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BasicGuy · 10-17-2023, 03:10 PM

I am tired of the back and forth about pimps, promoters, fake reviews and the other bullshit. So, help me decide how to spend my free weekend while the SO is out of town!

Here are my 3 options:
1. Visit my ATF at a subAMP where I know I will have a great time and it will end well, but activity is limited to FBSM and L1.
2. Visit a newer place where it is hit or miss on the girls, but I can get reliable L3.
3. Visit a totally new to me place outside of my normal stomping grounds and take a chance on totally striking out or getting L3, but I am not sure which.

Price difference is about $100 but if I go with Option 1, I could have 2 visits for around the same price (give or take $50)…

shooter6.5 · 10-17-2023, 03:46 PM

much of this depends on your real desires, and age. After many years in all sorts of adventures I have decided that option 1 is best for me.

During my time on this planet I have had many adventures--some great and not so great. After deep thoughts I like a good relaxing time where I can totally relax--and a well done level 1 is to be cherished..

TinMan · 10-17-2023, 03:50 PM

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Originally Posted by shooter6.5

much of this depends on your real desires, and age. After many years in all sorts of adventures I have decided that option 1 is best for me.

During my time on this planet I have had many adventures--some great and not so great. After deep thoughts I like a good relaxing time where I can totally relax--and a well done level 1 is to be cherished..

I started my hobby career getting L1s, and after a lot of other adventures I’m right there with you on being back to really appreciating a well-done limited activity session.

Kudos to the ladies who really go out of their way to making those experiences better than a lot of FS sessions.

BasicGuy · 10-17-2023, 04:20 PM

NGL, I am leaning towards option 1 for the repeat performance and maximizing my dollar vote (also minimizes risk).

Option 2 is a close second since one of the possibilities is very appealing (one of the other possibilities is not, however). I am sort of paranoid about trying a totally new place in light of the recent Leo activity

Financeman22 · 10-17-2023, 05:50 PM

Go to one of the strip clubs I guarantee u’ll get satisfied!! Be direct with the girls, tell them what u want and what ur willing to pay. Remember everything in life is negotiable!!

BasicGuy · 10-18-2023, 06:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Financeman22

Go to one of the strip clubs I guarantee u’ll get satisfied!! Be direct with the girls, tell them what u want and what ur willing to pay. Remember everything in life is negotiable!!

I never have much luck at the strip clubs. I am pretty passive and haven’t been direct with many dancers. I have some reoccurring luck at Ricks FW, but the prices are too steep for me to play there very often. I like that I can get a good massage and L1 for between 150-200. That doesn’t seem to get me much at the clubs, but then again, I might not be taking the correct approach.

mtabsw · 10-18-2023, 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Financeman22

Go to one of the strip clubs I guarantee u’ll get satisfied!! Be direct with the girls, tell them what u want and what ur willing to pay. Remember everything in life is negotiable!!

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Originally Posted by BasicGuy

I never have much luck at the strip clubs. I am pretty passive and haven’t been direct with many dancers. I have some reoccurring luck at Ricks FW, but the prices are too steep for me to play there very often. I like that I can get a good massage and L1 for between 150-200. That doesn’t seem to get me much at the clubs, but then again, I might not be taking the correct approach.

Strip clubs are not a sure thing, and I'd think way higher on price per shot.

I should switch jobs and give tours along with paid advice.

BasicGuy · 10-18-2023, 09:02 PM

With all the stings and raids, it might be safer to play in the clubs! I hope the stings stay in Dallas and done move west too quickly.

Sir Lancehernot · 10-21-2023, 08:53 AM

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Originally Posted by shooter6.5

much of this depends on your real desires, and age. After many years in all sorts of adventures I have decided that option 1 is best for me.

I'm getting there, if not already there. Four years with the SB, and fucking became work! On the other hand, I also learned how fulfilling it could be, on those days when I couldn't get there, to be so happy to have made someone else happy.

