Fetlife: yay or nay

[ArisRose]

Nay

[Sexy Katrina]

I think it depends on what you are looking for. There is a mixture of people there like any site. Some are just bat shit crazy( I know I gained a stalker) and some are just normal people who love the fetish lifestyle. I do not think you should you use it as a tool for work. It should be used to gain and share bdsm information with others. In my opinion.

[ArisRose]

I call myself using it for some freaky encounters (i like public sex) but its so full of fakes and creepers....and other traits which are not to my liking.

[Ms. Athena]

I adore Fetlife it has giving me a lot of insight on how the kinky mind works. I have never used it for hook ups thought.......With FetLife anything goes and your not judged on there for being a perv or wanting to try something new. For ones wanting to explore and learn a different walk of life it is a great tool.......For a booty call try POF.....lol

[captnzen]

A screaming waste of time. A lot of provocative come-ons only to find a lot of BDSM hogwash rituals that make the Masonic order seem like an improv group. Protected by, sort of collared by, etc.

[DallasRain]

whats pof???

[it's_just_me]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

whats pof???

Plenty Of Fish. Free dating site.

[Capt. Lincoln F. Stern]

Like any site, there are real people, and flakes...have never checked out POF, but FL is nice for very open minded people

[Deviant Bastard]

as worthless as collarme.com

no one is real.

[setman]

Fetlife..for kinksters by kinksters.

[ElisabethWhispers]

Originally Posted by Deviant Bastard

as worthless as collarme.com

no one is real.

I've always heard that collarme.com is a waste of time. However, there are a lot of people that really like fetlife.

I'm not very active on there. Never have been. Don't know what the future might bring, though.

[Guest042015]

CM is a joke.... But I know some people that have made lasting relationships there.

FL is not as bad, but its still wonky at best. I have quite a few friends from FL but they are the exception not the rule. I do attend several groups and play parties that I found on FL....

And sometimes I take hobbiests to enlighten them, when the parties come up(monthly) I usually have a request or two to tag along from gents that know me well enough to know what all I'm into(its funny to have the host and a few select others know that its a p4p situation and I'm having an appointment while I'm hanging out with my friends!)

I find the acceptance level with the kink crowd is more than with vanilla folks(as far as the hobby is concerned) and its really refreshing to have minimal judgement from a large group of people.

There are a couple groups on FL pertaining to pros' but of course I don't have the balls to out myself like that- but I have thought about it on more than one occasion!

How many of your guys that belong to those sites are friends with providers or hobbiests? I have to admit I have a couple gents that are my friends on there- but then again its just another carefully drawn partial picture of me.

[txcwby6]

A fetish to one person is likely a lifestyle to another. I've cruised FetLife and became frustrated with, as noted by another poster, the fakes (some scammers and others trying to get you to click on a sponsored website, etc...). First time I got tied face down on a milking board was thru a similar site. Led to some other explorations too! Still, if you're seeking a particular type of activity it's nice to know that sites like FetLife exist.

[Guest070818-1]

Yay, I love fetlife. Collarme is just way too over rated.

[technoid_x]

Fetlife is ok, Collarme well it's just collarme.