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[0631216]

Ladies,

How would you like guys to approach you at bars/clubs. What do you like to the guy to talk in bars

-thanks

[PeterBota]

Bruh u got s good buzz goin. Shut the lap top off. Go to bed. Start again tomorrow

[~Ze~]

Originally Posted by PeterBota

Bruh u got s good buzz goin. Shut the lap top off. Go to bed. Start again tomorrow

*giggle*... I think this is the first time you made me laugh that wasn't AT you.

[JLanister]

I'm not as think as you drunk I am...

[PeterBota]

Originally Posted by ~Ze~

*giggle*... I think this is the first time you made me laugh that wasn't AT you.

I think we got closer.

[GingerKatt]

Originally Posted by 0631216

Ladies,

How would you like guys to approach you at bars/clubs. What do you like to the guy to talk in bars

-thanks

Guys in bars are pretty predictable, but that’s ok. It’s still good for the ego to be approached. They start off by saying how good we look. Then they ask if they can buy me a drink. Which is nice, I really don’t go out much anymore but I’ve never had to purchase more than one drink, if even that. Then they make small talk, like asking where I work and where do I live, and if I have a roommate. I think they’re trying to figure out whos place is closer, mine or theirs. Then after a few drinks, they bring up leaving together. I must admit I’ve done that a few times; way before I was a Provider. I have heard of some girls getting clients this way.

[Souper]

and Ginger you forgot to mention how much better you look at closing time lol (just kidding)

[Teagenluv]

It depends totally on how many drinks I have had before I get there and at the club. If I have had a few screwdrivers, I get so horny and am open to very suggestive talk and touching. I rarely go to bars or clubs because of what happens)))

[0631216]

Originally Posted by GingerKatt

Guys in bars are pretty predictable, but that’s ok. It’s still good for the ego to be approached. They start off by saying how good we look. Then they ask if they can buy me a drink. Which is nice, I really don’t go out much anymore but I’ve never had to purchase more than one drink, if even that. Then they make small talk, like asking where I work and where do I live, and if I have a roommate. I think they’re trying to figure out whos place is closer, mine or theirs. Then after a few drinks, they bring up leaving together. I must admit I’ve done that a few times; way before I was a Provider. I have heard of some girls getting clients this way.

-Thankyou GingerKatt
I do have some follow up questions
But wouldn’t this predictiable approch be perceived as lame and boring ?
If all the guys say how good she look , what can I say to stand out and have a better chance ?

[0631216]

Originally Posted by Teagenluv

It depends totally on how many drinks I have had before I get there and at the club. If I have had a few screwdrivers, I get so horny and am open to very suggestive talk and touching. I rarely go to bars or clubs because of what happens)))

Teaganluv- I experencied this where in I’m makeing out with someone but unfortunately at the end her friends take her away despite her waiting to stay .. how do I avoid this ?happens often

[GingerKatt]

Originally Posted by 0631216

-Thankyou GingerKatt
I do have some follow up questions
But wouldn’t this predictiable approch be perceived as lame and boring ?
If all the guys say how good she look , what can I say to stand out and have a better chance ?

No I don’t think it’s boring, not to me anyway. But you have to be SINCERE about how you say it, make eye contact and let her know that you’re genuinely interested in her, not just spouting a line to get some puss. Girls like guys that make them laugh, have a few funny jokes ready. Ask interesting questions about her, don’t go on and on about yourself. And don’t be cheap, buy her top shelf drinks and ask her if she wants something to eat. And compliment her hairstyle, her shoes or handbag. Most guys don’t notice those things and you’ll stand out.

And DONT be checking out other women in the place, we notice that and hate it! She wants to feel like you singled her out because she’s special and unique. You’ll know she’s into you if she makes eye contact and flutters her lashes a little, tilts her head and plays with her hair a bit. One of my go to moves is leaning in close, and while I’m talking I reach over and put my hand on top of his and very softly and slowly run a finger back and forth over his hand or arm. And straighten his collar or tie. Pull the cherry out of my drink, put it between my lips and slowly suck on it. If she’s not giving you any signals, move on!

And try not to hit on a woman who’s with a gaggle of friends. They go in groups specifically to protect their friends from going home with someone when they’re drunk. If she does get whisked away, make sure you’ve gotten her number earlier and call her later and tell her how much you enjoyed her company and her beauty and ask to meet up. Or depending if you want more than a one night thing, ask her on a date to her favorite restaurant.

Or just hire a provider, lol! I had a client drop me off at a bar a few times, he’d drive around a bit and then come in. We’d go through the whole scenario of being strangers and him picking me up. He especially liked it if another guy was hitting on me, and he’d “win” me away from him. It’d be good practice for you!

[~Ze~]

Seriously, I drink SO little alcohol anymore... almost the first sip of a gin and tonic and my bum tingles and wants attention. I don't even DO anal.

Anywho, the best pickup lines at a bar aren't even lines. Just normal conversation works the best.

/me wanders off to find a mixologist with a good local craft gin.

[GingerKatt]

Originally Posted by ~Ze~

Seriously, I drink SO little alcohol anymore... almost the first sip of a gin and tonic and my bum tingles and wants attention. I don't even DO anal.

Anywho, the best pickup lines at a bar aren't even lines. Just normal conversation works the best.

/me wanders off to find a mixologist with a good local craft gin.

Lol! That’s funny ~Ze~! I like you so much!! But you don’t have to drink a lot, you can order Shirley Temples at a bar; they come with cherries in them you can play with. Suck them or tie the stems in a knot. I’ve never been able to do that! Or order a flute of Dom and sip on it.

And you’re absolutely right about making natural conversation. I hate stupid lines, especially “ Did it hurt? You know when you fell from heaven?” Or the classic “Are you a model?”

[Bliss of DFW]

"Would you like to dance?"...after that, no talking. Just have rhythm and stay on beat

[Teagenluv]

If you are passionately making out with her at a club and she is there with friends, the best you can probably do is get her name and number and give her yours. When her friends are ready to leave, she will leave. It is often a safety thing. When I go to clubs or bars, I have gone with friends who look after me and make sure I stay safe. Things can get quite wild at a club and I will give my name and number out if I am very turned on(which I usually am) and ready to be fucked by the man or men))))) You would be surprised just how far you can go with many women at some clubs when the woman is super horny and your cock is super hard and dripping particularly if the woman is wearing practically nothing with no bra or panties and a very short dress or skirt and a very tight top which can be easily pulled up even when her friends are around))))))