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[5T3V3]

I would like to see a List of Services tab added to all providers with check boxes for the ladies to check off a comprehensive list of services they provide and do not provide (including a place to note any upcharge and the amount). [I would make this option available only for members - one more reason to join) I would also like to see these searchable in the search providers function if you are a member. (you could also make it for the members as well and visible to the providers, so that they can check what I client generally wants and make any corrections pre-booking) i.e.- I see that you like BBBJ, you understand that I am CBJ right? oh I didn't know that, but that is ok I don't mind just skipping the BJ.

For example show me the all the blondes that have B-cup breasts and are BBBJ, NQNS, and do ANAL ... or I could use it to sort through what I am looking for that day ... a BNG that is newbie friendly ...


[ ] CBJ [ ] BBBJ [ ] NQBS [ ] NQNS [ ] Anal

[ ] No Anal [ ] OUTCALL [ ] INCALL [ ] Newbie Friend [ ] will refer

[QueenMariah]

WE have it on our showcase

" GFE Provider "

" LITE GFE "

" PSE "

" Check my reviews "

[5T3V3]

you may "think" you are comprehensive and even if you are ... not every girl is. What does GFE mean? ... does that mean you do BBBJ or CBJ ... are you NQNS or are you just CIM or like most girl friends are no CIM ... what I am suggesting in a complete roster of potential services ... every conceivable service that could be provided in a simple check list / check box format and the girl can just simply check off if she is willing to provide or not and what the additional donation might be for it if it is an extra. I have yet to meet a provider that offers something that was not on her profile or doesn't do something that was not excluded by her profile.

You are the perfect case in point Mariah --- I read your Eccie profile which YOU consider to be comprehensive and complete. I see very clearly and in great detail how MUCH your time is worth and yet I have no idea of what is available during that time period. I have no idea if you speak Greek, will BBBJ, are NQNS, will you allow FIV, or will you put TUMA, will you peg, are you MSOG ... and while reviews do help clear things up they still often fail to cover a specific desire a guy might see as a deal breaker ... Because the reviewer never did it with you or the ones who did never wrote a review.

P411
now let's check out your P411 are any of my above questions answered by that ... no ... I do see now that you like respectful men and that we should not discuss anything explicit -- I think you meant (unless of course you were using Latin in which case we should not discuss anything displeasing <<< if you get that joke you are DEFINATELY a geek). Which now tells me that if I were to ask any of the above questions of you, you might be offended and not even see me. So, I am at an impassive, let's see if your reviews might answer our questions.

Reviews
Looking at your first review I see you do BBBJ. I am now 6 or 7 reviews in and I have answered a couple more of the questions above, but I still have not answered even half the above questions. And, that is a really small list. And the longer the length of time I plan to spend, the more questions or things I will want to know about, so the list will grow.

you are the perfect example of why we actually need a services page. not that you failed to write a good profile ... in fact ... you wrote a fairly detailed profile and have many reviews and even off site additional sources to back that up ... and yet, in all its detail glory, it fails to answer many of the basic questions we as Johns tend to have about providers. Which is exactly the reason I suggested such a page in the first place. thank you for helping me make my point.

[Luvs2Purrr]

All stated by the OP, could be good in some ways and bad in other ways. I don't know the whole story behind Redbook getting off the web, but I'm sure it has something to do with LE and too much info being allowed on the Providers profile. I'm sure this is also the main reason why P411 has changed to make sure this does not happen too their site as well. It's actually a little disappointing that Eccie has changed their limitations on photos. It doesn't leave any imagination or fantasy of meeting someone new for the first time. If you don't like what someone has to offer after meeting them the first time...then just don't go them anymore. It's that simple. That's the bad.

The good in this....yes, it would be easier to search for the right person that you might want to see. But you may also miss out on a great opportunity of someone that doesn't have their list updated etc.

Just my 2 cents!

[papadee]

Originally Posted by Cyndi Lyn

...If you don't like what someone has to offer after meeting them the first time...then just don't go them anymore. It's that simple...

Why should I spend my resources to find out that I'll have a bad time on the 1st meeting? I've never understood that logic. With the right info beforehand, I can make the right choice the 1st time.

I understand and accept why NR, P411 and others have changed. I accept that some providers don't want their activities disclosed. And I even understand how some try to tempt you with "open-minded", "fetishes welcomed", etc, and then you get nothing. That's all part of the game. But for some of us, knowing beforehand is how we make our decisions. And while I may miss out on a nice provider, she also misses out on me (which probably isn't missing too much).

[Luvs2Purrr]

Originally Posted by papadee

Why should I spend my resources to find out that I'll have a bad time on the 1st meeting? I've never understood that logic. With the right info beforehand, I can make the right choice the 1st time.

Have you never seen a provider before where after you have seen her a few times and you both felt comfortable with each other that she actually did something that you really wanted but never thought she would ever do and that is the reason why she does not list it?

