THN: Love what you said! I have to say I agree completely. I can't speak for all providers, but in my experience, us girls tend to look out for each other! Not just with our other provider friends, but the girls we've never met, too. I mean we all have different looks, qualities, styles, strengths, characteristics, etc...and there's a reason for that! Right?
Because when it comes down to it, what is the point of this Business (that we even call a Hobby.
To provide the client with the experience that THEY are looking for (in a nutshell), right?? And for that person to freely be able to be attracted to and want whatever the fuck they want - explore sexual desires, fulfill fantasies, even fetishes-with out having to worry about what society or whoever the hell else might have something to say about it!
Now, my point is.. would we, as providers, be able to do that if we were all just doing the same thing, so that we could then have a competition to see
who's the best at it! Plus, as you mentioned, everyone has different definitions of what constitutes, "the best," for that person. Let's say Judge A likes deepthroating, face-fucking, sloppy, messy, mascara running ALL down your damn face kinda stuff with his blow-job, while Judge B likes a lot of slow Licking and teasing, kissing and sucking very sentually while you take your time with it. How do you chose a winner?
And even if you did have two girls do that same exact thing to two guys who were into the same exact thing, right? If they switch up partners and did it again, the same way as with the first person, does that mean they will have the same exact experience again? Probably not.. Body chemistry is a very powerful thing! (in my opinion) And it's not like it's something you can control, or predict, or even understand sometimes. So I mean, you can't compete with that shit, lol.
So my way of thinking is instead of competing, doesn't it make more sense for us to all work together-so that everybody ends up more with what works for them. And as a provider, just be honest about your shit and be proud of it, Oh you're into spinner chicks? Ah, well I might not be what you're looking for (I'm a bbw) but I can send you to my girlfriend in Keller. We have the same personality, but she's just a skinny bitch! haha
And should this offend me, or make me feel less than? No way dude! Because trust me, there are tons of guys who would prefer all my curves and love my big titties, and they would probably look at her and be like," oh my gosh, where is your body???" Does this mean that there is something wrong with one of us? Nope, we are both super cool and beaufitul, people are just into different things!
And as for me, anyway , I don't want the session with the dude that likes spinners and isn't really that attracted to me.. ? I would predict that session just feeling more awkward then hot? Lol
No thanks, haha!
Are providers competitive?
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