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Originally Posted by shortkake
... if ladies get any calls where the guy wants bdsm with him being the dom? ...
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Originally Posted by Submissive Angel
The more you know and see someone the more you can trust to indulge in the role play. ... I would agree that it would be hard to go into extremes especially with someone you just met.
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yes, trust is ultimate in such an encounter or relationship.
while i'm not a true dyed in the wool BDSMer, i have been the dominate guy in many encounters w/ providers - but mostly after several encounters so that there is some level of trust.
the only time it was on a first encounter - the provider i met was a close friend of another provider that i had visited many times. she assured me that provider #2 would do as i wished [of course, w/in limits] and assured provider #2 that i was a trustworthy guy.
i contacted provider #2 before our encounter and told her [not asked] to leave the door unlocked, to be naked & kneeling on the floor facing away from the door, and to be blindfolded. i entered the room, locked the door, and directed her pleasuring and deliteful actions for the next 55 minutes. only just moments before i left did i let her take the blindfold off.
i continued to visit both providers for several years more, mosly one-on-one, but occasionally both of them w/ provider #2 being "our" sub.
ahhh, the memories.
shortkake, good luck in finding the submissive delites it appears you are searching for!