Why is screening so hard for some guys???

[KennedyLayneDFW]

I don't understand why some guys refuse to go through the screening process. My screening is pretty simple. Your name and 2 provider references. If you call me and say that you are "KINGX" from Eccie (just making up that handle) and are NOT WILLING TO PM ME from your handle, then how am I to know who you really are???

Im sorry, but I work from my home & if I can't feel safe it's not happening.

Sorry to be such a grouch today, but Im just getting frustrated with these guys telling me they are 'so and so' from Eccie but refuse to give me any references, or PM me from their account.

Hugs,
Kennedy

[TinMan]

If they aren't willing to submit to that minimal level of effort, then they likely aren't who they say they are.

[guest043013-2]

PM from my ECCIE account is standard operating procedure for me. References are usually an issue, but a simple yes or no is all I ever ask of a lady.

Basically, if they can't provide you any rudimentary information for you to feel safe, then most email programs hae an ignore/spam/block selection to cut off contact.

[pyramider]

If the fucktards do not follow the screening process, whatever it is, don't sweat it. They can still get their jollies from porn.

Now asking for taint is totally different ...

[missblue]

iv been having the same problem latly. if they cant comply with my minimal screening request i dont sweat it, the next guy will be more than willing. i do love my clients that call and have everything all ready to go and the pm comes emediatly after we speak, now that is a true hobbiest. gotta love it

[samantha thom]

Don't be frustrated. It makes our screening and narrowing down the quality clients we want to see easier. :-) They don't want to be screened, no appointment...as simple as that. And it's never your loss because these guys are probably up to no good anyway.

[pmdelites]

Originally Posted by KennedyLayneDFW

I don't understand why some guys refuse to go through the screening process. My screening is .....

If you call me and say that you are "KINGX" from Eccie (just making up that handle) and are NOT WILLING TO PM ME from your handle, then how am I to know who you really are???

Im sorry, but I work from my home & if I can't feel safe it's not happening.

Sorry to be such a grouch today, but Im just getting frustrated with these guys telling me they are 'so and so' from Eccie but refuse to give me any references, or PM me from their account.

Hugs,
Kennedy

kennedy, i send you hugs so that your day gets better!!!


w/ that said, perhaps some guys refuse to go through a screening process cos they think they are special and dont need to. who knows?? i say dont spend/waste time thinking about why.

so, let's say a guy contacts you and you inform him of your screening policy and ask for info.
then he replies that he doesnt want to work w/ you on it.
just tell him "sorry, i require this info to move forward."
(you could even have a stock initial reply that you use [whether in pm, email, or phone])
you dont have to explain to him why you have a policy or reasons for it.
either they follow your process or they move on. period. end of paragraph. end of discussion.

no tickee, no playee!

hopefully, one of these days/afternoons/nites, i'll be able to give you a hug in person!!!



btw if it were me, i wouldnt publish my screening process in public. i would state in ads, showcase, p411 etc that i have a policy but not disclose what it is.

[txcwby6]

So long as it's a better-known Provider than it shouldn't be an issue. Perhaps some of the reluctance stems from fear of discovery? That Zumba instructor up in Maine that taped her clients while she had sex with them and has now had her client list disclosed might give some Hobbyists shivers. I think it's just another one of the risks associated with the Hobby...one of many. But if you can't accept the risks then you shouldn't be here.

[pyramider]

KennedyL, posting taint will make you forget the screening issues.

[KennedyLayneDFW]

What is taint posting? Am I missing something ?

[Kayleehotchick]

Google is your friend....

[MagicFingers]

Originally Posted by Kayleehotchick

Google is your friend....

In this case, I would have to disagree. /shiver

[Copierguy0]

Originally Posted by pyramider

Now asking for taint is totally different ...

Originally Posted by pyramider

KennedyL, posting taint will make you forget the screening issues.

Originally Posted by KennedyLayneDFW

What is taint posting? Am I missing something ?

It Taint Pu$$y
It Taint A$$hole
It's just Taint, that thin barrier that seperates the 2

Now post some Taint lol

CG

Yes, I know...... I'm just as twisted as that Pyramider guy. lol

.

[pyramider]

That is doubtful.

[Busyboy_2006]

Kennedy, you probably aren't missing much by those who won't go through a fairly painless process for your safety.

This what most of them probably look like anyway....