TinMan · 10-21-2023, 09:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

I'm getting there, if not already there. Four years with the SB, and fucking became work! On the other hand, I also learned how fulfilling it could be, on those days when I couldn't get there, to be so happy to have made someone else happy.

The circle of hobby life, eh? I remember a time when we were much younger in our hobby careers, when we would talk about this studio down in Houston that was L1 only, but the girls were attentive and gorgeous. We would make the unpopular claim back then that those women ran circles around most of the FS girls in our part of the hobby world.

Sir Lancehernot · 10-21-2023, 09:23 AM

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Originally Posted by TinMan

The circle of hobby life, eh? I remember a time when we were much younger in our hobby careers, when we would talk about this studio down in Houston that was L1 only, but the girls were attentive and gorgeous. We would make the unpopular claim back then that those women ran circles around most of the FS girls in our part of the hobby world.

Ah, Executive XTC, Richmond and Fountainview.

They were, and they did.

BasicGuy · 10-21-2023, 12:43 PM

Update for anyone interested. I decided to go with a solid L1 from my ATF on Thursday and then followed up with a more full service massage on Friday. Both had a high point and were great visits. I don’t know if it is the lack of a connection or what, but the second visit was awesome at the time, but as I was leaving I felt nothing. No post session high. Just empty. Might save money and lower risk and just visit my normal place, although that one also lacked the same precious energy and post feeling of bliss.

Maybe that is a sign that I am desensitized to this whole experience.

Sir Lancehernot · 10-21-2023, 05:19 PM

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Originally Posted by BasicGuy

Update for anyone interested. I decided to go with a solid L1 from my ATF on Thursday and then followed up with a more full service massage on Friday. Both had a high point and were great visits. I don’t know if it is the lack of a connection or what, but the second visit was awesome at the time, but as I was leaving I felt nothing. No post session high. Just empty. Might save money and lower risk and just visit my normal place, although that one also lacked the same precious energy and post feeling of bliss.

Maybe that is a sign that I am desensitized to this whole experience.

Having been ghosted by my SB, with whom I was absolutely in love with for almost four years (and, I thought, she me; don't get me started on the emotional, academic and financial investment in her and her family -- none of which, BTW, I regretted until I got ghosted) I am pondering a return to the hobby. But I remember all those times I left a session thinking, "I paid $x00 for that?" and all times I traversed the trail from the back bar at Bucks to the restroom and back with hundred-dollar bills protruding from my collar, only to leave the place with nothing but a hundred-dollar bar bill, and I have to wonder if the hunt, the uncertainty, the ratio of cost to value almost certainly closer to infinity than to 1, and I am coming to the conclusion that an empty office, high-speed internet and Pornuib are a better alternative.

BLM69 · 10-21-2023, 06:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

Having been ghosted by my SB, with whom I was absolutely in love with for almost four years (and, I thought, she me; don't get me started on the emotional, academic and financial investment in her and her family -- none of which, BTW, I regretted until I got ghosted) I am pondering a return to the hobby. But I remember all those times I left a session thinking, "I paid $x00 for that?" and all times I traversed the trail from the back bar at Bucks to the restroom and back with hundred-dollar bills protruding from my collar, only to leave the place with nothing but a hundred-dollar bar bill, and I have to wonder if the hunt, the uncertainty, the ratio of cost to value almost certainly closer to infinity than to 1, and I am coming to the conclusion that an empty office, high-speed internet and Pornuib are a better alternative.

You broke rule #1 forgetting that they're hookers, if there's any type of exchange $, you're just a ATM, no matter how good of act they put on.

BasicGuy · 10-21-2023, 08:22 PM

My ATF at the SubAMP was out for a week so I went with a different girl and it was awesome. I saw my ATF on Thursday and she acted pissed that I saw a different girl. I assume it was due to the lost money, but our visit Thursday was not at the same level of fun time as I had prior to seeing one of her co-workers. She actually punched my shoulder when she walked in and gave me an upset look. It was flirty, but still out of the ordinary.