I want to stop.

[lots2020]

Hello!

Been a long time coming (heh), but I want to stop hobbying because 1) Finances and 2) I don't want to risk my (so far) clean record anymore as a person somewhere in
their 20s. That being said, I have several questions:

1: If I stopped cold turkey today, is
there still a chance that LE would come knocking on my door in the future? Months from now? Years? Decades? If yes, then I guess what's the likelihood?

2: What would old text messages on SMS (naive, stupid me used my actual phone a couple times) come back to bite me in the rear? Luckily for me, I've never EVER texted any explicit things like sex, bj, or any of the sort, but I've asked about availability before as if asking for appointments. Idk, kinda paranoid about this one.

3: Same with CashApp/PayPal, is it possible that I've already or could be flagged for soliciting/prostitution already?

Chances are I will regress and give in to desire in the future, but I genuinely do want to stop. Tbh, I'm feeling really paranoid. If anything, I jusy want some reassurance if there is any. Any insight would be highly appreciated

[jan-w]

Although anything is possible, it's highly unlikely any legal jeopardy will come out of anything you've done. Just stop seeing hookers so you won't be worried about it. If you do regress and start seeing gals again, never use anything that connects to your real world and always pay cash.

[Guest041324]

I’m no Lawyer, nor do I play one on TV. Last I was aware conspiracy to get a piece of ass has yet to become unlawful. I could be wrong but I’ll just be careful to not ever have to find out.

[Fizley]

I am making some assumptions here.

Assuming your activity has only been hobbling, you have very little to worry about. Convictions for prostitution in most states is a mistaminenor and at most is probation with community service.

Is it an easy conviction, sure, but the resources required for a conviction is not worth the time for someone they have not caught in the act. Could they make it uncomfortable for you? Sure.

The only way they will come after you at this point is if your a public figure or if you are involved with bigger activities DA want to prosecute.

[Ripmany]

Bull cra

[Ripmany]

Originally Posted by lots2020

Hello!

Been a long time coming (heh), but I want to stop hobbying because 1) Finances and 2) I don't want to risk my (so far) clean record anymore as a person somewhere in
their 20s. That being said, I have several questions:

1: If I stopped cold turkey today, is
there still a chance that LE would come knocking on my door in the future? Months from now? Years? Decades? If yes, then I guess what's the likelihood?

2: What would old text messages on SMS (naive, stupid me used my actual phone a couple times) come back to bite me in the rear? Luckily for me, I've never EVER texted any explicit things like sex, bj, or any of the sort, but I've asked about availability before as if asking for appointments. Idk, kinda paranoid about this one.

3: Same with CashApp/PayPal, is it possible that I've already or could be flagged for soliciting/prostitution already?

Chances are I will regress and give in to desire in the future, but I genuinely do want to stop. Tbh, I'm feeling really paranoid. If anything, I jusy want some reassurance if there is any. Any insight would be highly appreciated

1. Most it cheaper to hobby and get a feel good than get a GFE.
2. So call GFE file all kind crap on you.
2. Just for getting a hooker most I ever heard a cop is 2 miles out side her hotel. Many sting get you show up and it don't matter what you said.
3. There like to get a quick sting it not considered a high crime.
4. Get new pp and CA account. Close them and reopen as need and if using them to hobby you need to get out.

[tandyscone]

The statute of limitations in Nebraska is generally 18 months for misdemeanors and 3 years for felonies. So if you truly stop cold turkey and do not hobby again, you probably don't have anything to worry about after 18 months, assuming that you didn't do anything to up the charge from a misdemeanor to a felony. This is a general observation, not legal advice.

[Ripmany]

Originally Posted by tandyscone

The statute of limitations in Nebraska is generally 18 months for misdemeanors and 3 years for felonies. So if you truly stop cold turkey and do not hobby again, you probably don't have anything to worry about after 18 months, assuming that you didn't do anything to up the charge from a misdemeanor to a felony. This is a general observation, not legal advice.

Some how he scared of the law but not scared to use cash app??

[DNinja69]

Originally Posted by Betsy

I’m no Lawyer, nor do I play one on TV. Last I was aware conspiracy to get a piece of ass has yet to become unlawful. I could be wrong but I’ll just be careful to not ever have to find out.

Conspiracy to unload a nut maybe lol... Good points though.

[FatCity]

Originally Posted by lots2020

Chances are I will regress and give in to desire in the future, but I genuinely do want to stop.

Whats done is done, but if you just want to STOP....

Do some introspection on WHY you visit providers and what kind of charge you get out of it. Its not all based out of physical needs. We all start out with that in mind, of course, but there is a lot of new car excitement with the setup, meet, how she makes you feel....blah blah.
...what draws me to big tittied redheads?
...why do I go after tiny black chicks with big asses?
....what does a cute girl in a bob represent to me?
On and on, uncovering things in your psyche to figure out the synapses you have wired from puberty and make you vulnerable (if you arent aware of it)

I find myself messaging providers and sugar babies just for the sport of fishing out of habit...ITS ADDICTIVE.
"The chase"
When you stop, it feels like you're missing out on something/the party...
That "missing out" is a deficiency somewhere else in life. The attention you can get from multiple providers pinging you is a rush

I was able to use encounters to do a deep introspection on myself/life, what I was seeking, what each one provided, to figure out what actually makes me tick. It really helped me focus on boosting my self esteem, vision and belief in myself and clearly defining what brings satisfaction to me.

[winn dixie]

Chances are you're already on a "list" plus you have posted reviews.
Think about....

Countries with no extradiction??

[Michael8219]

@FC, if you run a heart catheter you will find the aorta generally makes you tick. A good prostate massage might get you close in your tick assessment as well.

OP, follow the good advice here and relax.

@wd extradition maybe? Or countries with extra dicktion: Costa Rica Mexico Colombia Thailand philippines?

[winn dixie]

Oopsie

[FatCity]

I used to buy guns via private sales just for the hell of it. After buying one, i would immediately be looking for the next one. Im not even a guy that goes the range much. I just wanted to have such and such firearm cuz it was cool and I liked travelling, meeting people face to face, maybe a lil danger involved and acquiring something cool. That same exhilaration I later found in whores. All different types of ladies from all types of backgrounds. Yeah, it was sexual but I found that it allowed me to flex my masculinity in ways that would be frustrating in a relationship. I could be this superman to these lowly girls with how I hosted, playing into this persona....not to mention the whole crapshoot aspect of their shitty comms, the meet, whether or not you're walking into an ambush, hearing their stories, creating a new (adventure)story of your own....and for the most part WE are the ones in control of these situations. Its like a Westworld vacation but with whores. Hell yeah that will give you a dopamine rush hard to leave behind.

So for you to QUIT, you cant just go cold turkey. You have to determine what it is you're doing and everything you get out of it

[ben dover]

So Lots 2020, how's it going? I see you were logged on here today.