longer and wider toys to get used to being stretched and filled there.

Being RELAXED is key. Nothing makes Greek hurt more than if your tense and you clench up. Breathe, be relaxed and take it slow. Having a patient partner who can take your lead and direction is vital. Go slow and don't rush it. Only go as deep and as fast as you feel comfortable with.
After your body is used to the feeling, you'll be able to increase how deep and fast you like it. Don't try to take it hard like you would with regular fucking too soon - too hard and fast too soon can cause pain.

Some ladies like Anal-eze too - this is a numbing gel that relaxes the muscle and makes penetration easier. It's good in the hobby as with a cover on, it doesn't effect sensation for the guy.
Just be careful and don't get it everywhere. I've done DATY after Greek when the lady used it and she was a little too liberal with the application. Numb tongue and lips while going down on a woman isn't the best feeling ever.

[lookinginolatheks]

let me come worship your ass with kisses and pampering

[i'va biggen]

Stay away from men with handles like " all this meat" LOL

[JayceeRivers]

Originally Posted by Bcdrummer

Being RELAXED is key. Nothing makes Greek hurt more than if your tense and you clench up. Breathe, be relaxed and take it slow. Having a patient partner who can take your lead and direction is vital. Go slow and don't rush it. Only go as deep and as fast as you feel comfortable with.
After your body is used to the feeling, you'll be able to increase how deep and fast you like it. Don't try to take it hard like you would with regular fucking too soon - too hard and fast too soon can cause pain.

I fully agree with this sentiment. Other than that my personal thoughts would be...

1.. It helps to continuously stimulate the clitoris

2.. Personally I find laying on my stomach the most pleasurable. However I prefer to start on top. This should help with the tension and fear as you will be essentially taking control of the act itself.

3.. As all this meet meat said... play with the area prior. Toys, fingers. Allow those that enjoy it help with orally stimulation.

4.. Use plenty of lubrication. If you can get your hands on the lube your gynecologist uses all the better.

5.. a glass or two of red wine (wine is ideal but other drinks will suffice) wine has been known for its almost aphrodisiac like qualities. It also can take the edge off of the fear and tension without taking you over the edge into drunk. It's amazing for circulation of blood which actually can enhance the nerves in the rest of your body. The more aroused you are the easier it will be and far more pleasurable.

6.. Do it with people you trust first. Don't explore this with people you don't know until you have done it a few times. (I personally still wont do it with people I don't know at all unless the chemistry and desire is overwhelming)

7.. If it hurts STOP. Slow down. take your time. The first time will always be uncomfortable but remember that is not a area you want to break either.....

8.. Do not use only spit as lube. I know in the porn movies it looks as if that is what they are doing, but trust me, as a woman who has been in those movies they are stopping to lube up at least every 15 minutes.

Hopefully this helped.

Good luck and bravo to you exploring new sexual pleasures!

[lookintoo1]

This is going to sound a little gross but I don't know any other way to put it. When a person is dropping the deuce, they push, this relaxes the anus thus allowing the dooky to pass without pain. Now I am not saying to poop on a guy but maybe try to relax the anus while practicing.
Ps.
That's an awesome thought/image of you 'practicing!!!

[cuddlyteddybear]

Learn to relax! Tense=tight and possibly ouch.

[green_betta]

Originally Posted by i'va biggen

Stay away from men with handles like " all this meat" LOL

LOL!

[JRLawrence]

Make sure the guy you are with is patient and gentle. K-Y is the lube the doctors use for an exam. It is clean and doesn't leave any petroleum residue (vaseline is not recommended for a vaginal or anal lubricant because it leaves a residue).

Make sure the guy listens to you and eases it in very slowly to allow the anus to stretch slowly as you allow entry.

All sexual experiences should be pleasant for both parties. If the guy thinks this is a conquest, find another guy.

Forceful entry is never acceptable. The lady may accept it, but it doesn't make her happy.

