What would you do, my friend seeks advice.

[Pepper_Springfield]

So I just got off the phone with Las Vegas, who coincidentally, is in Las Vegas. He wanted me to ask you guys for some advice. He took a girl with him to Vegas. He bought her clothes for the trip, paid her airfare, food/dinners, and gave her 1000 a day, and gambling money.

Night one at Vegas, she's acting sneaky, texting the whole time during the trip, kinda ignoring him and then when they finally get back to the room, he gets none. Zero, zilch, nada. He let's it slide. Maybe she's tired.

Night 2 in Vegas when they get back to the room he again gets nada. She thinks he has fallen asleep and is texting under the sheets, again, acting shady. At this point he asks, "Why are you texting under the sheets, instead of just not being sneaky?" Then she replies, "What? I'm not your girlfriend. Im an escort." He leaves it at that.

Today, he decided he would have a talk with her about the situation. He has held up his end of the deal, but she has not. She then tells him, he has been paying her for time only.

He sent her home and he said he was going to stay and have fun on his own. She forgets her purse and then comes back and starts trying to kick the door down, instead of just knocking and she makes a scene. He tells her to be an adult, that she can just stay until it's time to go to the airport. She says no and leaves. Now, she's the angry one and is threatening all kinds of things. He doesn't want to go onto a public computer, but will post when he gets back. He just wants to know what you would do in this situation?

[sanantonioman37]

The only thing I would ask is, what was the explicit agreement made between them when they discussed this trip/overnight/weekend?

Now if things happened as they were relayed to you. Then I think you just stated his case very nicely. An agreement was made and one person did not live up to their side of it.

I would like to hear the other person's side of this dilemma.

[Precious_b]

+1

Maybe he didn't nail down all the details. We all know that is where the devil is.

And if so, and the party of the second part isn't holding up their end, he did good.

Apparently she isn't seeing that she appears to have gone through what was provided.

Bummer.

[Pepper_Springfield]

I know him very very very well. He's a totally down to earth cool dude, when your ready to play he'll play. The agreement is the same as any other date. You know? He's reviewed her here. It's not like it was something new. He had been seeing her for 5 months.

[sanantonioman37]

SMH, this is some fucked up shit because of the amount of time and resources spent on this trip.

First, I would let the 2 parties try to work it out themselves before this thread blows up into a feeding frenzy of he said she said. Because once the parties become known, people will start to take sides.

[Guest081519]

That Fucking Sucks!

We are all adults and we all have free will. She has the right to not give up the kitty and be an asshole.

He also has the right and free will to throw her ass on the street. Perhaps have security take her away for harassing him. She already has been compensated for her time. She can buy her way home.

[wheels69]

that what us nice guys get for being nice

leave her ass in Vegas
hope I never meet this one, whomever she is

[hornylildevil]

[Mossman]

I wouldn't cry to another provider. I would drop her like the hot rock-head she is.

[bistraight69]

A fool and his money are soon parted.

[Guest041315]

I think he should have taken you Pepper.
Anyway, assuming you received truthful information, he DID get fucked, just not the way he thought. At first it sounded like he didn't know her, but reading your comments it seems he did. Maybe he didn't know her well. Either she was a very good actress, or he is a rather poor judge of character. However, at this point, if it becomes a public issue it will be a no win situation for both. I'm sure many of the guys would want to know who it is though

[macdeft]

you may have to slay a lot of dragons to find your hobby princess so call it a wash because tomorrow's another kickass day

[SofaKingFun]

Well, if it played out as you say it did, Pepper; and I have no reason to doubt what you say....then, at this juncture, I would...

...likely be looking for a new pair of boots because my old, right-side boot would likely be lodged deeply and firmly inside the dark crevasse of the one's hind-end whom has just been kicked-out of my room/life...

...and we all know how fun it is walking The Vegas Strip with only one boot.
be that on your foot or otherwise.

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[Missy Mariposa]

Well my advice to him at this point is to try and salvage/enjoy his trip alone. When he gets back, write a review so that others can avoid this fate.

As a provider here's my "tips" for traveling with a provider:
-Make sure you've seen her a few times, and make sure they weren't 1 hour sessions. To be able to take a trip with them you have to know you can be around them and have fun for long periods of time.

-Once the trip is agreed upon, meet in a private place to discuss the details of compensation for her time and what her travel expenses will be. At this point you could discuss how you think the time breakdown should go, i.e.

"I will be getting up at 9:30, I plan to go on a walk get some breakfast. I would like it if we could have some private time before lunch, go to lunch together, see a site or two, then you're welcome to have some time on your own before dinner where we will meet at X restaurant at X time. After that I thought we could have dessert in the room and call it a night"

and agree/disagree/negotiate it. It doesn't have to be an exact schedule by any means, but a clear understanding of what you as a paying customer wants is necessary.

[guest092513]

who is the girl....we all should know.... I wouldnt want to see her