verification whats the issue

[ShelaMarie]

I'm a little frustrated bc it seems like I rarely get a response to a verification pm or text. Is this happening with anyone else? Shouldnt we all try to work together on this. Our safety is at risk.

[bawdyboy]

From what i hear this is common! Like some providers thinks they have owership and keeps hobbies from seeing other clients. I agree and you all should work together for a safer playground.

[ShelaMarie]

I know and I don't like that. that's bad sportsmanship, it's horrible

[Worldtravler]

Originally Posted by bawdyboy

From what i hear this is common! Like some providers thinks they have owership and keeps hobbies from seeing other clients. I agree and you all should work together for a safer playground.

Agree! Another if your not part of there network of friends good luck. Some just like to try to keep there clients from getting some strange and there worry the client might not return.

[Selena25]

its not just you Sarah it is getting harder and harder to get references some are good about it but most have serious jealousy issues it pisses me off I dont understand the problem this a playground we all play there not your boyfriend ECT....at the end of the day they all go back home to there wife's lol I have just gotten to the point if the client gives me a reference to one of the providers that are selfish I just refuse to take the reference

[Ginger Doll]

I hate that, too! I experience it a lot while touring, especially. Local girls are resentful of travelers coming in sometimes.

I always try to return references asap. I know how it feels to lose a date because a client couldn't be verified... So frustrating.

I recommend guys join preferred411, because their references are stored on their profile. It saves a lot of waiting and bypasses cockblockers.

Sometimes when all else fails, I will have the client put the pressure on a reluctant reference by saying, "Please let (provider) know to expect a PM/email/text from me. I'd love to meet you, but I cannot until I receive her confirmation." That way, the non-cooperative escort risks offending her client by not answering.

[scooter]

Ive noticed that the playground on the eccie board has gotten smaller as well...less posting by a lot of the newer providers...not as much playfulness going on...personalities play a big part in seeing ladies as well...its part of that gfe that guys like...like going to a friend with benefits house...scoot

[TechOne]

Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

Sometimes when all else fails, I will have the client put the pressure on a reluctant reference by saying, "Please let (provider) know to expect a PM/email/text from me. I'd love to meet you, but I cannot until I receive her confirmation." That way, the non-cooperative escort risks offending her client by not answering.

I usually only give my best two references and they know who they are to me, and I ask the new girl to confirm who they received their okay from so that I can thank them properly at a later date...visitors are always happy to comply, but a few locals will not tell me how they verified me, so I usually don't revisit.

Lately I have only been seeing my favorites and not TOFTT with a new girl, although one or two are tempting...

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by TechOne

I usually only give my best two references and they know who they are to me, and I ask the new girl to confirm who they received their okay from so that I can thank them properly at a later date...visitors are always happy to comply, but a few locals will not tell me how they verified me, so I usually don't revisit.

Lately I have only been seeing my favorites and not TOFTT with a new girl, although one or two are tempting...

I was in Florida over the Thanksgiving holiday trying to verify a client there. After many back and forth PM's extracting the necessary info, I found his reference on preferred411. I messaged her, it showed "read" in my sent folder, no response. Next thing I know, I get a PM from him saying, "I can't see you now. Stephanie will be mad at me."

LOL! I responded that maybe some one forgot to inform her that she was a hooker, not his girlfriend.

[Guest030317]

Originally Posted by scooter

Ive noticed that the playground on the eccie board has gotten smaller as well...less posting by a lot of the newer providers...not as much playfulness going on...personalities play a big part in seeing ladies as well...its part of that gfe that guys like...like going to a friend with benefits house...scoot

Lots of reasons for this:

Hostile environment to newbies

Constant demeaning attacks on providers

Misinformation being spread about providers health

General callousness towards anyone outside coming into the hobby.

Biased uninformed propaganda

And other issues that plague a higher traffic forum.


HAIL!!

[siberia]

Damn,the ladies in New Orleans
are very prompt.
I would screen the guy like he
was new if the lady is avoiding
a reference.

[1inamillion205]

I'm right there with ya'll. Luckily, the lovely ladies I saw were good about giving references. I just wonder if there is a time limit on them. Makes things difficult if you can't play regularly.

[bladtinzu]

Originally Posted by Sarahlonglegs

I'm a little frustrated bc it seems like I rarely get a response to a verification pm or text. Is this happening with anyone else? Shouldnt we all try to work together on this. Our safety is at risk.

P411 averts this.. But nothing solves this problem faster than giving the hold back hooker the good old cunt punt..

[ShelaMarie]

Well I got kicked off p411, apparently I wasn't logging in as often as they required. So eccie is my only playground, so I wish some of the ladies would get it together

[Worldtravler]

Originally Posted by Sarahlonglegs

Well I got kicked off p411, apparently I wasn't logging in as often as they required. So eccie is my only playground, so I wish some of the ladies would get it together

Good luck. Most don't like younger hotter new providers, they feel you might take there business away.