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commplt · 02-24-2012, 09:07 AM

I posted about a month and a half ago about a married customer that I had sex with. She gave a bad bbbj. After that I tried to distance myself just because she was very attached. If it was just sex I would've been interested in more. However I am not interested in the emotional attachment she wanted.

So we finish the job and it was time for her to pay the final bill. She had been trying to get me back in bed over the last couple months. As she is writing a check she tells me she will write for more if I follow her to the bedroom.

She offered $200.

I did not take it nor did I try to negotiate it.

So my question is what would you have done should I have taken it???

Naughty_Jezabelle · 02-24-2012, 09:16 AM

No if she is already attached or wanting attachment then your best bet is to cut all ties.

Follow the providers model.... "not all money is good money" !!!

satexasguy · 02-24-2012, 10:14 AM

so she paid you? dude you are my hero!

best thing for you to do is run. if you are not interested in a relationship and she is, then get the hell out before she becomes a fatal attraction. been there, done that.

foxyred73 · 02-24-2012, 11:27 AM

commplt.....nothing wrong in being a male provider and she has her needs too and write a review on her and we know that you have it in you...just be safe now

Guest081519 · 02-24-2012, 12:53 PM

Nope, you did the right thing by walking away. Especially since she is an actual client.

Naughty_Jezabelle · 02-24-2012, 08:38 PM

That is not sound advice foxy. The question isn't about him being a provider it is about the complications with her wanting more than just sex when that is not what he wants. And if she paid her he wouldn't be the one writing the review lol

Be flattered that she wanted to pay for your good penis

and move on to someone that isn't drama

atxdream · 02-25-2012, 03:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Naughty_Jezabelle

No if she is already attached or wanting attachment then your best bet is to cut all ties.

Follow the providers model.... "not all money is good money" !!!

Couldn't agree more! You did the right thing. Only thing rose to add would to offer to find a lady or gent that would appreciate her offer of pay for play. Lonely married ladies need loving too.

atxdream · 02-25-2012, 03:16 AM

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Originally Posted by foxyred73

Edited version: Commplt - There is nothing wrong your choice to become a male provider. She has needs as well. If you see her, write a review on her as we know that you have it in you. Be safe.

Here are my issues with that. Never mix your outside business life with the hobby world. Perhaps refer her to someone who can meet her needs, but under NO circumstances should you or the person she hires write a review as she in this scenario would be hobbyist and it is her discretion on whether she would write one; however, this is highly unlikely sinces she's obviously is not on the board. Her husband is also you're client which doubles the breach of ethics in the business/client relationship.

Foxy, no need to thank me on translating your post. I'm happy to help the disabled of the mind.

foxyred73 · 02-25-2012, 12:32 PM

Commpl....you need a spanking for fratiz at work .... My door is open for being bad at work...you can pm ..and you did the right thing working away.

Biggysmalls · 02-25-2012, 12:45 PM

YOU SHOULDA FUCKED HER SILLY !!

TrmaOne · 02-25-2012, 07:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Biggysmalls

YOU SHOULDA FUCKED HER SILLY !!

And have her pay...

Jed Clampett · 02-25-2012, 11:53 PM

Some where .......there is some poor guy wondering why his wife has been making so many atm withdrqawals lately. I would have been interested if she threw in her hubby's golf clubs. Lol

commplt · 02-26-2012, 01:48 AM

Thanks for the advice. I knew walking away was the best thing in this situation. However if she would have offered 1k I probably would have taken it.

If she just wanted to have sex without the emotional BS I would have been up for that too.

As far as her being a customer yeah its not the best thing to do. To risky and I would not do it again.

hornylildevil · 02-26-2012, 02:23 AM

Damn dude.

Commplt you should've waxed that a** until she passed out. Take the money give her the fu** of a lifetime and go about your merry way.

Now the break up might be a little complicated. Please, allow me to assist you. I only charge $100. Everyone wins.

Sorry bud I couldn't resist. You did the right thing.

GentlemanCaller007 · 02-26-2012, 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted by commplt

Thanks for the advice. I knew walking away was the best thing in this situation. However if she would have offered 1k I probably would have taken it.

If she just wanted to have sex without the emotional BS I would have been up for that too.

As far as her being a customer yeah its not the best thing to do. To risky and I would not do it again.

Personally, I, believe you did the best thing by following your instincts! You have more info than anyone else and all those little details no one else has add up to a vibe. Yours said "Run! Get out now!" Of course there is a little part of you that wants to capitulate - what guy doesn't love free money and "free" sex. But her sex was not free; She is taking big risks and is obviously desperate enough for affection to try and buy it??? (Alarm)What woman can't get laid for free whenever she wants?? Something is wrong there. Desperate + Unstable = Dangerous. Who knows what else she's capable of.

Maybe she'll entice you into "just one more time and that's it - no strings" and actually video tape you and black-mail you!!! You could lose your job. Her hubby could shoot you... Whatever, it's not worth it.
P.S. If she adds extra cheese, don't become more interested in the mousetrap!

Two words: Fatal Attraction

More: Always trust your instincts.