Sounds like you would be considered a "Newbie" by most ladies, even though your join date is from five years ago. You might want to try these two things.
1. Take a look at this thread "Newbies and the ladies that love them". Here is a link to page #12. This would be a good place to start your research.
https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php...ewbies&page=12
2. The OH2 site (OURHOME2.NET) has an "In Search Of" function". ECCIE use to have this as well but got rid of it about five years ago. Get an account on OH2 and post your situation over there. There are several ladies that post ads on OH2 that say they don't have an age restriction.
In a large hobby city like Dallas, you should be able to find what you are looking for if you are willing to come up with the donation. Good luck.