By the way, greek is a nice finisher; it has always given me one more extra release, if the lady is willing. If not, forget it. I have noted that most of the hobby ladies are less inclined than ladies outside of the hobby. It seem that the guys demand immediate satisfaction, if they are paying. The hobby ladies have tried it, and many are not 100% happy with the hurried entry.

Ease up guys, have a little patience with that big thing; the ladies will appreciate you more.

JR

[JackJohnson]

Originally Posted by DestinyInKC

what are some tips to make greek easier?
I think I am adding it to my menu in the next month
any advice will be helpful

*shiver* the thought of pounding that ass. Sorry. Had to be said

[algrace]

I nearly took a look at archives:

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=143965

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=724445

Maybe one or two gems or useful nuggets of info shared in the past.

And for your entertainment, an excerpt from http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=330488

Originally Posted by john353

If all I wanted was Greek...I would never get laid. The ladies who offer it are few and far between and those that do offer it are YMMV with it. It's on the menu but you never get it because your dick is to big. STORY OF MY FUCKING LIFE!

Sorry...but it gets frustrating. I'm an ASS freak and love ass play.

My suggestions are this...

1. Either offer it or don't. If you are going to offer Greek, then get a dildo and practice with it. Get a buttplug and wear it...so you get accustomed to the feeling and you are more likely to be accepting of what is...ahem...offered.

2. Use lots of lube. Buy the biggest bottle you can find and keep it next to the bed.

3. As mentioned before...YOU guide in the cock.
The best way to do this is tell the guy to be still and YOU do the pushing. In doggie...have him be still and slowly push back against him at your slow pace. When the head slides in...STOP! Just sit there for a few seconds and see if it feels good, or hurts. If it hurts, use more lube and slowly try again. If it feels good...slowly push back further until you feel it slide in.

4. GO SLOW and relax.
You have GOT TO RELAX!!! When he gets all the way inside you, he should be able slowly pick up the pace. When your little hole stretches and relaxes fully, he should be able to fuck you in a steady pace. This is when you will become an anal addict.

I have had past girlfriends and provider ATFs, who once they experienced it and actually enjoyed it...they were hooked.

Yes, there are some guys out there who don't have a clue what they are doing. On the flip side...there are some of us who DO KNOW what we are doing.

Good luck!

Originally Posted by London Rayne

Well I hate to break the news to ya hon, but the idea of having to STRETCH either my vagina or my azz just to fit something large in it would rather defeat my purpose lol. I offer greek and fs to guys I want to...end of story.

Not all of us WANT something the size of the grand canyon and if you run around with a coke can in there all day, how tight is that crap going to be when the guy gets there lol. There is a reason why you have providers with fkin roids and wearing diapers already...gross!

If it can't go in there on its on, it's not supposed to be in there! I charge a hella fee for greek because I don't want to have every guy I see requesting that crap. Makes no difference how much I enjoy it either...small doses my man. This is a business, so don't kid yourself lol. Women charge what they can GET...end of story. You're letting those threADS get you dizzy. I love anal sex with a BOYFRIEND where I can really relax. Anal on demand is a bit of a stretch in more ways than one...pun intended.


Also, never have and never will use lube. Spit and the body's natural wetness are there for a reason. Lube causes more annoyance than anything else.

[BuddhaJ]

Hey Destiny - Two points.....

First, never, ever, ever, ever go back to front without a thorough cleanup first, and switching covers. You don't want to take introduce the bacteria living in the back yard to those living in the front yard.

Second, only do it if you want to. Don't feel you need to add to your "menu" to stay competitive. There's a lot of us that aren't interested.

(Sorry gentlemen. A lot of you might disagree with point 2, especially from what I've seen of Destiny's beautiful tush.)

As always, be smart, be safe!

[CaptainKaos]

Originally Posted by Enchanterlingum

Study with the Jesuits.

Oh man, reminds me of my days at the Rock.