[papadee]

Originally Posted by Cyndi Lyn

Have you never seen a provider before where after you have seen her a few times and you both felt comfortable with each other that she actually did something that you really wanted but never thought she would ever do and that is the reason why she does not list it?

Yes I've never seen a provider with a "secret" menu for clients she becomes comfortable with. If I can't find out beforehand, I'm not apt to make an appt. I have found out through forum talk like this, providers who I had no interest in before, but they opened up in the forums & it caught my attention. And I want to be clear that I'm not only after that one particular "something". The act itself is not the point. It's the openness & willingness to stretch limits that I find exciting. It may take 5 visits before we try it. But knowing in advance that it's available will keep me coming back.

[sexymaid_69]

Even P411 is requiring us to remove any sexually specific acronyms from our ads and profile pages.
They're concerned about the legality of that in spite of the fact that they're based in a country where escorting is legal.

A lady may put that sort of "menu" on her personal website but if a nationally known website is now disallowing that sort of marketing it makes one think it might just be safer to do the same on all of our profiles.

You know guys, if it's that important to you to know a ladies entire menu why not just write beforehand and ask?

Oh right!
If she doesn't know you already she won't answer those sorts of questions.....

Kind of a Catch22 going on huh?

Do your homework,.... research and ask, that's about all that's legal nowadays.

[LuckOfTheOrient]

I understand where you are coming from,
but a checklist of service is still not the end all be all.
Remember that this is a YMMV industry.
Even if you find someone you can check off all you are looking for there is no guarantee you will still get them.
Bad breath.
Sore anus.
Recent dental work.

[papadee]

Originally Posted by LuckOfTheOrient

I understand where you are coming from,
but a checklist of service is still not the end all be all.
Remember that this is a YMMV industry.
Even if you find someone you can check off all you are looking for there is no guarantee you will still get them.
Bad breath.
Sore anus.
Recent dental work.

But that's the truth of the hobby in general. You can show up and be turned down at the door. Some of us use ROS/Services to make our decision. If she doesn't want to go through with anything, I'm not going to force it.

[Prolongus]

Originally Posted by sexymaid_69

Even P411 is requiring us to remove any sexually specific acronyms from our ads and profile pages.
They're concerned about the legality of that in spite of the fact that they're based in a country where escorting is legal.

A lady may put that sort of "menu" on her personal website but if a nationally known website is now disallowing that sort of marketing it makes one think it might just be safer to do the same on all of our profiles.

You know guys, if it's that important to you to know a ladies entire menu why not just write beforehand and ask?

Oh right!
If she doesn't know you already she won't answer those sorts of questions.....

Kind of a Catch22 going on huh?

Do your homework,.... research and ask, that's about all that's legal nowadays

Escorting is legal in the U.S. You can even put it as your occupation on your tax return. I say "legal" in a companionship sense, sans "activities".

And to find your Activities, I prefer you ladies list them somewhere: your ads, Showcase, website instead of us guys relying on your reviews for them. The reviews may be incorrect, including things you don't do and leaving out the ones you will do. It's always better cumming from the lady...

[virgben]

P411 removed the list of activities because of chnges in the host country's laws...

[QUOTE=sexymaid_69;1056469214]Even P411 is requiring us to remove any sexually specific acronyms from our ads and profile pages.
They're concerned about the legality of that in spite of the fact that they're based in a country where escorting is legal.

[virgben]

P411 removed the "activities list" because of changes in the host country's laws...

[sexymaid_69]

Originally Posted by virgben

P411 removed the "activities list" because of changes in the host country's laws...

Exactly! Those changes being that while it is legal to be an escort and sell sex it is now becoming ILLEGAL to buy it and advertise specific services.

They are in effect going after the clients and making it more difficult to conduct a legal business.

And yes, escorting in itself is legal in the US.
But you try to tell a judge it's not prostitution and you're only selling your time and companionship when you have CIM and RCG listed on a menu on your website......

And as for ladies listed a "menu" on their own website...
There have been MANY cases over the years wherein a ladies own website has been used against her in not only prostitution cases but domestic court cases as well, print outs of a menu are very damaging in these cases.

Once again it's a Catch22 situation.
A lady wants her advertising to be as successful as possible, gentlemen want to know what activities are available.


No offense guys but if it comes down to my overall safety vs your not seeing me at all
OR...
choosing to find out more specific details in other ways.


Oh well, I for one would rather be safe than sorry.

[papadee]

Originally Posted by sexymaid_69

And as for ladies listed a "menu" on their own website...
There have been MANY cases over the years wherein a ladies own website has been used against her in not only prostitution cases but domestic court cases as well, print outs of a menu are very damaging in these cases.

Would you link me some of the prostitution cases? I can understand them being used in domestic cases (child support, custody, etc) because the burden of proof would be lower. But just having a website, describing yourself as an escort, w/o acronyms & services would seem to bring the same scrutiny, especially if they can then track you to sites like this.