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Maleman · 08-12-2011, 08:19 AM

Found a local provider and not wanted to share her?

I'm just wondering if some hobbiest would ever consider not reviewing a lady who is top shelf, but somewhat UTR. This way limiting the volume of her business.

Now I would never, never think of such a thing! You?

Have a great weekend peeps!

Guest052115-1 · 08-12-2011, 08:35 AM

Simple answer - No.

I consider this a hobby, or an escape from real life. To me, hording a lady for yourself is too real, or, too much like a relationship. Not to mention, I also assume that the lady is providing because she needs/wants the extra money. So, why would I want to impede her ability to make money?

Outdoorsman · 08-12-2011, 10:33 AM

No, would never do that, infact I used to do the opposite. Everyone knows my ATF, just look at my prior reviews. I just do not write reviews anymore, although I have had few dawgs ask me lately to start writing again.

What you are describing is more like a relationship, if I get involved with a person I become very monogamous and I expect the same. Nothing wrong with swingin or having a provider for an SO, just not my cup of tea. A lady I am not in a committment with, can see whoever she wants, more power to her, is my philosophy. Cuz I am certainly gonna see others. Once a committment is made everything changes for me. If I were to be in a relationship I want the lady to desire to be with me, not manipulate or force her by limiting her income. I want her to be as happy as possible and wealthy and still desire to be with Outdoorsman, I want to be loved, not her only choice. It seems guys that would withhold info for the reason you are implying would be to manipulate or force the lady to see him more often due to limited income.

I have had some wonderful experiences in this hobby, why would I want to horde that all to myself? When I wrote reviews I always asked and gave deference to the lady's desire to be UTR or not.

CiaoBitchezz! · 08-12-2011, 03:53 PM

If she finds out you like her that much, she will use you, abuse you and feed on your bank account. Then in a few weeks you will be posting an alert when she leaves you for the next sucker. Whomever she is must be a damn good actress! Dont forget its fantasy, it wasnt real. Seek help if you think she really "felt" it.

Maleman · 08-13-2011, 01:34 PM

I guess the "cootie factor" is something in the back of my mind. Another thread maybe on high volume vs. low volume?

Thanks for the replies, would love to hear more input!