shy guys

[yeaaaa]

So I probably come off more shy than most, and some (not many) of my appointments end up at the seemingly awkward stage of 'so, are you ready to start?', depending a lot on how the provider handles things.

Ladies, what's your best advice for those of us that are too goofy to casually get things goin' once the conversation starts dragging? What are your thoughts? Sometimes it feels a bit off to just start groping - I know it's a silly thing to do or ask, because we all know what's going on, but I'd like to hear your side of it! How do you save appointments with no chemistry?

[MiyagiSnatchSlapper]

Simple..... walk in. Drop your pants. Toss a fortune cookie on the ground. When the chick goes to pick it up, move forward. She will take it from there. You are welcome.

[yeaaaa]

Originally Posted by MiyagiSnatchSlapper

Simple..... walk in. Drop your pants. Toss a fortune cookie on the ground. When the chick goes to pick it up, move forward. She will take it from there. You are welcome.

[justaphase]

Originally Posted by MiyagiSnatchSlapper

Simple..... walk in. Drop your pants. Toss a fortune cookie on the ground. When the chick goes to pick it up, move forward. She will take it from there. You are welcome.

That made me laugh so hard! Is there really any doubt who this is?

[Treetop78759]

That's really hard for me to imagine because I'm very ambitious, confident and have model like looks and a hot body.

I suggest that you keep in mind that it's your session and what you say goes. Make sure you make that crystal clear.

After you set the foundation tell her to squeal like a pig and it will def make things more light hearted. Females love to laugh and love a man who takes control.

Best of luck!

https://youtu.be/9gLN3QoN-q8

[JadeRose]

I honestly can't say I have many appointments with little or no chemistry at all so it seems a bit foreign ha, I also actually enjoy shy or "akwardly" presented men because it turns me on to take control and put them at ease then watch the timidness melt away as I blow their (mind). I think it would be most pleasing in those situations for the provider to discern what the vibe is between the two of you, and intuit the next best thing to do to ensure an enjoyable session. I think if both people are committed to having fun and she is wanting you to enjoy you stay chemistry should flow naturally. Awkwardness is merely overthinking things most of the time, imo. There are exceptions though, sometimes it may just not be a match, in that unforunate case I don't think there's anything with just getting down to business

[MiyagiSnatchSlapper]

Originally Posted by Treetop78759

That's really hard for me to imagine because I'm very ambitious, confident and have model like looks and a hot body.

I suggest that you keep in mind that it's your session and what you say goes. Make sure you make that crystal clear.

After you set the foundation tell her to squeal like a pig and it will def make things more light hearted. Females love to laugh and love a man who takes control.

Best of luck!

https://youtu.be/9gLN3QoN-q8

Now I know how you feel Tree. My mom is sleeping with baby Jesus as well. I had a dream the other night. Turns out your mom is not very happy with some of your lady selections. She said she was very disappointed that you are managing girls. I guess my mom was over heard chatting with an angel. My mom feels bad. But your mom is pissed. Just wanted you to hear it from me. I know it was a dream but it seemed so real.

Then I had a nightmare after I fell back asleep. Jade Rose was doing bad things with Whispers, Rockerrick, Assfucker and WinDixie. Jade was rejecting all of them like a Rockerrick P411 request. It got ugly. I suddenly felt like I was trapped in my dream catcher. Both your mom and mine were laughing. I woke and found myself in a fishing net. Scared the hell out of me.

Tree any help you can offer to help Alana Kay keep her word would be greatly appreciated. Your management skills might just make the difference. As you well know, Alana Kay and I are in love. We simply need to get rid of the lazy ass boyfriend / pimp.

Thank you in advance for your help. Mom says hi.

[winn dixie]

[RetiredNinja]

Some ladies will get things started, and some will wait for you to make the first move.

In every case, you're certainly not the first shy or nervous guy they have ever seen. Believe it or not they are real people you can be open and honest with. She may be nervous too, after all she's never met you before and has ample reason to be a bit wary.

You don't need to start with a grope. Hold her hand, trace around her fingers with yours, stroke her palm and the inside of her wrist. Make eye contact. Kiss her fingertips. It'll happen.