Bareback Question from a new girl - told I'd get bad review if I didn't do bareback greek

[Jenna Luvin]

I admit that I don't know how to do this business. I've met three wonderful men from eccie since last night and enjoyed spending time with them.

But just about an hour ago I had a very bad experience, so I'd like to put myself out here on the line and admit that I don't know what I'm doing or if I'm doing things the way they should be, so please I ask you for advice.

First, I met someone who said they were "Duncan Idaho" and I have his texts saying that he messaged me at eccie to prove it was him. My friend Natalia told me to check messages but I didn't and now I see that no message came to me from anyone called "Duncan Idaho." So this person lied to me.

Then in the session which I thought went well because he got off just fine I was pressured for bareback sex and this person said it is expected and its not something you can charge extra for.

This person whoever he was made me feel very ashamed and uncomfortable. I might not be strong or tough enough for this business I guess. When he left he texted me that it wasn't a good session because I tried to upsell him for bareback. What am I supposed to do? Everyone is asking for it and I don't know if its expected or not. That's why I'm asking.

I wanted to make friends here and play but I'm not sure and I wish I knew who the nice guys were, because now this person said he's going to write a bad review and yet I did everything he said except agree to bareback for my standard rate.

And i'm not even sure this man was "Duncan Idaho" or just someone claiming to be him.

Sorry I'm just trying to learn and if I decide to keep doing this I'll know better what to expect. Thank you.

[Boltfan]

Holy crap. Duncan Idaho is back.

If this business is something you need to do, know there are manipulating assholes out there. Do your best to screen, verify handles, use p411, anything YOU need to do to feel comfortable. Know that some choices of screening may reduce potential customers BUT your safety is most important.

It is a balancing act for sure. And we wish you luck.

[bobo1cg]

You never have to do anything that you don't want to do. If you don't want to do bareback then don't be pressured into doing it. There will always be guys out there that will ask for it. Especially if you are new and unaware of regular practices. Just remember this it your business/body and you have the last say at what happens. Do be afraid of a simple NO review threat simply because u dont offer what he wants. Happy Hobbying and i hope you stay safe out there

[Texas653678]

Ugh... sorry to hear this. You need to find another gal in the ladies area that can help you with your screening process otherwise you are in for a rough ride. Be careful, stay safe...

[1blackman1]

Did you bareback him?

[bobo1cg]

Originally Posted by 1blackman1

Did you bareback him?

don't answer that! lol

[MarineButch]

I too am going to out on a limb here.
There are some screwed up fucktards out there that are bullying some of these ladies and are just down right dangerous.
YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE
When the ladies don't feel safe and are concerned that some low life dickwad is going to try and blackmail them it's getting out of hand.
Ladies, if one of these small dick wad pullers tells you he is going to write you a bad review PUNT his ass out of the place.... If you call me I WILL share some time with you and then
I WILL review you....
If you are good/ great that's what I will write. But if you are not, I will say that in the review.
Ladies, NEVER SACRIFICE YOUR SAFETY ... I count on you being here so that I can enjoy your company.
Sorry about the rant, but I just had a session with a fairly new provider who told me how some have pressured her the same way.. She told them fuck off and has not had any push back from the bastards that threatened her the same way.
JUST PISSES ME OFF !!!
MarineButch

[Sinful Pleasure]

There are plenty of very nice and VERY fun gentlemen on this site, but there are also several dumb fucks who try to make their own rules. At the end of the day, it is YOU BODY, YOUR BUSINESS, YOUR LIFE!! Do not ever do anything you are not comfortable doing. The dumb fucks will go away when ignored.
Have fun! Stay safe!!

[Guest032117]

No. Bareback is not a standard business practice. Whoever the guy was needs to be barebacked in the ass with a barbed wire cock and pay extra for it too. Do not offer bareback, not even for extra money. Feel free to PM me for advice as needed. The type of guy you encountered is the lowest of the low as far as bottom feeders in the hobby. They prey on new girls and their ignorance.

[Randall Creed]

Tell these old, little dick fucks to go DIRECTLY to hell when they ask you for any bbfs or bb greek. Directly...to hell. Don't pass GO. Don't collect $200.

Fuck them (not in THAT way, but the go to hell way). Your safety and comfort zone should be YOUR priority over their risky, self serving scare tactics, because if you catch something or get pregnant, YOU WON'T BE ABLE TO FIND THESE FOOLS.

[Prince Akeem Of Zamunda]

Learn how to screen before you start meeting with clients

The money can wait

[iquit]

OK. A couple of things, you seem to have a low self esteem that he is trying to take advantage of. That is a long term problem that is going to be a bigger issue for you in this line of activities.

Second - as most have said, never ever entertain the kinds of people who threaten you with anything if you don't do as they ask. Once u entertain that sort of behaviour, it only gets worse.

Third and most important - there are more guys on here who practice safe sex than those who don't so choose your niche wisely.

[Guest020720]

Let me just tell you that before I ever started doing this for real, I read everything there was to read on the stickies that I could to try and understand this business.

Then I figured out how to screen, verify clients, (Not just seeing that they exist on a hobby board), and then making myself a board presence.

Offering bareback sex is not standard practice. And greek aka anal, is usually offered at an additional rate, for the record.

You are brand spanking new and clients are gonna be blowing up your phone. You need to learn how to screen and check with girls that have seen the guys who are asking to see you and figure out how to get on Preferred411.com and get verified as a provider on this site.

Get that shit done and it will be a profitable business for you on here.

[stumpychump]

Like others have stated reach out to one of the ladies and get some pointers. If you do not feel comfortable doing something don't do it, and don't let some jackass try and exploit you.

[APerfectCircle]

You can do what you want and charge what you want. Don't feel pressured into stuff. Hobbying has some similarities with real life, and one of those similarities is that people who make you feel like shit just because you care about yourself are not worth being around.