Screening?

[Kilgore.Trout]

Genuinely curious. I have only been in the hobby about a year and seen 9 women (6 local, 1 traveler, 1 while I was traveling, and a porn star). They have had various degrees of screening requirements. I recently joined ECCIE and have seen so many rants and pushback about that. I’m not sure I understand the concern. I worked in roles that involved credit/ID theft investigations for a few companies, so I am not stupid to ID theft. I would typically blur my driver’s license number. So what are the concerns?

[Kilgore.Trout]

My personal favorite is reference checks with other providers. I set up a hotel meet with a woman i had never met in Columbus, OH. I checked with the references I gave her to make sure she had contacted them. Reverse check, in a way. I didn’t want to walk into a sting.

[CatMan4u]

Personally if they can't or won't except two recent providers references or my eccie handle i simply move on
YES i do understand the safety concerns or issues. They don't give us any personal information and they change their numbers and names quit often

[Kilgore.Trout]

I have found that most local ones are okay with the provider reference.

[yourdesire]

Originally Posted by CatMan4u

Personally if they can't or won't except two recent providers references or my eccie handle i simply move on
YES i do understand the safety concerns or issues. They don't give us any personal information and they change their numbers and names quit often

I am willing to give everything I ask for

[yourdesire]

Originally Posted by Kilgore.Trout

I have found that most local ones are okay with the provider reference.

My thing on provider references is that if I don't know the provider then how do I know it's real.

[CatMan4u]

There are some very sincable providers out there yet
What yourdesire said about not knowing some of the providers can be fixed if others would participate in the conversations on here and would also get more business

[KCFalcon77]

Originally Posted by CatMan4u

There are some very sincable providers out there yet
What yourdesire said about not knowing some of the providers can be fixed if others would participate in the conversations on here and would also get more business

Peruse not only this local board but some others and the national board, and you'll see why many ladies don't participate more. Its a two way street, and while I refer to the men here as "gents" there are alot that are NOT gentlemen..

[Kilgore.Trout]

Originally Posted by yourdesire

My thing on provider references is that if I don't know the provider then how do I know it's real.

Yeah. I can see that. Most of the providers I have been seen have been direct referrals so they already know each other. I think I’m a bit of dream client. So it hasn’t been an issue.

Generous, clean, kind, moderately handsome helps.

[Kilgore.Trout]

Originally Posted by yourdesire

My thing on provider references is that if I don't know the provider then how do I know it's real.

Sounds like I need to book you.

[yourdesire]

Originally Posted by Kilgore.Trout

Sounds like I need to book you.

I agree*wink*

[DallasRain]

I always ask for a recent provider reference,her contact info and some way she will remember you

I dont see alot of new guys,but thats my main requests for screening

safety is job one!

[KellyKiss]

Never understood why some providers require ids maybe they run them or something *shrugs shoulders*