Seeking Arrangement

[Guestfivefive]

First, apologies to the mods if this is something I shouldn't be asking about. I've had some recent activity with SA and was wondering if anyone is willing to have a little offline discourse about a few of the girls there. Feel free to PM me. Thanks.

[SweetSuzanna]

I wanna get back on there. If it's safe

[Fsn57]

I tried SA awhile ago, it was a fair amount of work to find what you want.

[BigDeal]

It is work but at times can be very good!!

[boxxman]

I concur with Big Deal. SA success has more to do with the SD than the potential SB. Having said that, one could produce a reliable, discrete, and safe harem, as long as you're not a complete stooge/cheap skate.

[SweetSuzanna]

I tried long ago. Had some really great guys. Just gotta be super careful

[MrNyceGuy]

Curious, whats the typical $$ a SD puts out a month now.

[RocketSurgeon]

Originally Posted by Guestfivefive

First, apologies to the mods if this is something I shouldn't be asking about.

You found an appropriate forum. No apologies needed.

[yourdesire]

Originally Posted by MrNyceGuy

Curious, whats the typical $$ a SD puts out a month now.

I'm curious myself?

[TailHooked]

It really depends on what each think it is worth. I paid rent, utilities and the grocery/pet food bills. Now we went out a lot but I know someone that does that. Just costs for a meal. But when I figure what I paid per hour in the bedroom, I want to go jump off a bridge.

[RocketSurgeon]

Originally Posted by MrNyceGuy

Curious, whats the typical $$ a SD puts out a month now.

That question is about like asking what people pay for a meal when they go out to eat. You've got some people spending $7 at McDonalds, and others spending $100 at Capital Grille.

Most of the women on SA are UTR escorts, prefer p4p or ppm, and the rate per date is 150-400. You might get 20 minutes with them, or you might get 3 hours or even overnight. Some women can command more, or convince guys to pay more. Lots of the guys on SA aren't looking for a real SB arrangement, and just want to treat them like UTR escorts ... hook up once or twice and move on to another one. There's an endless supply of new women on SA, with probably 15-30 new profiles every day in the KC area.

For the real SDs and real SBs, it depends on who they are, what sort of arrangement they have, how wealthy the guy is, how attractive and fun the woman is, what she is willing to put into the relationship, etc. It's common for a total compensation package (bill pay, allowance, gifts, accommodations, etc etc) to average out to $1,000-3,000 per month. I do of course hear about #s less than 1,000, and much higher than 3,000.

[MrNyceGuy]

Crazy. Umm, I think I will just stick to Eccie for my kink. A lot less complicated.

[BigDeal]

SA is little work but the work usually pays off if you stay at it!
Ive met lovely women that are ok with $200 for an evening of fun, and some want more.
Its a game, all depends on how ya play it. The girls on SA are playin and hustlin the same way the girls on eccie are!

[outbound_7]

In marketing to males: Seeking Arrangement (SA) heavily baits their site with fake profiles, TGTBT photos, and robotic auto-messaging that teases guys into paying for their service. After a couple of months, most guys realize there's a serious shortage of actual girls available in their area, often none. For example, if you search Lawrence, or Pittsburg, Kansas (or any other small town) on their site, it will pull up dozens of cute profiles, many showing "online". C'mon, guys, really? Are you gonna' believe there are dozens of hot, willing cuties in these small, rural towns?

In marketing to females: In addition to baiting profiles, SA encourages joining by telling girls they can easily earn $3,000 to $5,000 per month plus tips, world travel, and countless other perks. They don't tell them that maybe 1 in 1,000 men can/will commit more than $300 a month toward this endeavor.

SA is the house, and the house always wins. They are selling a fantasy. They sometimes advertise and even place baited "success stories" right here on eccie and other similar sites.

On rare occassion, our male and female members have posted of some level of success. But for most of us, SA is a rip-off.

Buyer beware, do some serious research!

[MuffLuver]

Never tried SA, but did try Adult Friend Finder many years ago. After a lot of time cultivating potentials and money spent on the membership, I got lucky twice and they were nothing to write home about. In all honesty, I had better luck in civie life.