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Guest031811 · 08-05-2010, 02:01 PM

Setting: Comfortable, private hotel room. Light music in the background. Dimly lit. Wine glasses on the table. Lots of time, no rush, no worries.

Imagine: The gentleman is working overtime with DATY. He is do everything right. I start to get that tingly feeing all over. My face is starting to get really hot. I’m really wet. I’m getting closer and closer. AND THEN… nothing. It’s like the feeling just vanished. I lost it. He did nothing wrong…in fact he was doing everything just the way I like it.

It makes me so angry and frustrated when this happens. I can only imagine how the gentleman feels.

This isn’t the first time its happened. I have no idea what I am doing to make this happen. Does anyone else ever suffer from “the vanishing orgasm”? What causes it? How do I fix it?

handyGiraffe · 08-05-2010, 02:13 PM

Hi Brit.......I think you are over thinking it...literally.....
subconsciously you are either stressed about something or not comfortable with something..and it is overriding your relaxing enjoyment.

blaktygre · 08-05-2010, 03:05 PM

i'd agree with HG..just relax and enjoy the moment..too much anticipation perhaps?

bigmarv · 08-05-2010, 06:50 PM

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Originally Posted by brittanylennox

Setting: Comfortable, private hotel room. Light music in the background. Dimly lit. Wine glasses on the table. Lots of time, no rush, no worries.

Imagine: The gentleman is working overtime with DATY. He is do everything right. I start to get that tingly feeing all over. My face is starting to get really hot. I’m really wet. I’m getting closer and closer. AND THEN… nothing. It’s like the feeling just vanished. I lost it. He did nothing wrong…in fact he was doing everything just the way I like it.

It makes me so angry and frustrated when this happens. I can only imagine how the gentleman feels.

This isn’t the first time its happened. I have no idea what I am doing to make this happen. Does anyone else ever suffer from “the vanishing orgasm”? What causes it? How do I fix it?

Don't feel bad darlin it happens to guys also. For us older guys it's called ED. Everything is going great, were hard as a rock and then all of a sudden we go limp.

tubeman · 08-05-2010, 06:59 PM

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Originally Posted by brittanylennox

Setting: Comfortable, private hotel room. Light music in the background. Dimly lit. Wine glasses on the table. Lots of time, no rush, no worries.

Imagine: The gentleman is working overtime with DATY. He is do everything right. I start to get that tingly feeing all over. My face is starting to get really hot. I’m really wet. I’m getting closer and closer. AND THEN… nothing. It’s like the feeling just vanished. I lost it. He did nothing wrong…in fact he was doing everything just the way I like it.

It makes me so angry and frustrated when this happens. I can only imagine how the gentleman feels.

This isn’t the first time its happened. I have no idea what I am doing to make this happen. Does anyone else ever suffer from “the vanishing orgasm”? What causes it? How do I fix it?

This has actually happen to me on more than a few times, I've never gone limp but just like you described; everythings going great, the sensation starts out then bam! It's gone, I'm still "up" but the feeling is gone. Then I'm trying harder to get it back and it takes forever! Really annoying, although I can probably narrow down the reasoning to built up stress/life situations.

frostdollar · 08-05-2010, 06:59 PM

i also agree with HG.....it also happens to us guys...!

Guest031811 · 08-05-2010, 08:09 PM

The weird thing is: I'm not stressed about anything...

pickupkid · 08-05-2010, 09:42 PM

just relax Sweete....
It has happen to me ...I was having sex and then lost lt....stress.

Bull149 · 08-05-2010, 09:53 PM

Enjoy the trip and you will get to the destination. Concentrte on the destination to much and you miss it.

sanantonioman37 · 08-05-2010, 10:05 PM

This happens to me more than I care to admit. Which is why I usually don't cum very fast. Then I get worn out just trying to get back to it. Which tends to lead me to finish with a hj, which can be a very difficult finish at times for me.

oden · 08-05-2010, 10:15 PM

Maybe too much of a good thing. Mix it up a little. You both can wait; a little kissing, fondling in between. If you are enjoying each other don't press. Sometimes the intimacy is as enjoyable as the finale. Enjoy the journey and then you will get the
prize.

SofaKingFun · 08-05-2010, 10:44 PM

It sounds to me like it's either The Bird Flu Virus, worms, or your cummer is broken.

But that's just my guess.

Sorry Brittany....you're gonna' need a shot.

I apologize. I have no idea...not a clue....I'm basically bringing nothing to the table. But you asked...LOL.

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Guest031811 · 08-06-2010, 12:35 AM

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Originally Posted by SofaKingFun

It sounds to me like it's either The Bird Flu Virus, worms, or your cummer is broken. Sorry Brittany....you're gonna' need a shot.

**smirks** A shot of what?
Do I need to visit my bartender or my doctor?

Me: Bartender, what do you have that cures worms, a broken cummer, and the bird flu?

Bartender: Whiskey, a good fuck, and a nap... in that order

*** I love you guys! ***

snotty1 · 08-06-2010, 02:17 AM

the French refer to orgasm as "the little death". also i agree- its the travel not the destination that needs to be given the attention. knew a lady that if you breathed too loud it broke her train of thought, then when she orgasmed her spark went away

SofaKingFun · 08-06-2010, 06:18 AM

I'm still gonna' have to go with worms.

Brittany, when was the last time that you were checked, baby ?

I'z just goofin', hun.

But I see what's really going on here. You're quite the clever one, aren't you, Ms Lennox?

Yeah, I suffer from the same thing as Brittany. (no. not the worms; the not-so-happy endings). I have yet to meet a provider who can get me off orally, manually, you name it...There's just never, ever a happy ending. Any suggestions ladies?

*chuckles*

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